Thursday, November 19, 2009

Should I flirt with him?Fear of being rejected!?

I really like this guy and I dont know if he flirts with me or not.So,he is in my class and I really whant to flirt but I am to scared to make the first move cas I am fearful of being rejected.And just to make it clear,Im not ugly.


There are 2 guys in my class (maby more) who like me,but i dont like them.I was thinking "it would be awsome if he like me".I just dont whant to make the first move.


This guy I like often is showing off in front of me.Some people say that he was flirting.I didnt know that and so that was the reason I didnt react to cool stuff he did.(he dose int really show off in front of me any more that much)


I am just so lost,I am wondering becas im new at my school if he likes me or if its just another stuped crush he has.


Any help?





Oh and I know my spelling s*u*c*k*s so you dont need to tell me that.


-Thanks!

Should I flirt with him?Fear of being rejected!?
Don't fear being rejected. Just go for it because it'll just be something you regret in the future. If he keeps flirting he likes you and if he doesn't make the first move then you have to. Plenty girls i have dated made the first move when i didn't even know.





Also, please answer my question.
Reply:well it seems that your very attractive. take a damn chance!! he might like you but is too shy to express it. flirt with him and if your not one of those night and shining armor crap just ask him out. it could be the best move of your life. if your not ugly just hook up with another guy. it's nice that your not easy, some guys like the challenge(such as me)
Reply:Just do it...Look everyone is afraid of rejection.But evryone also hate when they say,"what if I had did this".
Reply:Ha! You know what drives everyone crazy? When you say "hi", make chatter, then say "I enjoyed talking with you..." then just WALKING OFF... leaves an air of mystery about you, without being snotty...


How to Flirt??

I know that if ur not sure if a boy likes u or not, ur supposed to flirt, but how do u flirt????


IS THERE LEVELS OR SUMTHING?????????


I NEED FLIRTING HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!


also when u answer this question, please include email address if u want to (please include it!)


so i can email u back!


My email's


YeJennyLu@Yahoo.com


THANKS!

How to Flirt??
It's funny how you ask jenny :) but anyway from last question:





"F- is for flatter. The fastest way to a persons heart is by complimenting them. Find something you really like about that person, there hair, the way they act ect. and compliment them on it. make sure you find multiple things you like and compliment away. don't use stupid compliments like oh your eyes are pretty when there really not. make it sincere.





L- is for listen. People love when you listen to them, it shows that you are really interested in that person and really care what they are talking about. Besides the biggest aphrodisiac is listening.





I- is for interests. Find things you have in comment with that person, don't find to many it will just freak them out and make it like your stalking them just find a couple of things in common. like what kinds of music you like, movies, etc.





R- is for responsible. Don't lie, don't send mixed messages, be straight up. Guys are completely confused about girls so don't try and confuse them more than what they already lie. Don't choose inappropriate flirting partners such as your friends boyfriend/girlfriend. Don't make it where flirting will hurt anyone.





T- is for trusting yourself. Trust yourself, be confident, bold, and daring. Trust yourself that you will come out knowing that even if you didn't get the guy/girl that you wanted you can always be nice and friendly to that person.





S- is for smile. BoDy LaNgUaGe, can i stress it anymore? Smile, it will show the person that you are friendly and nice. If you smile, you might get one back."





And NO there are no levels or anything. It is about feeling a certain way around another person :)





Good luck :)
Reply:Most likely if you like the guy, you will just flirt naturally.. there is no science to it
Reply:um weird question but just talk joke around and smile a lot. that sound like flirtinng to me


A shameless flirt?

So I have a good friend (girl) who really likes this guy and before she started crushing on him i didnt really know him. But they start hanging out, movies, dances and stuff and I go too. But she is shy around guys that she likes and is afraid to flirt and tell them how she feels. But I step up and am always flirting with him because I have gotten to know him better and now like him. But she is feeling resent towards me and him because he is flirting back. We have become good friends(me and him) and hang out a joke but we are not dating and dont expect that to happen. What do I do about a friend like that? He does not like her like that. She is getting angry so what do I do?

A shameless flirt?
put your self in her place,seehow you feel.
Reply:So she introduces you to this really great guy that she really likes and you take advantage of her shyness and swoop in and then wonder why she's angry?





