How to flirt?

i am bad at flirting. well i think i am. i dont know. but when i flirt im normally mean. like he'l lsay something and i'll come back with an insult or something. like you know what i mean? but i laugh or i smile while i say it. so its like a joke. like if i see him i'd be like hey ugly, or hey person i dont like or something like that and hed smile and say hi back. liek he knows im joking. but i dont think guys get it that thats how i flirt.





so im basically asking..





1. do they know thats how i flirt?


2. how do i flirt better without making it totally obvious i like him and without being so mean?


3. what do you guys like that girls do when they flirt?

How to flirt?
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F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.





L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listning.





I- is for interests. Find things you have in commen with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in commen. like what kinds of music you like, movies, ect.





R- is for responible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys are completly confused about girls so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inapropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.





T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.





S- is for smile. BODY LANGUAGE,BODY LANGUAGE,AND BODY LANGUAGE, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back =D.
Reply:Tell him how great the shirt he's wearing is or his jeans or whatever, just make it positive instead of negative. Say something about his hair or sparkling eyes! Or Hey Handsome! They love that! But they do like being complimented on their clothes. I tell men I don't know, "Damn you look good!" They eat it up!!! And I'm not the best looking woman around. Do they care??? Hell no!!! It just makes their day, just like it would yours. Tell them they look really good in that color. Practice on people you don't know. You'll see how it brightens their day. They will will sort of puff up. Next time you get in an elevator with someone, try it.
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