I'm a flirt and lately it's become a problem. This guyfriend of mine was flirting with me and I just naturally decided to flirt back. He asked me out and I said no. A month passed and we're friends again, but he thinks I'm a total whore (which I'm not. I teach religious ed!) How can I prevent a problem like this in the future and how do I convince him that I'm not a ho????
I'm a flirt! Please Help????????
It's not you that has the problem, it was him. He thought way to harshly of you. Unless he truly had a reason behind him calling you that, like you screwing every guy you met (i'm not saying you would by the way) then yeah that would be justified. But no it was harmless flirting, everyone does it!!! Don't worry about it tho. You don't have to convince anyone of anything, i they know you and cared for you, they wouldn't think that of you.
Reply:Sounds like if flirting is becoming that big of a problem, you aren't getting the attention you want or need. You have to figure out what's going on for you to act like that and fix it. As for your friend, just talk to him and be honest, he might be just the person to help you figure out things.
Reply:how do u know he thinks about you that way, u r just feeling guilty that u flirted and then refused...i think guys understand polite rejection, if it is for all the right reasons. but is there any reason other than this that the guy would think about u in this way? are u sexually turned on all the time ? then u need to find a partner soon. its not a crime to be horny....
Reply:hmmmmmm.......come on....how on earth you are cared about these tiny pitty stuff, i had a perception that you are a real smart babe........there is no obligation for a person to give importance to filthy shity views of damin hypocratic views and opinions. We should just be concerned with our own souls desire and need to crack them.......if i feel like having fu with different girls, why should somebody else has a grin for that........go ahead dear enjoy your life to fullest and do whatever you feel to...atlast its only and only your life, nobody else gona live it and even experience it.
Reply:you need to go out with him and tell him your problem.. dont hide it tell him the truth .. but why didnt you go out in the first place.. ??
Reply:He flirted with you first. What has he done since then to convince you that he's not a whore?
If this guy has different standards for women than he does for men, I suggest you get him a guide to caves, because that's where it sounds like he belongs.
Reply:I am a flirt too...so don't worry!
Reply:SIMPLE ANSWER: tell him that u flirted with me so i needed to give u back an answer this does'nt make u a HOE
Reply:this to be honest is one of the issues which bugs guys about women at times .... they flirt you .... tease you ..... gives you hope and then ..... nothing ....
firstly if any friend of yours thats important to you to remain as friend ..... STOP flirting with them .... flirt with people who you dont meet alot or see alot .... because you dont want flirting to get into a good friendship ..... as it will never be the same after .....
also dont worry about convincing people about yourself ..... you know what you are .... be confident and enjoy yourself ..... any hey DONOT stop flirting ..... we need you lol
Friday, April 16, 2010
How do u flirt with ur best guy friend?
im hopeless cuz he thinx im just nice but im flirting i mean im a GREAT flirt but i cant seem to do it with him cuz wen i c him then i just cant say anything cuz my heart races andi blush and i just do a llittle giggle i mean its cute but i want to FLIRT WITH HIM!!!!!
How do u flirt with ur best guy friend?
maybe you cant concentrate because you are too hot.
try flirting without your clothes... it works better, you'll see.
Reply:That's funny - that's how my husband %26amp; I fell in love - we worked together %26amp; we were best of friends - we NEVER intended to fall in love with each other - I was in charge of his division %26amp; he is almost 20 yrs older than I am but little by little we both fell in love at the same time - I don't remember having to flirt with him or him having to flirt with me - just tell him how you feel - If you like to flirt %26amp; he has the same feelings about you then he will get the picture - once my husband %26amp; I finally got together THAT'S when all the flirting started %26amp; 10 years later we still flirt like crazy with each other!!!
Reply:Show him your ankle.
Reply:It sounds like you really have a crush on this great guy. Take a minute though to breathe.....and because he is a great friend to you, why is it so hard for you to relate to him? Crushes are someone who we idolize and dream about being that perfect man. Somehow getting to know this guy is sooner or later going to let you down into what you dreamed he would be instead of who he is.....(unless he is Superman, and he is allready taken, he's my husband....) :-) just kidding
Take some time to get to know him, ask him questions, he should love that......Remember important times for him like his birthday, his mother's birthday, etc, to show him you care about him. It isn't what you say that will win over your Superman for you, it's how you act toward him. If you are all over him, then he might just brush you aside, but get to know him, and act like a friend, because that is what you are after, a lifetime friendship, not a one time slumber party.....
Develop your friendship with him and dig a little deeper than an average friend would and make him want to see more of you.
You might even consider asking him out on a date if he is that shy, I have never done that, but would not be held back by me being a woman. Many women ask guys out. If he is gay, then you should just keep idolizing and dreaming for your Superman, but if not, you sound like a great person, so go get him! :-)
I hope the best for you, btw...
Reply:Send him an sms, even if he's in the same room with you. Something cute. Try acting a bit child-like or silly or just not the regular you around him. Make fun of him, physically play with him.
I got my friend (my crush, actually) to playfully pull on my pony-tail and that was a sign he was willing to play the game.
Tease him a little. Guys like seeing the napes of our necks especially the soft baby hairs that grow there. If you have long or medium hair pretend to do your hair in a pony tail but take your time with your hair up and your nape naked in front of him. Make it as sensual as possible. *giggles*
Reply:pounce on him - or just gt him drunk
Reply:Lay your Head, on his Shoulder And give him that pretty Little Pout, that you're known for. He'll get the hint.
Reply:just give him a kiss on chick or lips or something,if only u like him.
Reply:be like hey wanna make out?
How do u flirt with ur best guy friend?
maybe you cant concentrate because you are too hot.
try flirting without your clothes... it works better, you'll see.
Reply:That's funny - that's how my husband %26amp; I fell in love - we worked together %26amp; we were best of friends - we NEVER intended to fall in love with each other - I was in charge of his division %26amp; he is almost 20 yrs older than I am but little by little we both fell in love at the same time - I don't remember having to flirt with him or him having to flirt with me - just tell him how you feel - If you like to flirt %26amp; he has the same feelings about you then he will get the picture - once my husband %26amp; I finally got together THAT'S when all the flirting started %26amp; 10 years later we still flirt like crazy with each other!!!
Reply:Show him your ankle.
Reply:It sounds like you really have a crush on this great guy. Take a minute though to breathe.....and because he is a great friend to you, why is it so hard for you to relate to him? Crushes are someone who we idolize and dream about being that perfect man. Somehow getting to know this guy is sooner or later going to let you down into what you dreamed he would be instead of who he is.....(unless he is Superman, and he is allready taken, he's my husband....) :-) just kidding
Take some time to get to know him, ask him questions, he should love that......Remember important times for him like his birthday, his mother's birthday, etc, to show him you care about him. It isn't what you say that will win over your Superman for you, it's how you act toward him. If you are all over him, then he might just brush you aside, but get to know him, and act like a friend, because that is what you are after, a lifetime friendship, not a one time slumber party.....
Develop your friendship with him and dig a little deeper than an average friend would and make him want to see more of you.
You might even consider asking him out on a date if he is that shy, I have never done that, but would not be held back by me being a woman. Many women ask guys out. If he is gay, then you should just keep idolizing and dreaming for your Superman, but if not, you sound like a great person, so go get him! :-)
I hope the best for you, btw...
Reply:Send him an sms, even if he's in the same room with you. Something cute. Try acting a bit child-like or silly or just not the regular you around him. Make fun of him, physically play with him.
I got my friend (my crush, actually) to playfully pull on my pony-tail and that was a sign he was willing to play the game.
Tease him a little. Guys like seeing the napes of our necks especially the soft baby hairs that grow there. If you have long or medium hair pretend to do your hair in a pony tail but take your time with your hair up and your nape naked in front of him. Make it as sensual as possible. *giggles*
Reply:pounce on him - or just gt him drunk
Reply:Lay your Head, on his Shoulder And give him that pretty Little Pout, that you're known for. He'll get the hint.
Reply:just give him a kiss on chick or lips or something,if only u like him.
Reply:be like hey wanna make out?
Why does he flirt...then have a girlfriend?
i like this guy in my class alot .( we are in high school) and he flirts with me! alot! but he has a girlfriend? why would he flirt with me,and then have a girlfriend? a couple of people in class say that thye think that he likes me. and i think he likes me too! He doesnt flirt with any other girl like the way he does with me. and he even thinks i like him! which is true.....lol so is he trying to make me jealous? cuz when i see him and his girlfriend in the hallway,they dont act like they are together! so.........is he just trying to make me jealous or wat do you think?
Why does he flirt...then have a girlfriend?
hes a guy and a dick think how the girlfriends feels he likes you but he has a gf so he just flirts if he wasnt with that girl he would prob go with you but i dont know if he would leave her for you and if he does he will prob do the same to you but he is prob seeing if you like him aswell ..x
Reply:Being the guy i am, i wouldnt do that unless i was planning or unsatisfied with my current girlfriend. Chances are hes gunna dump her an your next on his list.
Reply:Maybe he wants two women, or maybe his g/f does not really want to keep him happy, or maybe she doesn't even know how to keep him happy. Maybe he thinks u r smarter than his g/f.
Reply:Only if he thinks you like him. Does he think that? Maybe he's just practicing his skills. Wait a month, he'll break up with her, and you can swoop in!!
Reply:maybe he is gannah break up with his girlfrind cuz he doesnt like her anymore and ask u out and now he is just checking u out (by flirtting with u).
Reply:I sure wouldn't want a guy for a boyfriend who is going to be flirting with other girls, do you? WOuld you want to be his current girlfriend? He sounds like a game player to me. Yuk.
Of course, ....if you like him, then wait until he's out of this current relationship. If he pursues you, you be sure to tell him..Look, you have a girlfriend and you're not interested in becoming a part of a "three-ring circus".
Otherwise, you're asking for heart ache, and heart break. You want a guy who's going to be on the level.
Why does he flirt...then have a girlfriend?
hes a guy and a dick think how the girlfriends feels he likes you but he has a gf so he just flirts if he wasnt with that girl he would prob go with you but i dont know if he would leave her for you and if he does he will prob do the same to you but he is prob seeing if you like him aswell ..x
Reply:Being the guy i am, i wouldnt do that unless i was planning or unsatisfied with my current girlfriend. Chances are hes gunna dump her an your next on his list.
Reply:Maybe he wants two women, or maybe his g/f does not really want to keep him happy, or maybe she doesn't even know how to keep him happy. Maybe he thinks u r smarter than his g/f.
Reply:Only if he thinks you like him. Does he think that? Maybe he's just practicing his skills. Wait a month, he'll break up with her, and you can swoop in!!
Reply:maybe he is gannah break up with his girlfrind cuz he doesnt like her anymore and ask u out and now he is just checking u out (by flirtting with u).
Reply:I sure wouldn't want a guy for a boyfriend who is going to be flirting with other girls, do you? WOuld you want to be his current girlfriend? He sounds like a game player to me. Yuk.
Of course, ....if you like him, then wait until he's out of this current relationship. If he pursues you, you be sure to tell him..Look, you have a girlfriend and you're not interested in becoming a part of a "three-ring circus".
Otherwise, you're asking for heart ache, and heart break. You want a guy who's going to be on the level.
2 flirt or not 2 flirt?
ok so im going 2 camp and last year i met this guy, we talk, i could tell he liked me, but i never got his name.
should i try 2 find him agian this year or flirt with other guys
2 flirt or not 2 flirt?
Flirt. If he's there, the chance you'll meet him is greater the more guys you know.
Reply:That's up to you, maybe he'll be there, so why don't you flirt a little while you are looking for him, that why you don't waste all your time looking for someone not there.
Reply:both. try to find him again this year and see if he still likes you and if you still like him....but still flirt with other guys...keep your options open, you don't want him to think you've been waiting all year for him.
Reply:Both.
Reply:um. both but if he likes u and u like him dont flirt w/ other ppl too much pay lots of attention to him..and try to get his name..how did u not get it last year??
Reply:hmm if u see him yea go ahead if u cant move on
Reply:Try and find him, if he is there hang out unless he is flirting w/others, then it's your turn to flirt.
Reply:Other guys...more chances
Reply:pls try
Reply:If you really liked him and felt a connection then yes...try and find him..although if after a day or two you cannot seem to locate him..than i would just move on...there's plenty of fish in the sea!
Reply:Both.
Reply:look 4 him but flirt at the same tyme n how did u not get hiz name
Reply:u should flirt with otha guys dont get stuck on one guy
teeth whitening
should i try 2 find him agian this year or flirt with other guys
2 flirt or not 2 flirt?
Flirt. If he's there, the chance you'll meet him is greater the more guys you know.
Reply:That's up to you, maybe he'll be there, so why don't you flirt a little while you are looking for him, that why you don't waste all your time looking for someone not there.
Reply:both. try to find him again this year and see if he still likes you and if you still like him....but still flirt with other guys...keep your options open, you don't want him to think you've been waiting all year for him.
Reply:Both.
Reply:um. both but if he likes u and u like him dont flirt w/ other ppl too much pay lots of attention to him..and try to get his name..how did u not get it last year??
Reply:hmm if u see him yea go ahead if u cant move on
Reply:Try and find him, if he is there hang out unless he is flirting w/others, then it's your turn to flirt.
Reply:Other guys...more chances
Reply:pls try
Reply:If you really liked him and felt a connection then yes...try and find him..although if after a day or two you cannot seem to locate him..than i would just move on...there's plenty of fish in the sea!
Reply:Both.
Reply:look 4 him but flirt at the same tyme n how did u not get hiz name
Reply:u should flirt with otha guys dont get stuck on one guy
teeth whitening
Do guys only flirt with girls they find attractive?
There is a guy at work who flirts with me and I am curious as to if he likes me or is just flirting to flirt
Do guys only flirt with girls they find attractive?
I think guys will flirt with any woman who he feels comfortable with and seems to enjoy being around him. If he likes you that much, he probably will get around to asking you out. Good luck.
Reply:HE IS A MAN ! MEN ARE SIMPLE MINDED! He probably likes you!
Reply:depends on the man ur talking about, a lot of men flirt just to score points with as much women as possible, my suggestion is don't fall for that crap, just play hard to get n be as vague as possible, it will drive him crazy, n that way he has to work harder to get to ur soul. Trust me.
Reply:... some guys flirt with everyone--- flirt with him and see if his attitude changes, if its for the better, he likes you, if he starts to back off a little when you're both flirting with each other, he's probably just a total flirt.
Reply:not all guys do sometimes they even flirt with girls they don't like.
Reply:Some flirt just to flirt, they get an ego boost out of it.
Reply:just anyone with a vagina is all :)
Do guys only flirt with girls they find attractive?
I think guys will flirt with any woman who he feels comfortable with and seems to enjoy being around him. If he likes you that much, he probably will get around to asking you out. Good luck.
Reply:HE IS A MAN ! MEN ARE SIMPLE MINDED! He probably likes you!
Reply:depends on the man ur talking about, a lot of men flirt just to score points with as much women as possible, my suggestion is don't fall for that crap, just play hard to get n be as vague as possible, it will drive him crazy, n that way he has to work harder to get to ur soul. Trust me.
Reply:... some guys flirt with everyone--- flirt with him and see if his attitude changes, if its for the better, he likes you, if he starts to back off a little when you're both flirting with each other, he's probably just a total flirt.
Reply:not all guys do sometimes they even flirt with girls they don't like.
Reply:Some flirt just to flirt, they get an ego boost out of it.
Reply:just anyone with a vagina is all :)
Are you a flirt?
Do you consider yourself a flirt? How about an internet flirt? I think I'm a big time flirt but when I love He becomes my world.
Are you a flirt?
Is "He" God? Yes, I can be a flirt. But at times I don't realize it.
Reply:oh.
Reply:Big flirt.....Cant agree with the "becomes my world" part though.
Reply:i'll only flirt in person and it's only with someone i like. i hate it when girls flirt with every single guy! even when they don't likee him, its stupid and leading him on. :)
Reply:Big time. We should start a club LOL
Reply:what about "are you a sl*t?"
Reply:I think that I am, but that's mainly because 3years ago men were not attracted to me because of my weight. I dropped the weight and men try to get with me every time I look around so I use that to flirt because I knew I wouldn't dare to before.
Reply:no and flirting on the net is stupid!!