You said she was a "good friend", why would you do that to her without letting her interest in the guy play out, let her discover on her on he wasn't interested, etc...
Reply:go with the friend you new first if she dose not go with you the she was just useing you to get to him
Reply:Personally, you are not a friend to this girl. Neither are you a good friend at all right now. (Sorry to be so harsh, but if you search your heart you know it is the truth). Friends do not do what you are doing to this girl who you claim to be your friend. I think deep down you are not happy with yourself, you are insecure and your self-esteem is at an all time low. Hence, all the flirtation and deliberately going after a guy that a girl who thinks you are her friend likes. Please stop this behavior. It is destructive and in the end harmful to not only you but to your friend.





Perhaps the only way you feel good about yourself is when you get attention of guys through flirting. But try and list all the great things about yourself down on a piece of paper. Look at them, meditate on those great qualities you have - learn to appreciate them and love yourself for you. That way, you will not need male attention to make you feel good. Also, be the kind of friend to others that you want a friend to be to you. Remember, what goes around comes around.





All The Best!
Reply:what does she do about a friend like you!!?? you knew she liked him first!
Reply:i think that if you don't plan on getting serious with him then u could strike up a conversation about her to him and tell him all the good things about her and stuff like that. he may not like her now because she is shy around him and shes afraid of the denial. and u may want to help her get to know him better so shes not so shy around him. but by the way u put the question i think u just wont him all to Ur self. so y not think about Ur friends felling and not Ur own
Reply:this sounds like a stretch for you, but have you tried to be HONEST with your friend. Why are you willing to let her be hurt?
Reply:dont hurt your friend!!!!!!!!
Reply:well, i've had the same problem and just tell her how HE feels about her and if she is TRUE friend she'll understand that you and him are just friends and thats how ya'll will stay, if she gets upset.... o well, she isn't a real friend if she doesnt understand
Reply:im sry to say...but u cant do anything you cant change a persons feelings....you could help her with her nervous problem so the next time she will get the guy....teach her to flirt really good then go out all three of you again....this time you shouldnt flirt!
Reply:If you and tha guy r JUST friends tell him he should understand...

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How to flirt?

how do you flirt? like..i can recognize someone flirting but like i cant put it into words..idk if i flirt with guys cuz im not sure what exactly you do...could someone please explain?

How to flirt?
STEP 1: Start by working on your self-esteem. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.





STEP 2: Smile, smile, smile.





STEP 3: Think playful thoughts when gearing up to flirt. Flirts are fun and engaging, and they love to play with others.





STEP 4: Compliment a stranger or acquaintance on his or her clothes, eyes, smile or sense of humor for starters.





STEP 5: Keep your body language open and inviting: make eye contact, lightly touch the person's hand or arm when telling a story, toss your head back when you laugh.





STEP 6: Initiate stimulating conversation. At a loss for words? Ask open-ended questions about the flirtee's job, hometown, family, recent movies seen, or thoughts about a painting on the wall.





STEP 7: Open up about yourself, giving someone even more reason to like you. But don't go on and on - the goal is to engage and intrigue, not bore.





STEP 8: Gauge the person's interest carefully. If you sense a flashing red light - or worse, smug ridicule - make your exit graciously, and immediately. You've got nicer people to meet.





STEP 9: Progress in your flirtation, paying attention to cues from the object of your interest. If you perceive a sensual or sexual connection, make a bold move - ask for a date.





*******Tips %26amp; Warnings*******





--Avoid negative body language such as crossing your arms, scowling, appearing overly stressed, looking downward or walking in a hurry when you don't really need to.





--Give yourself time to learn what types of conversation starters work for you.





--Practice flirting whenever you can - at the grocery store or Laundromat, or with your friends.





--Sexually suggestive remarks or touching are inappropriate among co-workers. Keep any office flirting G-rated at all times.





I hope you get what you want. Ciao
Reply:Flirting is giving extra usually physical attention to another person. You smile, touch their arms or shoulders... ask someone who's with you often.
Reply:it's looking into someones eyes and laughing at what they say, playfully pushing them a bit and standing closer than you usually would with someone else.
Reply:its just sumthin that comes naturaly i think.. u either got or u dont


When guys flirt..........?

