I FLIRT WITH GUYS IN ORDER TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF ???

i'm a flirt.....i love to flirt with guys....most of the time, guys do get the wrong impression that i like them, when i don't....if i flirt with someone, that doesn't mean that i like them....anyways, so when i flirt with guys at work, they end up falling for me....and they end up liking me, and wanna go out with me....but that's not my intention....





i know i'm weird and feel very guilty for doing this....





i flirt with the guys, and when they want me.....then i'm not interested in them anymore....i don't know why i behave this way, i don't try to....it just kinda happens....





i feel like this has something to do with my ex-boyfriend, since i still haven't moved on.....

I FLIRT WITH GUYS IN ORDER TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT MYSELF ???
Flirt with me!!! I will make you FEEL SO GOOD, you will fall in love with me!!!
Reply:you are obviously young (uder 18 i think) you should talk with your Mom, a school counselor, or someone (professional) that can help you help yourself! Good luck.
Reply:Well, if your ex was the one to call it quits, the rejection you experienced called into question your desirability to him, and men in general. So, you're needing validation of your desirability from men, and when they give it to you, you get scared of any potential involvement, and reject them before they have a chance to reject you.
Reply:Stop.
Reply:stop doing it
Reply:you just asked about this like an hour ago..sheez.oi..talk to a therapist, they'll find your underlying causes of self-esteem issues.
Reply:ya i know what your talking about? men at first just want in. do what makes you feel good. be confident, men are putting themselves in the postion to be sucked in. the one man that does fall for the act of flirty girl. that will be the man all want. and he probably treat you bad and youll like him the most. that life. if it didnt work this way it would be borring!
Reply:I do the same for the same purpose. You'll be fine when you can forget about ur ex boyfriend. it's always so tough to overcome the ex-relationships.. good luck.
Reply:keep flirting with guys





are you sexy? hope we could meet in a dinner
Reply:haha i do this too! what's wrong with it? let them fall for you and then simply tell them they got you wrong. it's fun lol
Reply:Just a bit of advice, stop what you're doing. One of the guys you work with might not be so nice and try to push you too far. I know it's great to get a lot of attention from guys, but one thing is sure, you're sending them a signal which says you're available then you don't follow through. That's a lot for any person of any age to swallow. Stop playing with these guys and start respecting yourself.
Reply:why do you do it? I don't know that's obviously only a question you can answer.