Reply:yes
Reply:No, I'm too shy around new people to be a flirt. Maybe after I've known them a while and I know they know I am only kidding around.
Reply:i'm a flirt if a guy is cute and then me and my friend act like crazy around him and my friend is really weird so shell like walk up to him and ask him randon questions its so funny seeing him react
Reply:I agree with you 100%. There comes a time when you have to become serious and have that special person to love %26amp; guide you through life. I am one hell of a flirt. Every passing day I will get at least one flirt in when they least expect it. Life is made to live beautiful. Life life and love life.................I have no shame luv!
michaels
Reply:YES, A big flirt, in person and on the internet, but that just me.
Reply:U R SO HOT I AM A FLIRT!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:No, I'm totally not a flirt.
Reply:I am a flirt. I have sex with different women everyday. I think they all love me. What about you?
Reply:yeah
Reply:was one until some stupid girl hooked me up w/ one of my best friends and now I feel awkward around him and don't know my feelings toward him
Are you a flirt?
Is "He" God? Yes, I can be a flirt. But at times I don't realize it.
Reply:oh.
Reply:Big flirt.....Cant agree with the "becomes my world" part though.
Reply:i'll only flirt in person and it's only with someone i like. i hate it when girls flirt with every single guy! even when they don't likee him, its stupid and leading him on. :)
Reply:Big time. We should start a club LOL
Reply:what about "are you a sl*t?"
Reply:I think that I am, but that's mainly because 3years ago men were not attracted to me because of my weight. I dropped the weight and men try to get with me every time I look around so I use that to flirt because I knew I wouldn't dare to before.
Reply:no and flirting on the net is stupid!!
Reply:yes
Reply:No, I'm too shy around new people to be a flirt. Maybe after I've known them a while and I know they know I am only kidding around.
Reply:i'm a flirt if a guy is cute and then me and my friend act like crazy around him and my friend is really weird so shell like walk up to him and ask him randon questions its so funny seeing him react
Reply:I agree with you 100%. There comes a time when you have to become serious and have that special person to love %26amp; guide you through life. I am one hell of a flirt. Every passing day I will get at least one flirt in when they least expect it. Life is made to live beautiful. Life life and love life.................I have no shame luv!
michaels
Reply:YES, A big flirt, in person and on the internet, but that just me.
Reply:U R SO HOT I AM A FLIRT!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:No, I'm totally not a flirt.
Reply:I am a flirt. I have sex with different women everyday. I think they all love me. What about you?
Reply:yeah
Reply:was one until some stupid girl hooked me up w/ one of my best friends and now I feel awkward around him and don't know my feelings toward him
Does he like me or does he just like to flirt?
there's this guy in school that whenever i sit near where he is we'll start talking and then we'll start flirting he has this thing where he pokes me in my side and i just kinda squirm when he does and then i poke him back in his side and this goes back in forth in flirting....so onw day we arein class and i go to sit down and he pulls my stair with his foot and then i get it back when i go to sit down he pulls it again and i nearlly fall when he notcies but catches me the expression on his face was like Oh my god i didn't want that to happen....anyways he's a nice guy, athletic, smart but one thing that really is strange is the same day in the same class this girl and his friend point out that I'm flirting with him and say STOPING FLIRTING...and i respond to her saying shut up I'm single so i can flirt with who ever i want and i don't have a boyfriend like you but flirt with every guy at that he just stops flirting with me....does he like me? why did he stop flirting with me? HELP
Does he like me or does he just like to flirt?
he likes you and he doesn't want others to know you're flirting. when he realized others knew he stoped to keep it a secret and the rumor flying through the school.
he likes you a lot.
Reply:wow..i have the same problem but its much worse %26gt;%26gt; he always just says its fun to bother me..soo maybe the guy in ur situation is the same. just likes to bother girls because they like to see their squirmy squeakish reaction,so he could like you, or just simply love to bug you *shrugs* hope that helps some
Reply:its seems like he was just flirting. if hes stopped then something is wrong. try to see if he goes back or ask him why hes stopped talking to you. if it dosent go back to normal then he definitely dosent like you if it does then theres a chance.
Does he like me or does he just like to flirt?
he likes you and he doesn't want others to know you're flirting. when he realized others knew he stoped to keep it a secret and the rumor flying through the school.
he likes you a lot.
Reply:wow..i have the same problem but its much worse %26gt;%26gt; he always just says its fun to bother me..soo maybe the guy in ur situation is the same. just likes to bother girls because they like to see their squirmy squeakish reaction,so he could like you, or just simply love to bug you *shrugs* hope that helps some
Reply:its seems like he was just flirting. if hes stopped then something is wrong. try to see if he goes back or ask him why hes stopped talking to you. if it dosent go back to normal then he definitely dosent like you if it does then theres a chance.
How do you flirt during gym class?
i only see my crush during gym class. how can i flirt with him? i mean we have like only a few "free" minutes before we have to line up. but he's always with his two guy friends so i don't know how to approach him and flirt. How do you flirt during any class for that matter? It just seems so weird...
please help!!!
How do you flirt during gym class?
It's very situational, but I can at least tell you this...
If he's always with 2 guys, then you need at least 1 more girl to help you. Men call this "bringing a wingman." You need a "wingwoman." Or two.
Basically, the wingman runs interference to distract the extras, giving you some 1-on-1 time with the target. There's a million different ways to do it, but that's the basic idea.
Reply:hahaha you dont that s just obsured ........ your all sweaty and gross...............well im not much of the flirting type so maybe im not the right person to answer this
Reply:just bend down a lot
Reply:this is so funny. cause that was my problem to he had two friends! basicallyjust strecth and bend over when u do that he'll look at ur *** and then just turn and smile at him...he'll get the idea. also u can share secrets with him about guys and then u can whisper. and also u can touch him alot...works trust me this guy i like is crazy about me now.lol. hope this works if it does vote be best answer
Reply:bend over in front of him
teeth
please help!!!
How do you flirt during gym class?
It's very situational, but I can at least tell you this...
If he's always with 2 guys, then you need at least 1 more girl to help you. Men call this "bringing a wingman." You need a "wingwoman." Or two.
Basically, the wingman runs interference to distract the extras, giving you some 1-on-1 time with the target. There's a million different ways to do it, but that's the basic idea.
Reply:hahaha you dont that s just obsured ........ your all sweaty and gross...............well im not much of the flirting type so maybe im not the right person to answer this
Reply:just bend down a lot
Reply:this is so funny. cause that was my problem to he had two friends! basicallyjust strecth and bend over when u do that he'll look at ur *** and then just turn and smile at him...he'll get the idea. also u can share secrets with him about guys and then u can whisper. and also u can touch him alot...works trust me this guy i like is crazy about me now.lol. hope this works if it does vote be best answer
Reply:bend over in front of him
teeth
Well i do flirt with him n he flirts bk?
i do flirt with him and i have snogged him and kissed him dares and stuff i am mature i know wot i am doin he is one of my best m8z but i his 1 ov this boys huw dnt know how to share there feelings as he is yopuger than mwe and i am with him 24 7 ppl think we go out but we dnt and do you think i should just like flirt with him and do stuff with him but not go out with him ive tossed him off before but thats a minor and hes poked me!1 help me plz
Well i do flirt with him n he flirts bk?
its not a clear question i think you need to get more schooling perhaps improve your english.
Reply:I think I speak for all of us when I say - what?
Well i do flirt with him n he flirts bk?
its not a clear question i think you need to get more schooling perhaps improve your english.
Reply:I think I speak for all of us when I say - what?
Girls that flirt? (I prefer girls to answer this one, please)?
My ex is a big flirt, but she says shes just "over friendly" with people. Is that really possible or am I right that shes a big flirt? She meets people easily and she talks to guys all the time and in high school there were rumors about her being a slut (mostly from girls). I think she is always flirting with me (bumping me when she walks buy, asking for hugs, tickleing me) and I get mad because I like her still and she said she just wants to be friends so I tell her to stop flirting with me and she says shes not flirting with me thats just the way she is. Is she teasing me? or is there really girls out there like this????
Girls that flirt? (I prefer girls to answer this one, please)?
I am friendly too, my ex's all told me i was flirty.
I am just a people person, i make friends easily and like to laugh and goof off, i am really sarcastic too... which can come off the wrong way. My ex fiance is the one who brought it to my attention, and then the guy after him told me the same thing. I know with me it does not go past talking..... you might just want to ask her out and if she says no then there you go.
Reply:It sounds like she is just like that. If she knows it bothers you when she tickles you and stuff, hopefully she will respect your feelings enough to stop. But she just sounds like a nice, friendly girl.. To a girl, having a friendly convo. is just that, but to the guy, it could be flirting. And chances are, if mostly girls were calling her a slut, they are just jealous.
Reply:now she could still just be teasing you cuz she gets a kick out of it . or deep down she wants to be more than friends but doesnt want to admit it to you so she just keeps messing with you . gurls do just flirt for fun , i know cuz i do it at times .
Reply:Well I'm actually like that to both genders... when in a good mood. But yes, people are always taking it the wrong way.
Alot of girls are like this. She is probably telling the truth
Reply:girls are like this.
its weird and rude, but we cant help it.. its almost natural. my boyfriend and i fight alot about this problem.. however in my eyes i love only one man. and because of my tomboy characteristics i feel more comfortable with guys. we like to joke and play around. unless she really is a slut.. there are girls who like to play around for pleasure, girls to whom just come naturally, and the clingy ones who basically stalk you..
girls are hard to understand.. i am one myself and i still havent even figured my own species out?!
Reply:sounds like she is flirting to me,but when you say stop flirting with me and she says im not.... tell her to stop being so (over friendly) to me then!
Reply:each individual has a certain level of "flirt" and might be readily accpeted by indivduals. as long as they dont carry ob to....you know where I mean...it should be ok. but be aware of conservative views.
as for your case think you are " sour"...sorry over a failed relationship and feel such. think you may not like "over friendly" girls too....
just let it be ...its just anothe rindidivual personality.
good luck.
Reply:umm, I dunno cuz I do it to and I just do it to tease guys.
No other reason than that.
If she was over friendly, wouldn't she do it to her girl friends as well???
Girls that flirt? (I prefer girls to answer this one, please)?
I am friendly too, my ex's all told me i was flirty.
I am just a people person, i make friends easily and like to laugh and goof off, i am really sarcastic too... which can come off the wrong way. My ex fiance is the one who brought it to my attention, and then the guy after him told me the same thing. I know with me it does not go past talking..... you might just want to ask her out and if she says no then there you go.
Reply:It sounds like she is just like that. If she knows it bothers you when she tickles you and stuff, hopefully she will respect your feelings enough to stop. But she just sounds like a nice, friendly girl.. To a girl, having a friendly convo. is just that, but to the guy, it could be flirting. And chances are, if mostly girls were calling her a slut, they are just jealous.
Reply:now she could still just be teasing you cuz she gets a kick out of it . or deep down she wants to be more than friends but doesnt want to admit it to you so she just keeps messing with you . gurls do just flirt for fun , i know cuz i do it at times .
Reply:Well I'm actually like that to both genders... when in a good mood. But yes, people are always taking it the wrong way.
Alot of girls are like this. She is probably telling the truth
Reply:girls are like this.
its weird and rude, but we cant help it.. its almost natural. my boyfriend and i fight alot about this problem.. however in my eyes i love only one man. and because of my tomboy characteristics i feel more comfortable with guys. we like to joke and play around. unless she really is a slut.. there are girls who like to play around for pleasure, girls to whom just come naturally, and the clingy ones who basically stalk you..
girls are hard to understand.. i am one myself and i still havent even figured my own species out?!
Reply:sounds like she is flirting to me,but when you say stop flirting with me and she says im not.... tell her to stop being so (over friendly) to me then!
Reply:each individual has a certain level of "flirt" and might be readily accpeted by indivduals. as long as they dont carry ob to....you know where I mean...it should be ok. but be aware of conservative views.
as for your case think you are " sour"...sorry over a failed relationship and feel such. think you may not like "over friendly" girls too....
just let it be ...its just anothe rindidivual personality.
good luck.
Reply:umm, I dunno cuz I do it to and I just do it to tease guys.
No other reason than that.
If she was over friendly, wouldn't she do it to her girl friends as well???
Best way to flirt (note - married, no intention of anything more than flirting)?
What are some of the best non super obvious, non over the top ways to flirt, while at work?
I am married and have no intentions of anything other than flirting. I just want some attention, some friendly back and forth flirting.
The person I am thinking of is not my boss or subordinate. My workplace is very OK with flirting and office romance.
I just need some ideas as I have been married for a long time and plan to stay married. ( Please no do not flirt posts).
Best way to flirt (note - married, no intention of anything more than flirting)?
You're treading dangerous water. You may THINK that's all you will do, but trust someone who has seen it happen, it can and usually does lead to more. Best not to do it at all, or better yet, flirt with your husband. I bet he'd enjoy it and it would add spice to your marriage.
Reply:You're married. Best way to flirt is with the one you love and that's your wife. If you're not getting attention at home then talk to your wife about it. Gee, you going to be stuck in hard place if you continue with this senseless act you are doing.Why did you get married in the first place.Besides who wants to flirt with you a divorce lawyer when she finds out what you are doing.
Reply:you are an idiot for considering this - you send out sparks - eventually fire starts...work on getting the extra attention you crave from your husband - not your co-workers.
Reply:Just don't, it will only lead to more than "just flirting"
Reply:Why dont you ask your wife? It shouldnt cause any problems rite? since you said you have no intention of anything happening. im sure she'll be very helpful. :)
Reply:Bad idea...how would you feel if your wife was flirting with other men?
Reply:Flirting is completely harmless and an excellent way to feel attractive! Attention from the opposite sex is a very powerful thing, and will do nothing but make you feel more desirable. Direct that energy you receive from flirtatious banter to the relationship you share with your spouse.
I would suggest that you keep your flirting very casual -- just a simple compliment. Not only will flirting make you feel more attractive, it will make you more well-liked in the office.
Don't get me wrong, there's a huge difference between, "Nice butt!" and "Nice outfit!" I'd definitely go for the latter.
Just be super sweet! I'm from the South and, well, flirting's pretty much a way of life. Needless to say, I flirt with pretty much everyone even though I'm in a serious relationship.
There's this amazing book by Ronda Rich called "What Southern Women Know About Flirting." I'd definitely read it if I were you!
Reply:you are an idiot, flirting leadns to other situations and feelings. flirt with your wife! im sure she would love it. or maybe ask her for tips on flirting with girls at your work and see where that leads you, stop being so selfish. u sound like my ex.... he would always flirt with the girls at work yet nothing was intended till he got the attention he wanted and liked it and cheacted on me. dont be so scummy
Reply:here's an idea: it sounds like you are just out of practice. otherwise why would you be on here asking for tips? So practice on someone harmless at first. But who could that practice partner safely be? hmmmmmmmm, Eureka, I've got it~~~~Your spouse!!
Isn't that clever? you could practice flirting with your very own spouse you have been married to forever. Safe and acceptable. Maybe you might get attention from your spouse that way and not have to act like an idiot at the work place. (Note: "work" place not "flirt" place). Wouldn't it be really special to rekindle sparks with your spouse?
Think about it.
Reply:you posted something out of norms, then expect negative reaction. first of all, if you wanted attention in the workplace, why dont just do your job extra ordinarily well, perhaps the boss might notice how spectacular you are at your job and promote you..secondly, just bec flirting is acceptable in ur workplace, you have the green light to go as well... dear, you're married. if you're not, then it's ok. if you really plan on staying married, you wouldnt even think of posting this...you're just bored probably, so take a vacation with ur spouse, just the two of you, and rekindle the romance...
btw, why dont you let your husband read your post, dont tell him it's from u, then ask his opinion on this....i highly doubt it'll be ok with him, too
Reply:Why do you want to flirt? Ask yourself that. Because someone is going to take you up on it. Keep at it long enough and someone is going to figure you will be easy to get. And you will be got. Goodby, marriage.
Reply:this is a very dangerous thing to do when you are married and especially at work (no matter how ok they are with office romance).
I did the very same thing with a co worker and although we both said to each other it was all in good fun, it went too far one day.
It ended up being so awkward between he and I at work and it effected my performance as well. What made things worse is that he has been long time friends with our boss so what do you know, my boss found an excuse to get rid of me, and he got away scott free.
