Monday, May 4, 2009

Wrong to Flirt?

Me %26amp; a good friend of mine tend to flirt a little, but there's no temptation to go beyond that. I have no feelings for her, and vice versa, other than friendship. I've been out of town for a few months. She got a boob job while I was gone and she wanted to show me her new assets that she was so proud of. Before I could say anything, here come the girls. I froze. Didn't know what to do or say.





I'm married, and made the decision to be committed to my marriage %26amp; husband. Relationships with women for me are a thing of the past, and a chapter of my life that has come to an end. I've drawn a line in the sand that I will not cross.





Sometimes I catch myself being flirted with, and flirting back, and not realizing it. I admit that I like flirting. I would never put myself in a compromising position nor let anything go beyond flirting though. Should I stop hanging around her? Should I keep all females at arms length if the potential to flirt is there? Don't want to cross a line.

Wrong to Flirt?
Nah, sounds like you have it under control and know your boundries...don't end a friendship based on what if's! Just tell her...wow...sorry, that made me uncomfortable...she will be fine...i am sure!
Reply:That seems to be a common thing .... women who have rack jobs want to show off the work ... I just wish someone would show me the work they got done.... I love racks
Reply:you wouldn't be asking this question if you were not thinking about it still, there is nothing wrong with checking out her new puppies.


you don't have to touch just look
Reply:this question is hot, lol





hmm a line in the sand doesn't sound too firm.


if she was just showing off her new boobs, i wouldn't let it end a friendship. as long as you are able to control yourself i see nothing wrong with the situation, so in my opinion you can still be friends.
Reply:Female or male has nothing to do with it, first of all.





Second of all, flirting is a great morale booster. Everyone needs a little flirting in their lives.
Reply:flirting isnt a bad thing at all, as long as you dont push the limits if there is no urge to go beyond flirting and you feel comfortable with that person, then go ahead and flirt, cause trust me being flirted with feels great. Just make sure you dont go beyond that
Reply:um u made a line, yes, you may have stopped your self this time, but you made a line for a reason. Other people have no obligation to your husband, so what's going to stop them from trying to cross the line.
Reply:It sounds harmless


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