Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Do girls with BFs flirt with single guys?

I had a crush on this girl who was in grad school with me. Initially, our interaction was basically me giving her career advice, but I sensed that she might be interested in me as well. My crush was strong and she actually asked me to dinner/drinks to say thanks. At dinner, she flirted with me heavily, but gave mixed signals for the remainder of the night. Since then, on several occasions, she has given strong signals that she might be interested - we've rubbed up on each other at the dance floor, she's said things like "I'd like to get to know you" and even said the long-distance thing with her BF isn't working out. She isn't making him up, he does exist. But soon as I try to flirt more, she backs off and says she's in love. I've ignored her for months together, and she's come back and gotten in touch. But the minute I try flirting again, same thing, mixed signals. She flirts with other guys too. Honestly, a part of me wants to at least nail her :) Anyone relate?

Do girls with BFs flirt with single guys?
When I'm in a relationship, I respect my man, that means no flirting unless it's with him.
Reply:This girl is the worst kind of flirt.





The selfish kind.





Flirting does not necessarily mean the opposite sex is pursuing you but she is only looking for her validation and not caring that you (or other guys) are having a good time, too.
Reply:I think she is a user. If she were in love. All this flirting with you and keeping in touch wouldn't be happening. Since it seems to me she is trying to use you. Go for it. Start playing hard to get. Pretend you have lost all interest. Act cold and distant. If she comments on it. Act like you have no clue what she is talking about. If I'm right about her trying to use you. She will try to get in your pants. Once this happens, with actions more than words. Let her know you will not stand for being teased, then not pleased.
Reply:once a cheater always a cheater... id say bang her and let her go
Reply:She is confused. She wants you bad, but she is scared about leading you on. It could be that she is a natural flirt. You just need to ask her strait out what she wants. GOOD LUCK!!!
Reply:It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. She doesn't want to let go of her boyfriend, but she doesn't want to let go of you either. She is probably just confused. If I were you then I would tell her to back off unless she breaks up with her boyfriend.
Reply:girls with boyfriends who flirt with other guys are just insecure. it's like they want to be re issured and when they get that flirt back they love it, but then they back off because it's like they know they are doing wrong, but they still got what they wanted in return feeling good about themselves. Guys are the same way when they have girlfriends well the insecure ones anywho lol.
Reply:I'm going through the same thing. She gives me all kinds of signals but then says that she is with her boyfriend and can't think of me as anything more than a friend.
Reply:she's juz lonely..

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