Reply:Flirting is stepping outside the marriage. Is this what you really want to do to your spouse? One thing leads to another, you know, and then you'll have a decision to make. It will be tough to choose and you may make the wrong decision. If I were you I'd not take this any further.
Reply:All you women hating on the man, note this is actually a female named Laura!
I love to make the nasty comments to men too, but this is a woman! She SHE SHE, needs to realize what she's doing is wrong. And girl, leave your husband if you think you need attention from other men in any fashion.
Just cause you said you didn't want those kinds of posts, doesn't negate our right to post them. Food for thought, and while you are chewing on it, if your husband would not consider you flirting with other men cheating, he needs some counseling as well.
Reply:Married or not I flirt all the time! I get flirts back but I have yet to have anyone act on it. Flirting can be very fun too! Try me some time! HA!
Reply:all you can do is start flirting, try light sarcasam. I flirt at work occasionly and my man is perfectly fine with it as i am when he flirts with his friends. there is a difference to when we flirt with each other which we also do frequently, at home and in public.
the other day i was at work ( sales assistaint) and a workmate came to my counter to buy a drink. My reply was thanks david your buying me a drink are you. his reply was um no you already have one. and besides yours is bigger than mine. I replied with careful david I think your mistaken mine cant be bigger than yours im a woman. then we both laughed said a few more things then he left.
when i flirt for fun i try and choose someone im not attracted to and that way its made clear its just for fun.
I guess what it comes down to is... will your husband know and will he be ok with it. if not then it is a form of cheating.
Reply:haven't you heard of the book "if you give a mouse a cookie"? after you flirt, you're gonna want that number, then you're gonna want to meet for lunch, then you're gonna be his lunch. I know I left out alot of other possibilities, but flirting can be a slippery slope.
Sounds like you're hot inbetween the legs, lol
Reply:if you want some attention then go to your wife, and tell her. Open up to her, and let her know how you feel. You are obviously not getting something you need out of your marriage, and you should start there and fix the problem, not make it worse.
Reply:Try flirting with your wife! Why are you such an attention hog? because everybody else is doing it, you want in on the action too? If you were my husband I would leave you alone to flirt as much as you could ever imagine.
Reply:complement, look in eyes, be you
Reply:if you really want to flirt just dont talk about sex. If they start trying to be with you just tell them, "hey I was just joking around!" But I have to admitt, it is kind of dumb to play with fire, if you care.
Reply:dont listen to most of these people on here. As long as u dont flirt to heavy u should be ok. If they hit u up just tell them u are married.
Reply:you are not honoring your husband, marriage or marriage vows if you do this.
emotional affairs are just as devastating as real affairs. flirting is not ok.
Reply:you just dont,is your name ,,,,,,.
Reply:Send note to self. I am an idiot for thinking I can flirt with no consequences. What are you working in a brothel ?
I am married and have no intentions of anything other than flirting. I just want some attention, some friendly back and forth flirting.
The person I am thinking of is not my boss or subordinate. My workplace is very OK with flirting and office romance.
I just need some ideas as I have been married for a long time and plan to stay married. ( Please no do not flirt posts).
Best way to flirt (note - married, no intention of anything more than flirting)?
You're treading dangerous water. You may THINK that's all you will do, but trust someone who has seen it happen, it can and usually does lead to more. Best not to do it at all, or better yet, flirt with your husband. I bet he'd enjoy it and it would add spice to your marriage.
Reply:You're married. Best way to flirt is with the one you love and that's your wife. If you're not getting attention at home then talk to your wife about it. Gee, you going to be stuck in hard place if you continue with this senseless act you are doing.Why did you get married in the first place.Besides who wants to flirt with you a divorce lawyer when she finds out what you are doing.
Reply:you are an idiot for considering this - you send out sparks - eventually fire starts...work on getting the extra attention you crave from your husband - not your co-workers.
Reply:Just don't, it will only lead to more than "just flirting"
Reply:Why dont you ask your wife? It shouldnt cause any problems rite? since you said you have no intention of anything happening. im sure she'll be very helpful. :)
Reply:Bad idea...how would you feel if your wife was flirting with other men?
Reply:Flirting is completely harmless and an excellent way to feel attractive! Attention from the opposite sex is a very powerful thing, and will do nothing but make you feel more desirable. Direct that energy you receive from flirtatious banter to the relationship you share with your spouse.
I would suggest that you keep your flirting very casual -- just a simple compliment. Not only will flirting make you feel more attractive, it will make you more well-liked in the office.
Don't get me wrong, there's a huge difference between, "Nice butt!" and "Nice outfit!" I'd definitely go for the latter.
Just be super sweet! I'm from the South and, well, flirting's pretty much a way of life. Needless to say, I flirt with pretty much everyone even though I'm in a serious relationship.
There's this amazing book by Ronda Rich called "What Southern Women Know About Flirting." I'd definitely read it if I were you!
Reply:you are an idiot, flirting leadns to other situations and feelings. flirt with your wife! im sure she would love it. or maybe ask her for tips on flirting with girls at your work and see where that leads you, stop being so selfish. u sound like my ex.... he would always flirt with the girls at work yet nothing was intended till he got the attention he wanted and liked it and cheacted on me. dont be so scummy
Reply:here's an idea: it sounds like you are just out of practice. otherwise why would you be on here asking for tips? So practice on someone harmless at first. But who could that practice partner safely be? hmmmmmmmm, Eureka, I've got it~~~~Your spouse!!
Isn't that clever? you could practice flirting with your very own spouse you have been married to forever. Safe and acceptable. Maybe you might get attention from your spouse that way and not have to act like an idiot at the work place. (Note: "work" place not "flirt" place). Wouldn't it be really special to rekindle sparks with your spouse?
Think about it.
Reply:you posted something out of norms, then expect negative reaction. first of all, if you wanted attention in the workplace, why dont just do your job extra ordinarily well, perhaps the boss might notice how spectacular you are at your job and promote you..secondly, just bec flirting is acceptable in ur workplace, you have the green light to go as well... dear, you're married. if you're not, then it's ok. if you really plan on staying married, you wouldnt even think of posting this...you're just bored probably, so take a vacation with ur spouse, just the two of you, and rekindle the romance...
btw, why dont you let your husband read your post, dont tell him it's from u, then ask his opinion on this....i highly doubt it'll be ok with him, too
Reply:Why do you want to flirt? Ask yourself that. Because someone is going to take you up on it. Keep at it long enough and someone is going to figure you will be easy to get. And you will be got. Goodby, marriage.
Reply:this is a very dangerous thing to do when you are married and especially at work (no matter how ok they are with office romance).
I did the very same thing with a co worker and although we both said to each other it was all in good fun, it went too far one day.
It ended up being so awkward between he and I at work and it effected my performance as well. What made things worse is that he has been long time friends with our boss so what do you know, my boss found an excuse to get rid of me, and he got away scott free.
Reply:Flirting is stepping outside the marriage. Is this what you really want to do to your spouse? One thing leads to another, you know, and then you'll have a decision to make. It will be tough to choose and you may make the wrong decision. If I were you I'd not take this any further.
Reply:All you women hating on the man, note this is actually a female named Laura!
I love to make the nasty comments to men too, but this is a woman! She SHE SHE, needs to realize what she's doing is wrong. And girl, leave your husband if you think you need attention from other men in any fashion.
Just cause you said you didn't want those kinds of posts, doesn't negate our right to post them. Food for thought, and while you are chewing on it, if your husband would not consider you flirting with other men cheating, he needs some counseling as well.
Reply:Married or not I flirt all the time! I get flirts back but I have yet to have anyone act on it. Flirting can be very fun too! Try me some time! HA!
Reply:all you can do is start flirting, try light sarcasam. I flirt at work occasionly and my man is perfectly fine with it as i am when he flirts with his friends. there is a difference to when we flirt with each other which we also do frequently, at home and in public.
the other day i was at work ( sales assistaint) and a workmate came to my counter to buy a drink. My reply was thanks david your buying me a drink are you. his reply was um no you already have one. and besides yours is bigger than mine. I replied with careful david I think your mistaken mine cant be bigger than yours im a woman. then we both laughed said a few more things then he left.
when i flirt for fun i try and choose someone im not attracted to and that way its made clear its just for fun.
I guess what it comes down to is... will your husband know and will he be ok with it. if not then it is a form of cheating.
Reply:haven't you heard of the book "if you give a mouse a cookie"? after you flirt, you're gonna want that number, then you're gonna want to meet for lunch, then you're gonna be his lunch. I know I left out alot of other possibilities, but flirting can be a slippery slope.
Sounds like you're hot inbetween the legs, lol
Reply:if you want some attention then go to your wife, and tell her. Open up to her, and let her know how you feel. You are obviously not getting something you need out of your marriage, and you should start there and fix the problem, not make it worse.
Reply:Try flirting with your wife! Why are you such an attention hog? because everybody else is doing it, you want in on the action too? If you were my husband I would leave you alone to flirt as much as you could ever imagine.
Reply:complement, look in eyes, be you
Reply:if you really want to flirt just dont talk about sex. If they start trying to be with you just tell them, "hey I was just joking around!" But I have to admitt, it is kind of dumb to play with fire, if you care.
Reply:dont listen to most of these people on here. As long as u dont flirt to heavy u should be ok. If they hit u up just tell them u are married.
Reply:you are not honoring your husband, marriage or marriage vows if you do this.
emotional affairs are just as devastating as real affairs. flirting is not ok.
Reply:you just dont,is your name ,,,,,,.
Reply:Send note to self. I am an idiot for thinking I can flirt with no consequences. What are you working in a brothel ?
How do I flirt with someone who flirts with everyone?
How do I genuinley flirt with someone that flirts with everyone... like how do i make them remember me.. ?
How do I flirt with someone who flirts with everyone?
the hair flip,unless if you're a guy..
teeth grinding
How do I flirt with someone who flirts with everyone?
the hair flip,unless if you're a guy..
teeth grinding
How do guys flirt?
My friends say that I always have guys flirting with me, and hitting on me, but I can never tell!! I always think they're just being friendly, or something...So how DO they flirt?And how do you flirt back?
How do guys flirt?
Some guys think they flirting cause they make u laugh and smile. Thats not flirting it just making u have a good time. Flirting is when guys come up to u and say something like wats up sexy, and u say u tell me, and he say u, and it goes back and fourt.. They's alotmore explains that can be use..
Reply:i am the same way but with girls. i never know if someone is flirting with me or if someone things im flirting with them i just think they are being nice or friendly too!
How do guys flirt?
Some guys think they flirting cause they make u laugh and smile. Thats not flirting it just making u have a good time. Flirting is when guys come up to u and say something like wats up sexy, and u say u tell me, and he say u, and it goes back and fourt.. They's alotmore explains that can be use..
Reply:i am the same way but with girls. i never know if someone is flirting with me or if someone things im flirting with them i just think they are being nice or friendly too!
LADIES!!!! Is it ok to flirt if u are no longer single?
I just want to know cause what if your guy is just the kind of guy who flirts with everyone? I know I do...cause I have always flirted with everyone...it is just in my nature...I usually do it without even noticing I am doing it...would u consider this cheating if it was just innocent flirting? I would never cheat...I just flirt...constantly
LADIES!!!! Is it ok to flirt if u are no longer single?
Innocent flirting is fine, but flirting with intent is off limits. You know the difference.
Reply:I was told (by a wise man) that if you are not married then you are still single..even if you have a gf/bf...so it should be ok to flirt
Reply:its not technically cheating but i would try to catch yourself before something happens that could make your boyfriend upset with you. even though you said he does it too he might take it the wrong way.
Reply:nothing wrong with flirting mista. its good for your self-esteem, its a normal, natural healthy thing to do. i think we all flirt at times consciously or subconsciously whether we are single or in a relationship
Reply:Well there's nothing wrong with flirting. as long as you know the limits (no touching, kissing, cheating..). Try to explain this to your girlfriend, she should be understanding about it, unless she's the extreme jealous type. But still, try to restrain yourself and don't flirt with other girls when she's around, this she will probably notice and not feel too great about having to witness it.
Reply:it's not cheating your just being who you are i'm also known as a flirt however my flirting is harmless just having fun making others feel good about them self's
Reply:I think it's ok, it just depends what kind of flirting it is. I mean, I have a jokey way of talking to people and it can sometimes be construed as flirting. It's a fine line. I guess the main thing is: make sure you're not hurting your girlfriend. It depends on how secure /insecure she is. My guy's pretty secure %26amp; knows I love him, anyway he has a flirty personality too so it's ok.
Also, I know guys who have girlfriends who are flirty to talk to. But I know they are just being like that because it's fun. Just make sure you're never giving anyone the wrong idea, or leading anyone on. And make sure you're doing it for the right reasons: if you're doing it to get attention from the ladiez %26amp; trying to get them to LOve you then maybe it's Not a good thing to do.
And save your best flirting for your girlfriend. However much you flirt with anyone else, flirt the most with her. :)
Reply:Flirting is not cheating, and is absolutely okay (just as long as you don't act on it)
Reply:If you can handle flirting without cheating its ok. Make sure you don't have any very good friends who are female, because bad things are bound to happen. Simple flirting is okay.
LADIES!!!! Is it ok to flirt if u are no longer single?
Innocent flirting is fine, but flirting with intent is off limits. You know the difference.
Reply:I was told (by a wise man) that if you are not married then you are still single..even if you have a gf/bf...so it should be ok to flirt
Reply:its not technically cheating but i would try to catch yourself before something happens that could make your boyfriend upset with you. even though you said he does it too he might take it the wrong way.
Reply:nothing wrong with flirting mista. its good for your self-esteem, its a normal, natural healthy thing to do. i think we all flirt at times consciously or subconsciously whether we are single or in a relationship
Reply:Well there's nothing wrong with flirting. as long as you know the limits (no touching, kissing, cheating..). Try to explain this to your girlfriend, she should be understanding about it, unless she's the extreme jealous type. But still, try to restrain yourself and don't flirt with other girls when she's around, this she will probably notice and not feel too great about having to witness it.
Reply:it's not cheating your just being who you are i'm also known as a flirt however my flirting is harmless just having fun making others feel good about them self's
Reply:I think it's ok, it just depends what kind of flirting it is. I mean, I have a jokey way of talking to people and it can sometimes be construed as flirting. It's a fine line. I guess the main thing is: make sure you're not hurting your girlfriend. It depends on how secure /insecure she is. My guy's pretty secure %26amp; knows I love him, anyway he has a flirty personality too so it's ok.
Also, I know guys who have girlfriends who are flirty to talk to. But I know they are just being like that because it's fun. Just make sure you're never giving anyone the wrong idea, or leading anyone on. And make sure you're doing it for the right reasons: if you're doing it to get attention from the ladiez %26amp; trying to get them to LOve you then maybe it's Not a good thing to do.
And save your best flirting for your girlfriend. However much you flirt with anyone else, flirt the most with her. :)
Reply:Flirting is not cheating, and is absolutely okay (just as long as you don't act on it)
Reply:If you can handle flirting without cheating its ok. Make sure you don't have any very good friends who are female, because bad things are bound to happen. Simple flirting is okay.
How Can I Flirt More With My Girlfriend?
We've been going out for quite a while and i feel bad because it seems like we barely flirt. What are ways i can flirt with her more and make her happy. Also ways we can both flirt with each other.
How Can I Flirt More With My Girlfriend?
write a corney poem or buy her a flower..
How Can I Flirt More With My Girlfriend?
write a corney poem or buy her a flower..
How do i flirt? Help Please?
Im a guy and i wanna know how i can flirt with my girl. We have been out for two weeks but there is no close relationship between us. We've kissed but i wish i could flirt with her, and get closer. I wanna be free and not be ruled by people around me. Please tell me how we can be closer and how i can flirt with her
How do i flirt? Help Please?
Just ask her out on a date to dinner but make it seem like somthing special. Not just like " hey you want to grab something to eat?" ask her out a few days befor and make it a nice restrunant. give her a few hours to get ready as you pick up some flowers and clean your car and look all cleaned up, then pick her up and go out to dinner, Make the night all about HER! then maybe you will get closer to her afterwards. Hope this helps.
Reply:Just tell her that's she's beautiful, hold her hand a lot, hug her, cuddle with her, treat her with the upmost respect and pay close attention to her wants and needs.
Reply:Keeping good eye contact and watching her closely when you're talking together should be enough to clue her in that you're crazy about her. Be sure you're quick to open doors, pull out chairs, help her with her coat, etc. so she'll know you're a gentlemen. And give things time to develop between the two of you....you seem to have gotten off to a good start. Good Luck
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How do i flirt? Help Please?
Just ask her out on a date to dinner but make it seem like somthing special. Not just like " hey you want to grab something to eat?" ask her out a few days befor and make it a nice restrunant. give her a few hours to get ready as you pick up some flowers and clean your car and look all cleaned up, then pick her up and go out to dinner, Make the night all about HER! then maybe you will get closer to her afterwards. Hope this helps.
Reply:Just tell her that's she's beautiful, hold her hand a lot, hug her, cuddle with her, treat her with the upmost respect and pay close attention to her wants and needs.
Reply:Keeping good eye contact and watching her closely when you're talking together should be enough to clue her in that you're crazy about her. Be sure you're quick to open doors, pull out chairs, help her with her coat, etc. so she'll know you're a gentlemen. And give things time to develop between the two of you....you seem to have gotten off to a good start. Good Luck
teeth bleaching
How do u flirt talk ?
lol , i really dont know how to do that whole flirt talking thinggy - imma pretty staright forward kinda person so if i wanna say "i like u" ill just say it or if i think someone's hot ill just say it - how would u say it flirty
and how could u flirt but not have it be too obvious ?
and do boyss really like when u flirt or do they like when ur staright with them - or a mix of both :)
How do u flirt talk ?
Flirting isn't in what is said, but how it is said.
The best thing is to vary your intonation so everything you say sounds like a joke or a question.
It is very flirtatious to pick lint off a biys coat collar, or to touch his arm while yeou are speaking.
You should watch Daisy in the film "The Great Gatsby" for more tips.
Reply:i honestly can't tell you. it just comes naturally. make fun of them for something but in a swee joking manner.
Reply:Just say it the way you often do "i like ya" ... can do :)
and how could u flirt but not have it be too obvious ?
and do boyss really like when u flirt or do they like when ur staright with them - or a mix of both :)
How do u flirt talk ?
Flirting isn't in what is said, but how it is said.
The best thing is to vary your intonation so everything you say sounds like a joke or a question.
It is very flirtatious to pick lint off a biys coat collar, or to touch his arm while yeou are speaking.
You should watch Daisy in the film "The Great Gatsby" for more tips.
Reply:i honestly can't tell you. it just comes naturally. make fun of them for something but in a swee joking manner.
Reply:Just say it the way you often do "i like ya" ... can do :)
I need to flirt more?
Flirting to get that guy?
well im single again and looking, I like this guy and were pretty close were together alot kinda ya one of my best friends, we flirt some and stuff but how can i make it even more noticeable how can I flirt with him and get wit him
I need to flirt more?
Go ahead and flirt even more. Say something to the effect of how you'd really like to get involved with someone you already like as a friend. Go silent and look right at him.
well im single again and looking, I like this guy and were pretty close were together alot kinda ya one of my best friends, we flirt some and stuff but how can i make it even more noticeable how can I flirt with him and get wit him
I need to flirt more?
Go ahead and flirt even more. Say something to the effect of how you'd really like to get involved with someone you already like as a friend. Go silent and look right at him.
We flirt a lot...but he has a girlfriend who he lives with?
there's this guy who works at this music store that i go to. and i basically go to see him. and we always flirt like crazy and look into each others eyes and smile at each other. and he gave me his number one day (without me even asking) and i lost it and he's a dj and told me he wanted me to go to the club he djs at. and today i went to see him and he told me again to come to his club and i told him i was busy and he gave me this kinda look like *suuuuuuure*. but he told me he has a girlfriend (they even live together). but we still flirted and he always looks me deep into my eyes. and i have this major attraction to him. but i don't know what i should do. what do you guys think? is he just messing with me? (and sorry this was sooo long)
We flirt a lot...but he has a girlfriend who he lives with?
Now, did you really had to ask that question. You already know what to do BACK OFF. You are leading on and so far he is doing all the asking and you the doing. A guy is going to play if some one gives him a game and your flirting and looking into his eyes, smiling and so on it gives the impression that you want to play too; that makes you game or a target of something you probably don't want to be part of. I am not sure how old you are but this sound very immature. So, what if he looks in to your eyes. Next time he does that, you tell him he needs to look in to his GF or if he wants start something with you then he has to end the other relationship FIRST! Don't get hurt. What can you possible want with a guy who so far is proving he is willing to betray the love and trust of his GF. I can assure you if he flirts with you he is flirting with others too and if he is doing that to his GF he will turn around and do it to you or another woman that he runs into. No one needs that. Stay away from him and find an available man who is going to give you all of his attention, love and respect.
Be safe, Chula
Reply:A. Not that long, B. He may be just flirting to amuse himself at work with you. If you come in that often then its more like a bit of a game to him. And C. Never ever be the girl that goes after someone else's guy like that. I mean if it gets around that you pretty much were the other woman and his girlfriend finds out there will be major drama. So find someone single and not be the girl that goes for guys already seeing someone. Trust me you don't want that rep. That is a step up above being a ho.
Reply:Leave it alone, he has a girlfriend. Point blank!
Reply:If he's living with the girl, my advice: back off. He could just be using you. And it's not just you and him involved. There would be another casualty. Do you really want to be "that girl"?
We flirt a lot...but he has a girlfriend who he lives with?
Now, did you really had to ask that question. You already know what to do BACK OFF. You are leading on and so far he is doing all the asking and you the doing. A guy is going to play if some one gives him a game and your flirting and looking into his eyes, smiling and so on it gives the impression that you want to play too; that makes you game or a target of something you probably don't want to be part of. I am not sure how old you are but this sound very immature. So, what if he looks in to your eyes. Next time he does that, you tell him he needs to look in to his GF or if he wants start something with you then he has to end the other relationship FIRST! Don't get hurt. What can you possible want with a guy who so far is proving he is willing to betray the love and trust of his GF. I can assure you if he flirts with you he is flirting with others too and if he is doing that to his GF he will turn around and do it to you or another woman that he runs into. No one needs that. Stay away from him and find an available man who is going to give you all of his attention, love and respect.
Be safe, Chula
Reply:A. Not that long, B. He may be just flirting to amuse himself at work with you. If you come in that often then its more like a bit of a game to him. And C. Never ever be the girl that goes after someone else's guy like that. I mean if it gets around that you pretty much were the other woman and his girlfriend finds out there will be major drama. So find someone single and not be the girl that goes for guys already seeing someone. Trust me you don't want that rep. That is a step up above being a ho.
Reply:Leave it alone, he has a girlfriend. Point blank!
Reply:If he's living with the girl, my advice: back off. He could just be using you. And it's not just you and him involved. There would be another casualty. Do you really want to be "that girl"?
How do I flirt with a guy who I don't really know?
I think this guy is really cute, but I don't really know him and I am not the biggest flirt, but I only have one class with him and I need the extra flirting skills to have an oppurtunity for him to like me. So basically what is a good way to flirt with guys??
How do I flirt with a guy who I don't really know?
Go up to him and start a conversation, that way he knows you're interested in him. Take a deep breath and most of all be confident. Men love confident women.
Reply:walk up say hi bat your eyes
Reply:Giggle, for some reason they like that stuff
Reply:when i dont know a girl an they r cute n they stare at me it gets me curious, so just stare at him and smile, make sure he sees u more than once.
Racing Shoes
How do I flirt with a guy who I don't really know?
Go up to him and start a conversation, that way he knows you're interested in him. Take a deep breath and most of all be confident. Men love confident women.
Reply:walk up say hi bat your eyes
Reply:Giggle, for some reason they like that stuff
Reply:when i dont know a girl an they r cute n they stare at me it gets me curious, so just stare at him and smile, make sure he sees u more than once.
Racing Shoes
How do you flirt...?
I know this may sound stupid...but I really like this guy and I think he likes me too. I want to let him know I like w/o being super obvious. I'm kinda outgoing but not really outgoing so it's hard for me to flirt with guys sometimes does anyone have any tips to flirt with him?? I think if I flirt for a while I could be able to tell if he really does like and then make a move...
thanks for advice
How do you flirt...?
ok its simpple really there really no one way to do its its sorta just hangin out wit and tryin to get em to like u sometimes its just talkin sometimes its touching or something so really its things u owuldnt do while ur wit any other guy
Reply:don't be shy what i do is rub my fingers through his hair and give him a flirty smile dress cute and be yourself go to your library and look up a book called 1001 ways to be romantic it might have something in it goodluck and hope this helped a little remember if it don't work with him there will be others
Reply:try to talk to him a little stir up a jucy conversation.
Reply:red rose
Reply:Guys just seem to know when you like them. You just be yourself because you'll be safer than if you or all over it and it makes them think that they are too good for you.
Reply:Wear pantyhose.............that is the HOTTEST thing ever!
Reply:well i had to this a lot for about 3 months.. it pretty simple actually. A website for the best flirting tips are found at www.myjellybean.com. if i were you i think u should talk to the kid a lot and whenever you get a chance just smile a lot around him and be charming. Also look your best everyday nd be nice but try to get the qualities he's looking for. If he's gonna change u totally in a bad way then don't even bother.
Reply:Stare at his face for a long time and don't blink. After a few minutes, he must acknowledge and your eyes meet and the fire will spark. BAMM!!!
thanks for advice
How do you flirt...?
ok its simpple really there really no one way to do its its sorta just hangin out wit and tryin to get em to like u sometimes its just talkin sometimes its touching or something so really its things u owuldnt do while ur wit any other guy
Reply:don't be shy what i do is rub my fingers through his hair and give him a flirty smile dress cute and be yourself go to your library and look up a book called 1001 ways to be romantic it might have something in it goodluck and hope this helped a little remember if it don't work with him there will be others
Reply:try to talk to him a little stir up a jucy conversation.
Reply:red rose
Reply:Guys just seem to know when you like them. You just be yourself because you'll be safer than if you or all over it and it makes them think that they are too good for you.
Reply:Wear pantyhose.............that is the HOTTEST thing ever!
Reply:well i had to this a lot for about 3 months.. it pretty simple actually. A website for the best flirting tips are found at www.myjellybean.com. if i were you i think u should talk to the kid a lot and whenever you get a chance just smile a lot around him and be charming. Also look your best everyday nd be nice but try to get the qualities he's looking for. If he's gonna change u totally in a bad way then don't even bother.
Reply:Stare at his face for a long time and don't blink. After a few minutes, he must acknowledge and your eyes meet and the fire will spark. BAMM!!!
How do guys flirt??
Question for guys: How do you flirt? Also, is this considered flirting: Theres this guys in one of my classes, and he sat in front of me and all class he would stare and smile, but he was like seriously staring me down....is that flirting?
How do guys flirt??
some guys are very slow flirters like me. It took me a while to really start flirting.
Reply:guy flirting....talkin to u, smiling at u, staring at u, makin u laugh, complimenting u...all kinds of stuff....and yes that is flirting, or unless he just likes looking at ure pretty face..haha like that
How do guys flirt??
some guys are very slow flirters like me. It took me a while to really start flirting.
Reply:guy flirting....talkin to u, smiling at u, staring at u, makin u laugh, complimenting u...all kinds of stuff....and yes that is flirting, or unless he just likes looking at ure pretty face..haha like that
He loves to flirt and she's clueless bout it..help me!!!?
This is about my best friend, A. She's been dating this guy, T for about a week and i,as her best friend know bout their relationship. But, one day, my friends told me bout T's background and he's the one who loves to flirt with other girl. I ask A to tell me bout T but i didnt tell her bout what i've heard. It sounds that A knows little bout T's activities which is to flirt with other girl and on the other hands, T told me that althought he loves to flirt with other girl, he loves A dearly and inform her his every day routine though A didnt ask for. The question is how should i tell A about T activities without hurting her feelings and if she ask me what to do bout her relationship with T, what should i tell her??
He loves to flirt and she's clueless bout it..help me!!!?
No matter what she's going to be hurt, but if you are a true friend you would find a way to tell her. (Print this survey). Once it's said you played your part as a friend. It's up to her to decide what's best for her.
Reply:People who interfere in their friends relationships don't remain friends for long. Don't tell her anything and if everything falls apart just be emotionally supportive. Begin now minding your own business about friends relationships. There will come a time when you are all grown up and find out that the guy next door with three kids is having a thing with the woman around the corner that has two kids. It won't do to tell either spouse as they may come to their senses and save two families. This young man that you are talking about may fall completely in love with the young lady he is dating and totally give up flirting. You may find that by minding your own business you have time to enhance your own attributes and attract a relationship of your own.
Reply:So, he's a flirt. Leave it alone. I don't see where this envolves you. He hasn't cheated, correct?
He loves to flirt and she's clueless bout it..help me!!!?
No matter what she's going to be hurt, but if you are a true friend you would find a way to tell her. (Print this survey). Once it's said you played your part as a friend. It's up to her to decide what's best for her.
Reply:People who interfere in their friends relationships don't remain friends for long. Don't tell her anything and if everything falls apart just be emotionally supportive. Begin now minding your own business about friends relationships. There will come a time when you are all grown up and find out that the guy next door with three kids is having a thing with the woman around the corner that has two kids. It won't do to tell either spouse as they may come to their senses and save two families. This young man that you are talking about may fall completely in love with the young lady he is dating and totally give up flirting. You may find that by minding your own business you have time to enhance your own attributes and attract a relationship of your own.
Reply:So, he's a flirt. Leave it alone. I don't see where this envolves you. He hasn't cheated, correct?
I like to flirt too much...?
I tend to flirt a lot and lead guys on (not always intentional) and then leave the guy mad at me becuase i wont do anything with them. i am a flirt in nature and dont intend to lead them on...any advice to control my flirting?
I like to flirt too much...?
No. You are free to flirt and lead guys on all you like!
Just dont get mad when YOU eventually meet a guy who wants NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.
You will not EVER be allowed to call him a "jerk".
M-KAY?
LMFAO!!!
:)
Reply:Yeah, how about stopping it or at least decreasing the flirting to something we can tolerate. You know what you are being called don't you. I'll give you a hint ---- tease. You don't want to be one and we don't like it when you are one.
Reply:no advice just hope you dont meet up with a freak that will do something to you
u will hate just cuz of a little flirtin
put on ur ring tone "I'm a flirt " by R kelly lol
Reply:Some women are flirts by nature. I think most women enjoy the attention they get from guys and I suspect this is the case with you as well. I don't mind some flirting but if it escalates into playing games with me then I will abruptly cut off any and all communication with a girl. Its a maturity thing, you need to develop more respect for other people's feelings.
Reply:do as you want others to do to you....eventually your continued flirting will lead you to someone you want to settle with and he will have only lead you on with his flirting....what goes around comes around...change your ways.
Reply:have a friend that you trust and won't judge you or anything like that [good luck with that] help you and like alert you when you're flirting and just like signal to you when you're leading some guy on so that you gradually shape into a non-flirt and you stop leading guys on
Reply:Ehh don't worry about it, there are many women like you that I've met and interacted with. And to control it, try thinking about what your doing and what your saying and how the guy will perceive it and act accordingly to not lead him on.
teeth cleaning
I like to flirt too much...?
No. You are free to flirt and lead guys on all you like!
Just dont get mad when YOU eventually meet a guy who wants NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.
You will not EVER be allowed to call him a "jerk".
M-KAY?
LMFAO!!!
:)
Reply:Yeah, how about stopping it or at least decreasing the flirting to something we can tolerate. You know what you are being called don't you. I'll give you a hint ---- tease. You don't want to be one and we don't like it when you are one.
Reply:no advice just hope you dont meet up with a freak that will do something to you
u will hate just cuz of a little flirtin
put on ur ring tone "I'm a flirt " by R kelly lol
Reply:Some women are flirts by nature. I think most women enjoy the attention they get from guys and I suspect this is the case with you as well. I don't mind some flirting but if it escalates into playing games with me then I will abruptly cut off any and all communication with a girl. Its a maturity thing, you need to develop more respect for other people's feelings.
Reply:do as you want others to do to you....eventually your continued flirting will lead you to someone you want to settle with and he will have only lead you on with his flirting....what goes around comes around...change your ways.
Reply:have a friend that you trust and won't judge you or anything like that [good luck with that] help you and like alert you when you're flirting and just like signal to you when you're leading some guy on so that you gradually shape into a non-flirt and you stop leading guys on
Reply:Ehh don't worry about it, there are many women like you that I've met and interacted with. And to control it, try thinking about what your doing and what your saying and how the guy will perceive it and act accordingly to not lead him on.
teeth cleaning
How do i flirt?
now i need answers from the boys this.Now how do guys liked to be flirted at?how to flirt? what ways can i flirt?i need answers from guys tho?lol
How do i flirt?
The answer depends on your age and experience. Also your comfort level.
First is talk to him. Get to know what he likes and does not like. Pay attention to him, make sure he knows your interested in him and that your availible. Ask about his hobbies or what he does with his spare time. Talk to him, on the phone or in person.
Second, I like a girl to look at my eyes and smile at me. Laugh at my jokes, say nice things about me, such as you have a nice voice, you have nice eyes, good tan, or you have broad shoulders. That's the first step in flirting.
Next is touching. Sit or stand close. Now you have to be sensitive , if he backs away, don't keep moving forward. back off or you will lose him. Talk some more, then try to get closer again.
A light, accidental touch to start with. A hand on the arm, just for a second. Then remove it. Touch the back of his hand or his face, again go slow. Depending on how old and experienced you are, you may wait a while on the touching part. Just talking is fine.
Reply:if you got to ask how to flirt you should not.An I am a guy.
Reply:I like when girls snuggle up to me.
Reply:well in the first place...i wouldnt flirt.its just really,i mean really stupid.what i do is i am my self.and please dont try to be who ur not.
Reply:1.) SMILE
2.) Eye contact.
3.) Touch them (just some, not a lot!)
4.) Interesting conversation.
Find a bood about body language and that could help you a lot. For the conversation - should be light, about something positive - no complaining, no talking about exes, etc..
Reply:Im not a guy but, you should just be extra bubilly but not amoying. And slowly get closer to him. Tomarrow when you see him hi5 him. do that for a while then you can give him a hug when you see him . If he huggs you back and is good to see you that that means that HE THINKS YOU ARE PRETTY COOL OR MAYBE HE EVEN IS A LITTLE INTERESTED. yOU HAVE TO BE FORWARD.
How do i flirt?
The answer depends on your age and experience. Also your comfort level.
First is talk to him. Get to know what he likes and does not like. Pay attention to him, make sure he knows your interested in him and that your availible. Ask about his hobbies or what he does with his spare time. Talk to him, on the phone or in person.
Second, I like a girl to look at my eyes and smile at me. Laugh at my jokes, say nice things about me, such as you have a nice voice, you have nice eyes, good tan, or you have broad shoulders. That's the first step in flirting.
Next is touching. Sit or stand close. Now you have to be sensitive , if he backs away, don't keep moving forward. back off or you will lose him. Talk some more, then try to get closer again.
A light, accidental touch to start with. A hand on the arm, just for a second. Then remove it. Touch the back of his hand or his face, again go slow. Depending on how old and experienced you are, you may wait a while on the touching part. Just talking is fine.
Reply:if you got to ask how to flirt you should not.An I am a guy.
Reply:I like when girls snuggle up to me.
Reply:well in the first place...i wouldnt flirt.its just really,i mean really stupid.what i do is i am my self.and please dont try to be who ur not.
Reply:1.) SMILE
2.) Eye contact.
3.) Touch them (just some, not a lot!)
4.) Interesting conversation.
Find a bood about body language and that could help you a lot. For the conversation - should be light, about something positive - no complaining, no talking about exes, etc..
Reply:Im not a guy but, you should just be extra bubilly but not amoying. And slowly get closer to him. Tomarrow when you see him hi5 him. do that for a while then you can give him a hug when you see him . If he huggs you back and is good to see you that that means that HE THINKS YOU ARE PRETTY COOL OR MAYBE HE EVEN IS A LITTLE INTERESTED. yOU HAVE TO BE FORWARD.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
How do I flirt with a guy who I don't really know?
I think this guy is really cute, but I don't really know him and I am not the biggest flirt, but I only have one class with him and I need the extra flirting skills to have an oppurtunity for him to like me. So basically what is a good way to flirt with guys??
How do I flirt with a guy who I don't really know?
Go up to him and start a conversation, that way he knows you're interested in him. Take a deep breath and most of all be confident. Men love confident women.
Reply:walk up say hi bat your eyes
Reply:Giggle, for some reason they like that stuff
Reply:when i dont know a girl an they r cute n they stare at me it gets me curious, so just stare at him and smile, make sure he sees u more than once.
How do I flirt with a guy who I don't really know?
Go up to him and start a conversation, that way he knows you're interested in him. Take a deep breath and most of all be confident. Men love confident women.
Reply:walk up say hi bat your eyes
Reply:Giggle, for some reason they like that stuff
Reply:when i dont know a girl an they r cute n they stare at me it gets me curious, so just stare at him and smile, make sure he sees u more than once.
How do you flirt...?
I know this may sound stupid...but I really like this guy and I think he likes me too. I want to let him know I like w/o being super obvious. I'm kinda outgoing but not really outgoing so it's hard for me to flirt with guys sometimes does anyone have any tips to flirt with him?? I think if I flirt for a while I could be able to tell if he really does like and then make a move...
thanks for advice
How do you flirt...?
ok its simpple really there really no one way to do its its sorta just hangin out wit and tryin to get em to like u sometimes its just talkin sometimes its touching or something so really its things u owuldnt do while ur wit any other guy
Reply:don't be shy what i do is rub my fingers through his hair and give him a flirty smile dress cute and be yourself go to your library and look up a book called 1001 ways to be romantic it might have something in it goodluck and hope this helped a little remember if it don't work with him there will be others
Reply:try to talk to him a little stir up a jucy conversation.
Reply:red rose
Reply:Guys just seem to know when you like them. You just be yourself because you'll be safer than if you or all over it and it makes them think that they are too good for you.
Reply:Wear pantyhose.............that is the HOTTEST thing ever!
Reply:well i had to this a lot for about 3 months.. it pretty simple actually. A website for the best flirting tips are found at www.myjellybean.com. if i were you i think u should talk to the kid a lot and whenever you get a chance just smile a lot around him and be charming. Also look your best everyday nd be nice but try to get the qualities he's looking for. If he's gonna change u totally in a bad way then don't even bother.
Reply:Stare at his face for a long time and don't blink. After a few minutes, he must acknowledge and your eyes meet and the fire will spark. BAMM!!!
thanks for advice
How do you flirt...?
ok its simpple really there really no one way to do its its sorta just hangin out wit and tryin to get em to like u sometimes its just talkin sometimes its touching or something so really its things u owuldnt do while ur wit any other guy
Reply:don't be shy what i do is rub my fingers through his hair and give him a flirty smile dress cute and be yourself go to your library and look up a book called 1001 ways to be romantic it might have something in it goodluck and hope this helped a little remember if it don't work with him there will be others
Reply:try to talk to him a little stir up a jucy conversation.
Reply:red rose
Reply:Guys just seem to know when you like them. You just be yourself because you'll be safer than if you or all over it and it makes them think that they are too good for you.
Reply:Wear pantyhose.............that is the HOTTEST thing ever!
Reply:well i had to this a lot for about 3 months.. it pretty simple actually. A website for the best flirting tips are found at www.myjellybean.com. if i were you i think u should talk to the kid a lot and whenever you get a chance just smile a lot around him and be charming. Also look your best everyday nd be nice but try to get the qualities he's looking for. If he's gonna change u totally in a bad way then don't even bother.
Reply:Stare at his face for a long time and don't blink. After a few minutes, he must acknowledge and your eyes meet and the fire will spark. BAMM!!!
How do guys flirt??
Question for guys: How do you flirt? Also, is this considered flirting: Theres this guys in one of my classes, and he sat in front of me and all class he would stare and smile, but he was like seriously staring me down....is that flirting?
How do guys flirt??
guy flirting....talkin to u, smiling at u, staring at u, makin u laugh, complimenting u...all kinds of stuff....and yes that is flirting, or unless he just likes looking at ure pretty face..haha like that
Reply:some guys are very slow flirters like me. It took me a while to really start flirting.
false teeth
How do guys flirt??
guy flirting....talkin to u, smiling at u, staring at u, makin u laugh, complimenting u...all kinds of stuff....and yes that is flirting, or unless he just likes looking at ure pretty face..haha like that
Reply:some guys are very slow flirters like me. It took me a while to really start flirting.
false teeth
He loves to flirt and she's clueless bout it..help me!!!?
This is about my best friend, A. She's been dating this guy, T for about a week and i,as her best friend know bout their relationship. But, one day, my friends told me bout T's background and he's the one who loves to flirt with other girl. I ask A to tell me bout T but i didnt tell her bout what i've heard. It sounds that A knows little bout T's activities which is to flirt with other girl and on the other hands, T told me that althought he loves to flirt with other girl, he loves A dearly and inform her his every day routine though A didnt ask for. The question is how should i tell A about T activities without hurting her feelings and if she ask me what to do bout her relationship with T, what should i tell her??
He loves to flirt and she's clueless bout it..help me!!!?
No matter what she's going to be hurt, but if you are a true friend you would find a way to tell her. (Print this survey). Once it's said you played your part as a friend. It's up to her to decide what's best for her.
Reply:People who interfere in their friends relationships don't remain friends for long. Don't tell her anything and if everything falls apart just be emotionally supportive. Begin now minding your own business about friends relationships. There will come a time when you are all grown up and find out that the guy next door with three kids is having a thing with the woman around the corner that has two kids. It won't do to tell either spouse as they may come to their senses and save two families. This young man that you are talking about may fall completely in love with the young lady he is dating and totally give up flirting. You may find that by minding your own business you have time to enhance your own attributes and attract a relationship of your own.
Reply:So, he's a flirt. Leave it alone. I don't see where this envolves you. He hasn't cheated, correct?
He loves to flirt and she's clueless bout it..help me!!!?
No matter what she's going to be hurt, but if you are a true friend you would find a way to tell her. (Print this survey). Once it's said you played your part as a friend. It's up to her to decide what's best for her.
Reply:People who interfere in their friends relationships don't remain friends for long. Don't tell her anything and if everything falls apart just be emotionally supportive. Begin now minding your own business about friends relationships. There will come a time when you are all grown up and find out that the guy next door with three kids is having a thing with the woman around the corner that has two kids. It won't do to tell either spouse as they may come to their senses and save two families. This young man that you are talking about may fall completely in love with the young lady he is dating and totally give up flirting. You may find that by minding your own business you have time to enhance your own attributes and attract a relationship of your own.
Reply:So, he's a flirt. Leave it alone. I don't see where this envolves you. He hasn't cheated, correct?
I like to flirt too much...?
I tend to flirt a lot and lead guys on (not always intentional) and then leave the guy mad at me becuase i wont do anything with them. i am a flirt in nature and dont intend to lead them on...any advice to control my flirting?
I like to flirt too much...?
No. You are free to flirt and lead guys on all you like!
Just dont get mad when YOU eventually meet a guy who wants NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.
You will not EVER be allowed to call him a "jerk".
M-KAY?
LMFAO!!!
:)
Reply:Yeah, how about stopping it or at least decreasing the flirting to something we can tolerate. You know what you are being called don't you. I'll give you a hint ---- tease. You don't want to be one and we don't like it when you are one.
Reply:no advice just hope you dont meet up with a freak that will do something to you
u will hate just cuz of a little flirtin
put on ur ring tone "I'm a flirt " by R kelly lol
Reply:Some women are flirts by nature. I think most women enjoy the attention they get from guys and I suspect this is the case with you as well. I don't mind some flirting but if it escalates into playing games with me then I will abruptly cut off any and all communication with a girl. Its a maturity thing, you need to develop more respect for other people's feelings.
Reply:do as you want others to do to you....eventually your continued flirting will lead you to someone you want to settle with and he will have only lead you on with his flirting....what goes around comes around...change your ways.
Reply:have a friend that you trust and won't judge you or anything like that [good luck with that] help you and like alert you when you're flirting and just like signal to you when you're leading some guy on so that you gradually shape into a non-flirt and you stop leading guys on
Reply:Ehh don't worry about it, there are many women like you that I've met and interacted with. And to control it, try thinking about what your doing and what your saying and how the guy will perceive it and act accordingly to not lead him on.
I like to flirt too much...?
No. You are free to flirt and lead guys on all you like!
Just dont get mad when YOU eventually meet a guy who wants NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.
You will not EVER be allowed to call him a "jerk".
M-KAY?
LMFAO!!!
:)
Reply:Yeah, how about stopping it or at least decreasing the flirting to something we can tolerate. You know what you are being called don't you. I'll give you a hint ---- tease. You don't want to be one and we don't like it when you are one.
Reply:no advice just hope you dont meet up with a freak that will do something to you
u will hate just cuz of a little flirtin
put on ur ring tone "I'm a flirt " by R kelly lol
Reply:Some women are flirts by nature. I think most women enjoy the attention they get from guys and I suspect this is the case with you as well. I don't mind some flirting but if it escalates into playing games with me then I will abruptly cut off any and all communication with a girl. Its a maturity thing, you need to develop more respect for other people's feelings.
Reply:do as you want others to do to you....eventually your continued flirting will lead you to someone you want to settle with and he will have only lead you on with his flirting....what goes around comes around...change your ways.
Reply:have a friend that you trust and won't judge you or anything like that [good luck with that] help you and like alert you when you're flirting and just like signal to you when you're leading some guy on so that you gradually shape into a non-flirt and you stop leading guys on
Reply:Ehh don't worry about it, there are many women like you that I've met and interacted with. And to control it, try thinking about what your doing and what your saying and how the guy will perceive it and act accordingly to not lead him on.
How do i flirt?
now i need answers from the boys this.Now how do guys liked to be flirted at?how to flirt? what ways can i flirt?i need answers from guys tho?lol
How do i flirt?
The answer depends on your age and experience. Also your comfort level.
First is talk to him. Get to know what he likes and does not like. Pay attention to him, make sure he knows your interested in him and that your availible. Ask about his hobbies or what he does with his spare time. Talk to him, on the phone or in person.
Second, I like a girl to look at my eyes and smile at me. Laugh at my jokes, say nice things about me, such as you have a nice voice, you have nice eyes, good tan, or you have broad shoulders. That's the first step in flirting.
Next is touching. Sit or stand close. Now you have to be sensitive , if he backs away, don't keep moving forward. back off or you will lose him. Talk some more, then try to get closer again.
A light, accidental touch to start with. A hand on the arm, just for a second. Then remove it. Touch the back of his hand or his face, again go slow. Depending on how old and experienced you are, you may wait a while on the touching part. Just talking is fine.
Reply:if you got to ask how to flirt you should not.An I am a guy.
Reply:I like when girls snuggle up to me.
Reply:well in the first place...i wouldnt flirt.its just really,i mean really stupid.what i do is i am my self.and please dont try to be who ur not.
Reply:1.) SMILE
2.) Eye contact.
3.) Touch them (just some, not a lot!)
4.) Interesting conversation.
Find a bood about body language and that could help you a lot. For the conversation - should be light, about something positive - no complaining, no talking about exes, etc..
Reply:Im not a guy but, you should just be extra bubilly but not amoying. And slowly get closer to him. Tomarrow when you see him hi5 him. do that for a while then you can give him a hug when you see him . If he huggs you back and is good to see you that that means that HE THINKS YOU ARE PRETTY COOL OR MAYBE HE EVEN IS A LITTLE INTERESTED. yOU HAVE TO BE FORWARD.
How do i flirt?
The answer depends on your age and experience. Also your comfort level.
First is talk to him. Get to know what he likes and does not like. Pay attention to him, make sure he knows your interested in him and that your availible. Ask about his hobbies or what he does with his spare time. Talk to him, on the phone or in person.
Second, I like a girl to look at my eyes and smile at me. Laugh at my jokes, say nice things about me, such as you have a nice voice, you have nice eyes, good tan, or you have broad shoulders. That's the first step in flirting.
Next is touching. Sit or stand close. Now you have to be sensitive , if he backs away, don't keep moving forward. back off or you will lose him. Talk some more, then try to get closer again.
A light, accidental touch to start with. A hand on the arm, just for a second. Then remove it. Touch the back of his hand or his face, again go slow. Depending on how old and experienced you are, you may wait a while on the touching part. Just talking is fine.
Reply:if you got to ask how to flirt you should not.An I am a guy.
Reply:I like when girls snuggle up to me.
Reply:well in the first place...i wouldnt flirt.its just really,i mean really stupid.what i do is i am my self.and please dont try to be who ur not.
Reply:1.) SMILE
2.) Eye contact.
3.) Touch them (just some, not a lot!)
4.) Interesting conversation.
Find a bood about body language and that could help you a lot. For the conversation - should be light, about something positive - no complaining, no talking about exes, etc..
Reply:Im not a guy but, you should just be extra bubilly but not amoying. And slowly get closer to him. Tomarrow when you see him hi5 him. do that for a while then you can give him a hug when you see him . If he huggs you back and is good to see you that that means that HE THINKS YOU ARE PRETTY COOL OR MAYBE HE EVEN IS A LITTLE INTERESTED. yOU HAVE TO BE FORWARD.
A flirt or a whore?
i get called a whore alot
and i don't kno why
I found out that people think i flirt too much and i don't kno what there talking about so i feel really stupid soo
am i a whore or a flirt?
i'm 13 if that helps
A flirt or a whore?
my cousin has the same problem
its that shes acts flirtacious
she dosent try or anything
its just she is comfortable around guys
and she pals around with them all the time (they're all friends)
shes into sports and stuff but still girly girl
actually its the girls that are jealous
they dont get guys that easily
they are also jealous because she is pretty
those kids are probaly just jealous and trying to bring you down to make themselves feel better
your probaly very pretty and get guy friends easily
dont let those jealous vipers get to you
they just hate u cause the cant be you
Reply:you're just a flirt. if you're a whore then that means u're with alot of guys without beening together
Reply:stop thinking about guys, what are you going to do? marry them? it's just going to mess up. wait until your 20 and learn about dating and marraige.
Reply:flritng a lot, does not make u a whore. do not let anyone make u feel bad
Reply:you're 13 and people call you that???
tell them to **** off.
Reply:they are probably jelious cause your probably cute and can hit on guys and they don't care.
Your only a whore if u have sex with every or almost every guy u hit on
Reply:they're just jealous!
if danny was 13 and a woman wanted to touch him you think he would accept? oh shut up danny
Reply:dont let people bring u down
if they push you, push them back
Reply:Your a whore if you go let guys touch you all the time and junk. And actually enjoy it. Your 13 so chances are the ppl who call you that are immature brats. pay them no mind. They are probably jealous.
Reply:no it doesnt make you a whore, it just makes other girl jelous.
Reply:It is okay to flirt. Usually ppl at your age are very nervous when it comes to the opposite sex and expressing themselves. It seems as if you have cornered the market on this. Maybe you flirt because you see it as a way of making yourself feel good. There is no harm in that. Probably if the girls are calling you a name, they are jealous. If the boys are calling you a name it is because they are jealous that you are talking to other boys. A whore is someone who is operating like a cheap prostitute. I doubt you are doing that.
Reply:WHORE!!! well honey you just dont go and flirt with other dudes on a daily basis. not all of them!!! stick to one. specialy if you let those other guys touch you. child you have so much to learn oh and specialy if your 13 [tisk tisk]. then again there's no shame in flirting....... never mind ignore all of that. flirt all you want honey life is short!! GO WHORES!!!
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and i don't kno why
I found out that people think i flirt too much and i don't kno what there talking about so i feel really stupid soo
am i a whore or a flirt?
i'm 13 if that helps
A flirt or a whore?
my cousin has the same problem
its that shes acts flirtacious
she dosent try or anything
its just she is comfortable around guys
and she pals around with them all the time (they're all friends)
shes into sports and stuff but still girly girl
actually its the girls that are jealous
they dont get guys that easily
they are also jealous because she is pretty
those kids are probaly just jealous and trying to bring you down to make themselves feel better
your probaly very pretty and get guy friends easily
dont let those jealous vipers get to you
they just hate u cause the cant be you
Reply:you're just a flirt. if you're a whore then that means u're with alot of guys without beening together
Reply:stop thinking about guys, what are you going to do? marry them? it's just going to mess up. wait until your 20 and learn about dating and marraige.
Reply:flritng a lot, does not make u a whore. do not let anyone make u feel bad
Reply:you're 13 and people call you that???
tell them to **** off.
Reply:they are probably jelious cause your probably cute and can hit on guys and they don't care.
Your only a whore if u have sex with every or almost every guy u hit on
Reply:they're just jealous!
if danny was 13 and a woman wanted to touch him you think he would accept? oh shut up danny
Reply:dont let people bring u down
if they push you, push them back
Reply:Your a whore if you go let guys touch you all the time and junk. And actually enjoy it. Your 13 so chances are the ppl who call you that are immature brats. pay them no mind. They are probably jealous.
Reply:no it doesnt make you a whore, it just makes other girl jelous.
Reply:It is okay to flirt. Usually ppl at your age are very nervous when it comes to the opposite sex and expressing themselves. It seems as if you have cornered the market on this. Maybe you flirt because you see it as a way of making yourself feel good. There is no harm in that. Probably if the girls are calling you a name, they are jealous. If the boys are calling you a name it is because they are jealous that you are talking to other boys. A whore is someone who is operating like a cheap prostitute. I doubt you are doing that.
Reply:WHORE!!! well honey you just dont go and flirt with other dudes on a daily basis. not all of them!!! stick to one. specialy if you let those other guys touch you. child you have so much to learn oh and specialy if your 13 [tisk tisk]. then again there's no shame in flirting....... never mind ignore all of that. flirt all you want honey life is short!! GO WHORES!!!
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Good way to flirt?
What are some good lines that will help me with the ladies
nothing too obvious
don't want to sound desperate(EVEN THOUGH I AM)
Some good FLIRTING LINES that will make girls feel good
What are some good topics that will lead to flirting
-She likes to laugh.
-I am a funny guy
-I always try to flirt with her
-What makes u feel good ladies
-known her for a long time
-we are both 14
-she is smart
-i want her to like me
-SHE IS IN ONE OF MY CLASSES(YEEAA)
-i want her to feel special when I talk with her
-I think I love her(even though i am only 14)
-What could make her feel special
-PLEASE HELP ME I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY LIKE HER
GIRLS PLEASE HELP ME
Good way to flirt?
Well it deffinitely helps if you are a funny guy... funny guys are usually the most attractive regardless of how they actually look! Be yourself when you make jokes though... don't overdo it or force anything just to impress her. Also, flirting doesn't have to be only about what you say to her, but how you act. Body language!!! Maintain eye contact with her (without being creepy).. i think this works everytime. Maybe find small and sublte ways to touch her or her clothing... like complimenting he shirt while placing a hand on her arm or something like that.
Reply:listen im good at flirting but im a girl so thats different stuff but i can tell you to not do anything stupid to ruin the realationship,if you love her,and your still young so dont be too quick to think your in love!and as for flirting dont be cheesy but be cute and be yourself!
nothing too obvious
don't want to sound desperate(EVEN THOUGH I AM)
Some good FLIRTING LINES that will make girls feel good
What are some good topics that will lead to flirting
-She likes to laugh.
-I am a funny guy
-I always try to flirt with her
-What makes u feel good ladies
-known her for a long time
-we are both 14
-she is smart
-i want her to like me
-SHE IS IN ONE OF MY CLASSES(YEEAA)
-i want her to feel special when I talk with her
-I think I love her(even though i am only 14)
-What could make her feel special
-PLEASE HELP ME I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY LIKE HER
GIRLS PLEASE HELP ME
Good way to flirt?
Well it deffinitely helps if you are a funny guy... funny guys are usually the most attractive regardless of how they actually look! Be yourself when you make jokes though... don't overdo it or force anything just to impress her. Also, flirting doesn't have to be only about what you say to her, but how you act. Body language!!! Maintain eye contact with her (without being creepy).. i think this works everytime. Maybe find small and sublte ways to touch her or her clothing... like complimenting he shirt while placing a hand on her arm or something like that.
Reply:listen im good at flirting but im a girl so thats different stuff but i can tell you to not do anything stupid to ruin the realationship,if you love her,and your still young so dont be too quick to think your in love!and as for flirting dont be cheesy but be cute and be yourself!
How do you flirt with a female?
How do you flirt with a female? how do you flirt, i want to flirt with my freind but doing it suttle. Cos i think she may like me.
How do you flirt with a female?
Laugh, stay around her, crack a joke, and dress nice. try to show you like her back.
Reply:Learn about flirting here:
http://www.helium.com/tm/622483/flirting...
and rate the article if it help you :)
How do you flirt with a female?
Laugh, stay around her, crack a joke, and dress nice. try to show you like her back.
Reply:Learn about flirting here:
http://www.helium.com/tm/622483/flirting...
and rate the article if it help you :)
So should I flirt with him or just let him be?
OK weve been friends this whole year, really good friends. At the begging of the year it was more like I was picking on him calling him names just to get on his nerves cuz at the time I didnt like him, and later on as the year progressed, i kinda remember he was like always asking me who I liked or something but I didnt think much of it because..well I didnt like him. Until about the last quarter of the year we started to flirt alot like online, myspace and at school. But now im starting to find that this freshmen girl realy likes him and is always flirting with him and talking to him on msn, myspace and on the phone. And he doesent talk to me like he use to, but on the last day of school he added me to his top friends list on myspace, but im after that other girl and i dont know I always heard and could tell that he likes to flirt with girls so do you think i should just let him be or should i go for him?
So should I flirt with him or just let him be?
Casually ask him if he likes the other girl see what he says. If you really like him then yeah you should do something about it, otherwise no. If your just missing teasing him and playing with him then dont do anything.
Reply:Do you like him or is it just a competition now?
Reply:I think its always better to try it out and see what happens. So just flirt with him and see how it goes.
Reply:I think ya' should!
Reply:just keep doing what you're doing(talking to him) and if he likes you more than that freshman girl... he'll go back to how it was
Reply:if you want to, go for him!
So should I flirt with him or just let him be?
Casually ask him if he likes the other girl see what he says. If you really like him then yeah you should do something about it, otherwise no. If your just missing teasing him and playing with him then dont do anything.
Reply:Do you like him or is it just a competition now?
Reply:I think its always better to try it out and see what happens. So just flirt with him and see how it goes.
Reply:I think ya' should!
Reply:just keep doing what you're doing(talking to him) and if he likes you more than that freshman girl... he'll go back to how it was
Reply:if you want to, go for him!
Wat to do, flirt...?
how to i flirt back, so i posted a question about how a guy i kno likes me, at least i think he does, and he always gets mad wen i dont talk to him, and how he alway teases me and call me names, in a flirty way. he always tells me how he a has a hot date, and then says, im just kidding. so ive gotten replies like
- he likes u, but is scared to ask u out
-he likes to flirt, and tries to make u jealous.
so my question is, how can i flirt with him, to have him feeing just as confused as i am, kinda playing hard to get. lol
Wat to do, flirt...?
just make a loud nose!
Reply:well you obviously have him hooked, just wait a bit to reel him in, lol, what i mean is don't be too far for him to reach but dont be clingy, guys dont respond well to clingyness. just maintain the space you had before, flirt modestly, dont go crazy and try the touchy flirting, that could go farther than you expect. If he says he has a hot dat it might be to see your reaction, when he says it try matching his claim with something of your own like, "oh you have a hot one? I had one that was so close to resembling _____ (hot actor) that i was afraid the press would start following us." lol, but dont use sarcasism as a block try to weave it into the conversation as a backup, incase he is trying a bit to hard to be funny. umm yea thats all i have, good luck, and personally i do think he likes you but is being too much of a joker to say it.
Reply:usually if you like him enough you just naturaly flirt... but whatever you do, do change yourself completely around him, it might really confise him and push him away... just do what you think you should do...
Reply:if this dude is hittin on you in the joke way play around with say funny little jokes call him names say you got date plains
Reply:Why play hard to get? Why even play with someone? I think relationships-wise, as it is a quite sensitive issue, people should be trasparent and mature, and assume what they want and what they don't without acting. The negative consequences of building something on top of a lie or a fairytale or a merely faux image make it a really lousy investment to play with people. You also don't want to risk misunderstandings in feelings-related areas.
Hope this helps
Salazar
Reply:jus use your "WOMEN LY POWERS"
Reply:there is no true way of flirting. its all how you do it. no one can tell you how to flirt. you have to decide how you will deal with this guy that you like and may like you. if he doesnt like the true you, then why go for him? just be yourself, and if he doesnt like that, then he wasnt the right one for you. i hope you come out ok :]
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- he likes u, but is scared to ask u out
-he likes to flirt, and tries to make u jealous.
so my question is, how can i flirt with him, to have him feeing just as confused as i am, kinda playing hard to get. lol
Wat to do, flirt...?
just make a loud nose!
Reply:well you obviously have him hooked, just wait a bit to reel him in, lol, what i mean is don't be too far for him to reach but dont be clingy, guys dont respond well to clingyness. just maintain the space you had before, flirt modestly, dont go crazy and try the touchy flirting, that could go farther than you expect. If he says he has a hot dat it might be to see your reaction, when he says it try matching his claim with something of your own like, "oh you have a hot one? I had one that was so close to resembling _____ (hot actor) that i was afraid the press would start following us." lol, but dont use sarcasism as a block try to weave it into the conversation as a backup, incase he is trying a bit to hard to be funny. umm yea thats all i have, good luck, and personally i do think he likes you but is being too much of a joker to say it.
Reply:usually if you like him enough you just naturaly flirt... but whatever you do, do change yourself completely around him, it might really confise him and push him away... just do what you think you should do...
Reply:if this dude is hittin on you in the joke way play around with say funny little jokes call him names say you got date plains
Reply:Why play hard to get? Why even play with someone? I think relationships-wise, as it is a quite sensitive issue, people should be trasparent and mature, and assume what they want and what they don't without acting. The negative consequences of building something on top of a lie or a fairytale or a merely faux image make it a really lousy investment to play with people. You also don't want to risk misunderstandings in feelings-related areas.
Hope this helps
Salazar
Reply:jus use your "WOMEN LY POWERS"
Reply:there is no true way of flirting. its all how you do it. no one can tell you how to flirt. you have to decide how you will deal with this guy that you like and may like you. if he doesnt like the true you, then why go for him? just be yourself, and if he doesnt like that, then he wasnt the right one for you. i hope you come out ok :]
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Why does he flirt more when I dress up more?
This guy that sometimes flirts with me. I mean I always try to dress nice, and wear some makeup. But when ever I do my hair a little different, and wear more makeup. He seems to flirt with me more. I only do this every once in a while, just when I feel like fixing up more. I thought guys didn't like more makeup. I don't know maybe it's the hair. I go from having it straight to curled. Why do you think he flirts more and acts more nervous around me then he usually does? I mean he still acts flirty the way I normally am, and kind of nervous too. But even more so when I'm more fixed up.
Why does he flirt more when I dress up more?
Most men have personal attraction triggers.
(I guess women do to come to think of it)
Some of them are a little unusual (but I'm not talking about weirdos here), but while I believe that all straight men love women's bodies, some really appreciate the way you present what you have.
I learned about this when I met my bf.
When we started dating I noticed that he would really act happy to be with me (more than usual) when I wore blouses with lots of buttons. I like styles from the 40's and would wear them as work or sometimes out on a dressier date. If I wore something that buttoned up to a nice collar and had a nice shape to it, he was just so proud to be with me. He would beam. I couldn't put my finger on it until he told me he loved the look. I like the look anyway but I always thought I was kind of living in the past and kind of plain. But he loves it and I love the way he looks at me so I do it happily.
My bf tells me that that flirting is just the fact that you have exactly what he likes to see and you are inviting him to continue (or at least not telling him to stop). The nervousness is that when you fix up just so, you are making a bulls eye on his horny target (my bf's words) and he can't get enough of you (and what ever it is you do to you).
Sounds like you've got his number but good. Hope this helps. Have Fun.
Reply:Because he thinks your beautiful.Everyone looks better when they get done up a little bit more than usual.Don't be worrying bout it. He just really likes you.
Reply:you women are so messed up in the head, no wonder we men can't figure you out.
Why does he flirt more when I dress up more?
Most men have personal attraction triggers.
(I guess women do to come to think of it)
Some of them are a little unusual (but I'm not talking about weirdos here), but while I believe that all straight men love women's bodies, some really appreciate the way you present what you have.
I learned about this when I met my bf.
When we started dating I noticed that he would really act happy to be with me (more than usual) when I wore blouses with lots of buttons. I like styles from the 40's and would wear them as work or sometimes out on a dressier date. If I wore something that buttoned up to a nice collar and had a nice shape to it, he was just so proud to be with me. He would beam. I couldn't put my finger on it until he told me he loved the look. I like the look anyway but I always thought I was kind of living in the past and kind of plain. But he loves it and I love the way he looks at me so I do it happily.
My bf tells me that that flirting is just the fact that you have exactly what he likes to see and you are inviting him to continue (or at least not telling him to stop). The nervousness is that when you fix up just so, you are making a bulls eye on his horny target (my bf's words) and he can't get enough of you (and what ever it is you do to you).
Sounds like you've got his number but good. Hope this helps. Have Fun.
Reply:Because he thinks your beautiful.Everyone looks better when they get done up a little bit more than usual.Don't be worrying bout it. He just really likes you.
Reply:you women are so messed up in the head, no wonder we men can't figure you out.
How do u flirt with a guy to get him to like u if u think he is flirting with u or if he already likes u??
ok there is this guy at my school that i like actually 2 guys this one guy he yelled my name in class and is like hey Jenna! and he did a kiss face at me and i just smiled...does that mean anything?? if it does how do i flirt with him back??
oh also there is this other guy that is nervous around me cause for this play were doin he is a really good actor but when he gets around me he gets nervous ok in the play he is supposed to hug me and so he gets all nervous and jabbed me in the neck on accident and in the boob. also we are supposed to hold hands and instead he holds my thumb like he dosent know how to hold hands with a gurl and then he is supposed to lift my head up u know grabs ur chin and lifts ur head instead he gets all nervous and does something else.
also....this kid called me fat and he is like y did u say that to her ??? and then he starts fightin with him wat does this mean?
does this mean anything???
does he like me??
should i flirt with him to see wat he does?
idk
How do u flirt with a guy to get him to like u if u think he is flirting with u or if he already likes u??
I hope i can help....
Okay this is what i think, the one thats doing the funny kiss face the one who yelled your name out in class. He seems to be the guy thats more popular, this guy (which i may be wrong) is the kind of guy whos had lots of girl friends before, he knows how to lead on girls, how to make girls fall for him and how to just push girls away, he thinks he can just play them like puppet! Not saying hes bad, all he needs is the right girl to make him settle down a be a bit more into his realtionship. Hes flirting with you for sure, but dont let you gard down, yes flirt back but dont let it show that hes makeing you nervous or anything, just have fun with it see where it goes. If you want to flirt back than this is what you can do.When he makes this silly face at you do it back to him. And laugh and smile about it when you do. He will for sure laugh back. Get talking to him later in class or outside and make jokes and just have fun with him, see what hes into and just start a converstation. Dont be nervous just be yourself, and nothing but yourself. Let him fall for you and not who your trying to be. He will see that your a fun girl and you like to joke back.Give him a wink here and there..lol..he will love it...it doesnt mean your in love with him, but tells him your okay with him flirting and you can do the same.
Now this other guy the shy one. He seems more like the type that hasnt had many relationships and is scared to make you run away from him, but still ends up messing up. He likes you a lot but doesnt really know how to flirt and if he did what would happen hes thinking...would you flirt back.Hes scared of regection and doesnt want to get hurt. So if your interested in him at all, you need to just start being more closer as just friends with him, talk to him when hes alone, see what hes into and start a converstation, once hes around you more his nerves will be less crazy around you and will feel more comfortable around you. Than once he is its just a matter of time of him asking you out.
Now its up to you....which guy do you like more???? Dont lead one on when you know who you like more than stick to it. And if you like one as a friend or both as a friend and nothing more, make it clear to them by saying that you have a boy friend that lives else where or make up some thing or your just not looking right now but maybe someother time. They will get the hint, and if you do it like this they will keep being your friend and than see what goes on from there......Hope i helped! :)
Reply:for the first guy just sounds like he is a class clown and likes to play around and the other guy may like you or he is just really nervous around girls
Reply:Please don't reproduce!
Reply:just be yourself....your bttr off
Reply:no idea
Reply:get intimate with them both
Reply:act like a slag and throw yourself at him men like me love that kind of stuff baby
Reply:the guy who made the kissy face: he could like u or just be missing with u
the guy in the play: could have a crush on u, but to make sure see how he acts around other girls if he acts different then he likes u....otherwise he is just nervous around girls
Reply:Ask him, go together in a date!
Reply:You're a natural blonde aren't you? Maybe you should stop worrying so much about the guys and concentrate on more important things, like how to type properly.
Reply:Flirt with both of them,flip your hair,%26amp; make a smile. I think they both like you,because they both seem to want your attention. Just try flirting with both of them %26amp; see how it works out. The guy that is supposed to hold your hand is probably feeling uncomfortable ,because he might think your already taken,or he really likes you. Good Luck-
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oh also there is this other guy that is nervous around me cause for this play were doin he is a really good actor but when he gets around me he gets nervous ok in the play he is supposed to hug me and so he gets all nervous and jabbed me in the neck on accident and in the boob. also we are supposed to hold hands and instead he holds my thumb like he dosent know how to hold hands with a gurl and then he is supposed to lift my head up u know grabs ur chin and lifts ur head instead he gets all nervous and does something else.
also....this kid called me fat and he is like y did u say that to her ??? and then he starts fightin with him wat does this mean?
does this mean anything???
does he like me??
should i flirt with him to see wat he does?
idk
How do u flirt with a guy to get him to like u if u think he is flirting with u or if he already likes u??
I hope i can help....
Okay this is what i think, the one thats doing the funny kiss face the one who yelled your name out in class. He seems to be the guy thats more popular, this guy (which i may be wrong) is the kind of guy whos had lots of girl friends before, he knows how to lead on girls, how to make girls fall for him and how to just push girls away, he thinks he can just play them like puppet! Not saying hes bad, all he needs is the right girl to make him settle down a be a bit more into his realtionship. Hes flirting with you for sure, but dont let you gard down, yes flirt back but dont let it show that hes makeing you nervous or anything, just have fun with it see where it goes. If you want to flirt back than this is what you can do.When he makes this silly face at you do it back to him. And laugh and smile about it when you do. He will for sure laugh back. Get talking to him later in class or outside and make jokes and just have fun with him, see what hes into and just start a converstation. Dont be nervous just be yourself, and nothing but yourself. Let him fall for you and not who your trying to be. He will see that your a fun girl and you like to joke back.Give him a wink here and there..lol..he will love it...it doesnt mean your in love with him, but tells him your okay with him flirting and you can do the same.
Now this other guy the shy one. He seems more like the type that hasnt had many relationships and is scared to make you run away from him, but still ends up messing up. He likes you a lot but doesnt really know how to flirt and if he did what would happen hes thinking...would you flirt back.Hes scared of regection and doesnt want to get hurt. So if your interested in him at all, you need to just start being more closer as just friends with him, talk to him when hes alone, see what hes into and start a converstation, once hes around you more his nerves will be less crazy around you and will feel more comfortable around you. Than once he is its just a matter of time of him asking you out.
Now its up to you....which guy do you like more???? Dont lead one on when you know who you like more than stick to it. And if you like one as a friend or both as a friend and nothing more, make it clear to them by saying that you have a boy friend that lives else where or make up some thing or your just not looking right now but maybe someother time. They will get the hint, and if you do it like this they will keep being your friend and than see what goes on from there......Hope i helped! :)
Reply:for the first guy just sounds like he is a class clown and likes to play around and the other guy may like you or he is just really nervous around girls
Reply:Please don't reproduce!
Reply:just be yourself....your bttr off
Reply:no idea
Reply:get intimate with them both
Reply:act like a slag and throw yourself at him men like me love that kind of stuff baby
Reply:the guy who made the kissy face: he could like u or just be missing with u
the guy in the play: could have a crush on u, but to make sure see how he acts around other girls if he acts different then he likes u....otherwise he is just nervous around girls
Reply:Ask him, go together in a date!
Reply:You're a natural blonde aren't you? Maybe you should stop worrying so much about the guys and concentrate on more important things, like how to type properly.
Reply:Flirt with both of them,flip your hair,%26amp; make a smile. I think they both like you,because they both seem to want your attention. Just try flirting with both of them %26amp; see how it works out. The guy that is supposed to hold your hand is probably feeling uncomfortable ,because he might think your already taken,or he really likes you. Good Luck-
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Does your cat 'flirt' with you when she wants attention? I ask this not as a perverted question...?
My cat, well really she's a member of the family and everybody's 'baby', is a huge flirt. Not in a sexy way or anything weird like that, but she has a way of coyly curling up in cute positions when she wants attention. She gets a shy look on her face and curls up her front paws and generally looks so adorable that eventually someone gives in and pets her. The expressions and the way she holds herself are almost human and very definitely flirty. We're not a family of flirts so I don't think it's something she picked up from us...
So anyway, does your cat flirt with you, or is my cat somehow unique in her flirty manipulations?
Does your cat 'flirt' with you when she wants attention? I ask this not as a perverted question...?
that is sooo sweet...my kitty gurl does some stuff like that, she comes near and keeps brushing against us back %26amp; forth...then jumps on the sofa puts her paw on our shoulder, and then lick our neck or face...then slowly gets down to our lap, and curls up like a cute doll, and looks us at in a kind of i dunno...cute, innocent, babyish look ?!!....mebbe itz jus your cats way of getting attention, and I think she is the only pet, a pampered %26amp; spoiled one..:)
Reply:that "flirty" thing cats do is actually a show of affection to you...she looks at you and half lowers her head and eyelids...it does look like flirting...
your cat must really be loved and is loving you back. my pringers does this.
when she wants attention she jumps in my lap and smashes down my paper or book and demands attention, or she soft paws my legs untill i move to a chair that she can get into my lap in.
Reply:cats are like that. They even purr around your legs, that means it likes you and wants attention.
Reply:Cat want penis
Reply:Cats are pretty smart animals, as we don't undersand all the subtle signals of their body language, they very quickly learn what gets our attention and then adopt that behaviour whenever they want something.
My current two cats whilst sociable are not overly affectionate towards us. However the female has mastered the art of kitten-like mewling and cute poses when she wants something. She is never so affectionate as when she wants something to eat . I think the term "cupboard lover" describes her perfectly. She's also adopted the habit of flopping and rolling onto her back if she wants her belly rubbing.
I accept it as part of their independent nature - sharing my home with them, means everything is on their terms (lol)
Reply:very unique alrite!!
i no a cat that every time it can gt out and does, it comes back with eight kitties!!
Reply:That's normal cat behaviour - your cat sounds very charming.
So anyway, does your cat flirt with you, or is my cat somehow unique in her flirty manipulations?
Does your cat 'flirt' with you when she wants attention? I ask this not as a perverted question...?
that is sooo sweet...my kitty gurl does some stuff like that, she comes near and keeps brushing against us back %26amp; forth...then jumps on the sofa puts her paw on our shoulder, and then lick our neck or face...then slowly gets down to our lap, and curls up like a cute doll, and looks us at in a kind of i dunno...cute, innocent, babyish look ?!!....mebbe itz jus your cats way of getting attention, and I think she is the only pet, a pampered %26amp; spoiled one..:)
Reply:that "flirty" thing cats do is actually a show of affection to you...she looks at you and half lowers her head and eyelids...it does look like flirting...
your cat must really be loved and is loving you back. my pringers does this.
when she wants attention she jumps in my lap and smashes down my paper or book and demands attention, or she soft paws my legs untill i move to a chair that she can get into my lap in.
Reply:cats are like that. They even purr around your legs, that means it likes you and wants attention.
Reply:Cat want penis
Reply:Cats are pretty smart animals, as we don't undersand all the subtle signals of their body language, they very quickly learn what gets our attention and then adopt that behaviour whenever they want something.
My current two cats whilst sociable are not overly affectionate towards us. However the female has mastered the art of kitten-like mewling and cute poses when she wants something. She is never so affectionate as when she wants something to eat . I think the term "cupboard lover" describes her perfectly. She's also adopted the habit of flopping and rolling onto her back if she wants her belly rubbing.
I accept it as part of their independent nature - sharing my home with them, means everything is on their terms (lol)
Reply:very unique alrite!!
i no a cat that every time it can gt out and does, it comes back with eight kitties!!
Reply:That's normal cat behaviour - your cat sounds very charming.
To flirt or not to flirt?
If your romantically or seriously involved with someone is it wrong to flirt with another person?
To flirt or not to flirt?
You should ask yourself, would it hurt you if you saw your boyfriend flirting with another cute girl? If you are both OK with flirting, and you both know it will not effect your relationship, then it should be fine. Alot of people are NOT fine with their better half giving that sort of affection to another, though. Just keep in mind that you care for this person and don't want to make them sad or worried. Whats more important?
Reply:totally wrong.
If you want to either kiss or have sex with some other guy (at least in your mind) do this guy a favor and let him loose.
Or, at least be honest with him by telling him that you plan to flirt with other guys.
Reply:NO!!! If you are a flirtatious person then by all means you must be true to who you are. They started dating you because of who you are.
Reply:Well, it depends on your intensions.....if you are trying to find someone new or hook up with a guy....then YES that is wrong. But if you are just wanting some fun....then go ahead and flirt.
Reply:Well not if your really interested in person A then flirting with person B would be ok since your looking for someone new.
Reply:Not really, as long as you don't go further with that. And don't be cheeky.
Reply:nope, i flirt all the time. but never serious
Reply:okay listen, i think it is ok to flirt even if u are in a serious relationship, if that is just who u are, or what defines u, as long as u keep in mind that u are in a relationshp and need to respect ur partner... but there is an issue here u see, if u are a babe ( which i suspect that u are) the object of ur flirtation may become infatuated with u and could mean trouble into ur relationship, so what i'm saying is that it is ok, just be careful that it is an innocent flirt and nothing more!. SUAE
Reply:Yes it's wrong...flirting is sending out the message of availability...if you're committed to someone else that is very wrong and can lead to mistrust in a relationship.
Reply:Wow! This is like my 12th run in with a dumb assss question today.
Reply:yes,so stick to one.ok?
Reply:flirt if he flirt back but try not to go to fare
Reply:No way...I flirt with my girl/friends all the time!
Reply:Flirting can sometimes spice up a relationship...but let me ask you this, are you okay with him flirting with other women? If yes...then flirt away, if not...you should treat him the way you want him to treat you. Remember that sometimes flirting can get you in trouble and can lead to more than you bargained for.
Reply:wait...let me ask the pope...
Reply:Flirt Away
To flirt or not to flirt?
You should ask yourself, would it hurt you if you saw your boyfriend flirting with another cute girl? If you are both OK with flirting, and you both know it will not effect your relationship, then it should be fine. Alot of people are NOT fine with their better half giving that sort of affection to another, though. Just keep in mind that you care for this person and don't want to make them sad or worried. Whats more important?
Reply:totally wrong.
If you want to either kiss or have sex with some other guy (at least in your mind) do this guy a favor and let him loose.
Or, at least be honest with him by telling him that you plan to flirt with other guys.
Reply:NO!!! If you are a flirtatious person then by all means you must be true to who you are. They started dating you because of who you are.
Reply:Well, it depends on your intensions.....if you are trying to find someone new or hook up with a guy....then YES that is wrong. But if you are just wanting some fun....then go ahead and flirt.
Reply:Well not if your really interested in person A then flirting with person B would be ok since your looking for someone new.
Reply:Not really, as long as you don't go further with that. And don't be cheeky.
Reply:nope, i flirt all the time. but never serious
Reply:okay listen, i think it is ok to flirt even if u are in a serious relationship, if that is just who u are, or what defines u, as long as u keep in mind that u are in a relationshp and need to respect ur partner... but there is an issue here u see, if u are a babe ( which i suspect that u are) the object of ur flirtation may become infatuated with u and could mean trouble into ur relationship, so what i'm saying is that it is ok, just be careful that it is an innocent flirt and nothing more!. SUAE
Reply:Yes it's wrong...flirting is sending out the message of availability...if you're committed to someone else that is very wrong and can lead to mistrust in a relationship.
Reply:Wow! This is like my 12th run in with a dumb assss question today.
Reply:yes,so stick to one.ok?
Reply:flirt if he flirt back but try not to go to fare
Reply:No way...I flirt with my girl/friends all the time!
Reply:Flirting can sometimes spice up a relationship...but let me ask you this, are you okay with him flirting with other women? If yes...then flirt away, if not...you should treat him the way you want him to treat you. Remember that sometimes flirting can get you in trouble and can lead to more than you bargained for.
Reply:wait...let me ask the pope...
Reply:Flirt Away
How should i flirt?
I really wanna no how to flirt and i liked to flirt HARD!!!!!!! so boys show me how i should flirt sexy!!!!!
How should i flirt?
Be confident and comfortable with yourself. Don't act the way you think people want you to act, but be yourself. People can often tell when you're being fake, and rarely do they like it. Smile, giggle, make eye contact, make cute jokes and talk about something you know the other person is interested in. Don't be overly sexually aggressive, that can be a total turn off to the other person.
Reply:CAUTIOUSLY!!!!!!!
Reply:Look him in the eyes, smile and toss your hair. He'll melt!
Reply:there's not a instruction manuel. Just be your self, smile, and be confident.
Reply:smile, blink your eyes, do eye contact. do kissing movements with out you hand,show some leg,wear a skirt.
Reply:Show your breasts, accidently of course. Do not wear panties and sit in front of the boy. Show him your Twinkie. Make eye contact and flutter your eyes. open your mouth and wiggle your toungue, as if you were licking him.
Reply:Sweet talk, laugh(no big just a small giggle),make eye contact,and never I men never talk about your ex's
Reply:body language ,tone of voice,eye contact and make sure some where in the conversation you mention you do not have a boy or girl friend.
Reply:First, how old are you? Be honest and add that to your details section of the question. If you're under age, don't do it. If you're old enough, you should already know. Now go do your home work.
Reply:Im a girl, but heres what works really well
Ralph Laurens "Cool". This scent turns on so many guys. Its like that Axe commmericial except with the guys running.
Physical contact-on the arms, or playing with hands (idk, bring up something like How to Hold Hands)
Mess up hair, wrestling, plenty of hugs...
Oh and make them wee bits jealous.
For example, if you want the guy to run the extra mile, say something like
OH! Guys friend-so you would be better at this....your so cute....(usual schpiel)
Then you go to the guy you like- I was just kidding!!! And hug him and stuff.
The sweep of relief seems to help.
Reply:2 words. SHOW BOOBS
Reply:ok jus act natural thats all u can do and if guys dont like u for u thats not really ur problem
Reply:DONT. I know girls who have tried too hard and the boy ended up punching her in the face
Reply:Think about Ellie Mae of the Beverly Hillbillies. We Southern Folk, Love that type. I hope that helps
Reply:Wear something that says, "I am sexy."
Have a sexy mentality.
Know your target and become the bait!
Reply:here's what I do it usually works:
Don't look too sexy, but don't be plain. Just look good
Smile%26amp;Giggle
Touch him, on like the arm and shoulders.
When you leave him, hug him tightly.
Reply:Okay well it depends on what your purpose of flirting is.
If you are giving off the Im open 24 hours like a 7-11 signal, then thats just wrong .. But to each thier own.
I prefer to make eye contact with him across the room, look away and then look at him again. Then you will get his attention and he will suddenly realize that there is someone across the room that has suddenly captures his attention. Then work it from there ...
Ohh the good ol days of flirting .. If winter will go away I can break that out again ....
How should i flirt?
Be confident and comfortable with yourself. Don't act the way you think people want you to act, but be yourself. People can often tell when you're being fake, and rarely do they like it. Smile, giggle, make eye contact, make cute jokes and talk about something you know the other person is interested in. Don't be overly sexually aggressive, that can be a total turn off to the other person.
Reply:CAUTIOUSLY!!!!!!!
Reply:Look him in the eyes, smile and toss your hair. He'll melt!
Reply:there's not a instruction manuel. Just be your self, smile, and be confident.
Reply:smile, blink your eyes, do eye contact. do kissing movements with out you hand,show some leg,wear a skirt.
Reply:Show your breasts, accidently of course. Do not wear panties and sit in front of the boy. Show him your Twinkie. Make eye contact and flutter your eyes. open your mouth and wiggle your toungue, as if you were licking him.
Reply:Sweet talk, laugh(no big just a small giggle),make eye contact,and never I men never talk about your ex's
Reply:body language ,tone of voice,eye contact and make sure some where in the conversation you mention you do not have a boy or girl friend.
Reply:First, how old are you? Be honest and add that to your details section of the question. If you're under age, don't do it. If you're old enough, you should already know. Now go do your home work.
Reply:Im a girl, but heres what works really well
Ralph Laurens "Cool". This scent turns on so many guys. Its like that Axe commmericial except with the guys running.
Physical contact-on the arms, or playing with hands (idk, bring up something like How to Hold Hands)
Mess up hair, wrestling, plenty of hugs...
Oh and make them wee bits jealous.
For example, if you want the guy to run the extra mile, say something like
OH! Guys friend-so you would be better at this....your so cute....(usual schpiel)
Then you go to the guy you like- I was just kidding!!! And hug him and stuff.
The sweep of relief seems to help.
Reply:2 words. SHOW BOOBS
Reply:ok jus act natural thats all u can do and if guys dont like u for u thats not really ur problem
Reply:DONT. I know girls who have tried too hard and the boy ended up punching her in the face
Reply:Think about Ellie Mae of the Beverly Hillbillies. We Southern Folk, Love that type. I hope that helps
Reply:Wear something that says, "I am sexy."
Have a sexy mentality.
Know your target and become the bait!
Reply:here's what I do it usually works:
Don't look too sexy, but don't be plain. Just look good
Smile%26amp;Giggle
Touch him, on like the arm and shoulders.
When you leave him, hug him tightly.
Reply:Okay well it depends on what your purpose of flirting is.
If you are giving off the Im open 24 hours like a 7-11 signal, then thats just wrong .. But to each thier own.
I prefer to make eye contact with him across the room, look away and then look at him again. Then you will get his attention and he will suddenly realize that there is someone across the room that has suddenly captures his attention. Then work it from there ...
Ohh the good ol days of flirting .. If winter will go away I can break that out again ....
How do i flirt with a guy that i normally don't talk to?
There is this guy that i really like. Oh im in the 7th grade if that helps. But anyway this guy like every once in a while he'll start talkin to me about something random. But like i want to talk more with him and flirt more with him. Like i really don't want to go up and just start talking to him...that would be akward. But like what should I do because i like him soo much and i want to ask him out but i want to flirt with him first. Oh and hes in 2 of my classes. When should i flirt and how?
How do i flirt with a guy that i normally don't talk to?
just starting up a conversation with him will be a small step in flirting because if you dont talk to him then all of a sudden you are... he will notice.
Reply:Well, do you know which way he walks to and from the class, start there, if your classes are the same way, as your walking out the door, say see ya tomorrow %26lt;his name%26gt; and he will probably be kinda caught off guard, then flash a cute smile and walk off (a sexy brisk strut)...so do the same thing the next day...he will probably respond this time...but dont walk off as fast, and if you can, stall for a sec, so he will be closely walking with you, and see if he tries to talk to you somemore...
maybe in class, ask if he did the homework, or if there a test, ask him did he study, even offer to give him a quick quiz before the bell rings..
-when you laugh...touch his leg
-dont laugh loud and with your mouth open...he dont wanna see your tonsils
-in the first class you have, you could ask him did he do the work for the 2nd class...reverse?...if hes smarter than you, or appears to be as smart..ask him to help you with it...make him feel like you need him..."you have to help me study for this test, my moms gonna kill me if i get a bad grade." "do you understand this stuff, i really need your help"
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How do i flirt with a guy that i normally don't talk to?
just starting up a conversation with him will be a small step in flirting because if you dont talk to him then all of a sudden you are... he will notice.
Reply:Well, do you know which way he walks to and from the class, start there, if your classes are the same way, as your walking out the door, say see ya tomorrow %26lt;his name%26gt; and he will probably be kinda caught off guard, then flash a cute smile and walk off (a sexy brisk strut)...so do the same thing the next day...he will probably respond this time...but dont walk off as fast, and if you can, stall for a sec, so he will be closely walking with you, and see if he tries to talk to you somemore...
maybe in class, ask if he did the homework, or if there a test, ask him did he study, even offer to give him a quick quiz before the bell rings..
-when you laugh...touch his leg
-dont laugh loud and with your mouth open...he dont wanna see your tonsils
-in the first class you have, you could ask him did he do the work for the 2nd class...reverse?...if hes smarter than you, or appears to be as smart..ask him to help you with it...make him feel like you need him..."you have to help me study for this test, my moms gonna kill me if i get a bad grade." "do you understand this stuff, i really need your help"
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Signs that guys flirt with other guys?
I am a guy… how do other guys flirt with guys? I am just wondering because I have guy friends and they play around but a few look as they are flirting with me. What are signs that guys flirt with other guys?
Signs that guys flirt with other guys?
Let me tell you that if you aren't out the closet, it's going to be kind of hard if you don't allow nobody to know that you're gay. I used to have guys flirt with me in a playful way and do things that I felt wasn't normal for a guy to do to another guy. I don't think I never considered that it was probably hard for them to tell me that they were gay. Well..these are 10 things that you might pick up on that someone likes you.
1. eye contact; starring
2. over friendliness
3. sexual innuendos in conversation.
4. touchy feely
5. the use of words
6. flirting
7. nervousness around you
8. calling you all the time
9. asking people where you are
10. buying alot of things for you.
Reply:I agree, DavidGC had a good answer. If you are interested in flirting then it's important to learn how, but if not don't worry about it.
The other thing to keep in mind is that straight guys do have a lot of "gay" behavior, commonly termed "lockerroom behavior" A lot of this behavior could be considered flirtatious by others who aren't in the know.
I think the big thing is that it signifies a level of intimacy, either someone wants to be intimate (meaning closer and comfortable, not just sex) or there is already a level there, such as oftentimes is found in the lockerroom.
Bottom line, if they are interested in you and you in them, then ask them. Otherwise flirt back, have fun, and don't take it too seriously.
Reply:I'll get a missle supply of thumbs down ofcourse because think like I'm from Jupiter, but what I say here is what I see all the time (I''m straight by the way):
This is very difficult to know because so many "straight" guys will do the gayest things with each other jokingly. Some do it to somehow prove to others that they're not gay/bi. Some do it to try to feel more comfortable about themselves in some way. I've always figured if a guy acts in a way that guys normally do with girls when flirting, it's still flirting, I don't care if their joking around or not.
Like this one guy I work with. He would go around this one dude who's the least masculine guy their, and tickle his sides. Thats pretty gay to me. If he did that to a girl, that would clearly be flirting. So the fact that it was a guy he was doing that too is no different to me.
This behavior makes it harder for out of the closet gays to flirt and make it obvious that they like another guy. It's kind of like a girl who pretends to be bisexual to get guys attention. Some real lesbians or bisexuals get confused about whether some girls are for real or not when flirting.
Keep a look out. I suspect many of the guys who claim their straight actually are flirting when they do gay sh*t.
Reply:'They glance give you eye contact the way they would a woman maybe brush against you. Its just a little more slickly done.
Reply:touchy feely, give off the gay vibe (a secret magic like gaydar) and see if you get it back, that's if they're not flaming of course. hints, suggestions and the like.
Reply:they ask DO YOU FANCY BUM?
Reply:When they grab your nuts playfully , but don't let go.
Reply:I'm really impressed with David GC's answer, very insightful. I'd go with what he says
Reply:It's best not to overanalyze other people in this way, unless you are gay and wondering how to spot other gay guys because you are looking for a date. Is that the case?
If it is, that's a whole separate discussion, because then your question is more along the lines of "I'm interested in another guy. How can I tell if he is flirting with me?" If you're interested in a guy who seems to be flirting with you, just try take it a little bit at a time and see if you run into any roadblocks at any point. If so, just move on to someone else. But if it leads somewhere, then you both win.
But if you're not gay yourself, it's best to just let it go and not worry about your friends' sexuality, since it doesn't really concern you and should have no bearing on the nature of your friendship. You should be comfortable enough with your own sexuality not to be bothered by or preoccupied with the sexuality of others.
There's nothing wrong with being discrete.
Reply:If it's in a play full way - then nothing about it
If it's in a play full nervous way - its flirting
Signs that guys flirt with other guys?
Let me tell you that if you aren't out the closet, it's going to be kind of hard if you don't allow nobody to know that you're gay. I used to have guys flirt with me in a playful way and do things that I felt wasn't normal for a guy to do to another guy. I don't think I never considered that it was probably hard for them to tell me that they were gay. Well..these are 10 things that you might pick up on that someone likes you.
1. eye contact; starring
2. over friendliness
3. sexual innuendos in conversation.
4. touchy feely
5. the use of words
6. flirting
7. nervousness around you
8. calling you all the time
9. asking people where you are
10. buying alot of things for you.
Reply:I agree, DavidGC had a good answer. If you are interested in flirting then it's important to learn how, but if not don't worry about it.
The other thing to keep in mind is that straight guys do have a lot of "gay" behavior, commonly termed "lockerroom behavior" A lot of this behavior could be considered flirtatious by others who aren't in the know.
I think the big thing is that it signifies a level of intimacy, either someone wants to be intimate (meaning closer and comfortable, not just sex) or there is already a level there, such as oftentimes is found in the lockerroom.
Bottom line, if they are interested in you and you in them, then ask them. Otherwise flirt back, have fun, and don't take it too seriously.
Reply:I'll get a missle supply of thumbs down ofcourse because think like I'm from Jupiter, but what I say here is what I see all the time (I''m straight by the way):
This is very difficult to know because so many "straight" guys will do the gayest things with each other jokingly. Some do it to somehow prove to others that they're not gay/bi. Some do it to try to feel more comfortable about themselves in some way. I've always figured if a guy acts in a way that guys normally do with girls when flirting, it's still flirting, I don't care if their joking around or not.
Like this one guy I work with. He would go around this one dude who's the least masculine guy their, and tickle his sides. Thats pretty gay to me. If he did that to a girl, that would clearly be flirting. So the fact that it was a guy he was doing that too is no different to me.
This behavior makes it harder for out of the closet gays to flirt and make it obvious that they like another guy. It's kind of like a girl who pretends to be bisexual to get guys attention. Some real lesbians or bisexuals get confused about whether some girls are for real or not when flirting.
Keep a look out. I suspect many of the guys who claim their straight actually are flirting when they do gay sh*t.
Reply:'They glance give you eye contact the way they would a woman maybe brush against you. Its just a little more slickly done.
Reply:touchy feely, give off the gay vibe (a secret magic like gaydar) and see if you get it back, that's if they're not flaming of course. hints, suggestions and the like.
Reply:they ask DO YOU FANCY BUM?
Reply:When they grab your nuts playfully , but don't let go.
Reply:I'm really impressed with David GC's answer, very insightful. I'd go with what he says
Reply:It's best not to overanalyze other people in this way, unless you are gay and wondering how to spot other gay guys because you are looking for a date. Is that the case?
If it is, that's a whole separate discussion, because then your question is more along the lines of "I'm interested in another guy. How can I tell if he is flirting with me?" If you're interested in a guy who seems to be flirting with you, just try take it a little bit at a time and see if you run into any roadblocks at any point. If so, just move on to someone else. But if it leads somewhere, then you both win.
But if you're not gay yourself, it's best to just let it go and not worry about your friends' sexuality, since it doesn't really concern you and should have no bearing on the nature of your friendship. You should be comfortable enough with your own sexuality not to be bothered by or preoccupied with the sexuality of others.
There's nothing wrong with being discrete.
Reply:If it's in a play full way - then nothing about it
If it's in a play full nervous way - its flirting
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