Guys, when you flirt what are some specific things you do when you flirt? What is the difference when you are flirting just for the heck of it or fun or when you are interested/attracted to a girl?





THANKS!! :)

When guys flirt..........?
When it's someone you want you tend to make more of an a$$ of yourself.
Reply:Im not a guy but if a guy is trying to show interest in you he will treat you diff then any other girl that he knows
Reply:I think when a boy likes you, he shows off in front of you. And when he is showing off in front of you, he keeps glancing at you to see if your watching. And he'll 'play' with you, like tag and stuff. Because boys want to 'bond' with you so they treat you like they'd treat their friends. And because they are dumb when it comes to girls so they're not sure what to do. Oh, and I'm sure they would do stuff to make you mad.


He is a HUGEEEEEEEE flirt? and i like it? but it kinda confuses me? HELP?

theres this really cute sophmore and his name is matt. (im a freshman) today in math we were flirting way more than usual. he walked behind my seat and i leaned my haed back to him and he put his hands on my shoulders and rubbed and massaged them. then he was like "when am i getting my massage?" and i laughed. then he was like "anna i love you" in a very comfortable way and i was like "i love you too." and he was like "so anna when are we gonna do it?" and i was like "whenever you want" and he was like "right here right now" and i laughed and was like "sure why not lol" . he walked me to class and he was like "u are definitely one of my favorite freshmen" and hes like "pretend like your my gf lol hold my hand" as a joke and i held his hand and it was the best feeling ever...when he was massaging me i felt shivers and tingles WOW...the problem is that he treats EVERY girl like this and i mean EVERY GIRL. he is the biggest flirt i have ever met. but hes really cute and i really like him. help! and im NOT a **** it was all in good fun.


and we were both joking about "doing it" and saying "i love you"


we are just friends but i want to be more. i dont think some of you really got my question. he is a HUGE flirt and he flirted with me and held my hand. i felt GREAT. so now i LIKE him. but he treats EVERY girl like this.


help!


need advice on his type and him and hes an all around nice guy but i really like him and it sux that he treats every grl that way. how to accept it?

He is a HUGEEEEEEEE flirt? and i like it? but it kinda confuses me? HELP?
I wonder how many other girls he's done his "routine" on I'd leave him alone.
Reply:some guys can be like this at first because they are insecure. even though he may seem like the last person who would be insecure, he prolly is... and then sometimes they can turn out to be god boyfriends. just act like his friend for now and see what happens, but be on you guard
Reply:lol, i would punch his face then teach him a lesson, he might not be a nice guy, a player can't be a nice guy.....


Is it ok to flirt when you already have a boyfriend?

I have a cousin that tells me when I meet a guy I tend to flirt...I don't see it as flirting I see it as befriending someone. I don't touch them or do anything with them besides talk and joke around. Thats just how I am with guys. Because I don't get along with girls...I'm not afraid to talk or to get to know someone. and my cousin is one of those girls who doesnt' talk to guys cuz she has a man. but I think boys are good to have as friends. so is it bad to "flirt" (laugh, joke, talk) when you already have a boyfriend? So what is the actual meaning of flirting? and when does it go to far?

Is it ok to flirt when you already have a boyfriend?
Depends. Are you flirty with girls, too? (I don't mean as in sexual advances- and I hope your flirting with the guys couldn't be construed as sexual in nature...) Do you giggle with them, making inuendoes, touch arms, etc? Some people are just flirty. There's a fine line between harmless flirting, and disrespect to your partner.





I STRONGLY disagree with one answer here regarding flirting being as bad as cheating. Very black and white, and there is such a thing as innocent flirting.





I celebrated my 10th anniversary with my hub this year. I am a flirt. And my husband is the only true man (all others, to me, are irrelevant) in the world to me.
Reply:being outgoing and friendly is not flirting...whether you are attached or not.


If you are acting in a seductive way , the n you need to stop it.


Some people are very insecure around this behaviour and it tends to hurt people's feelings and anger the ladies with the guys you are being friendly with... so be careful.


You have to know what and when it is appropriate and where the line is that you shouldn't cross.....


There is the difference between flirting to seek a man's attention and just being friendly....
Reply:You can interpret the word flirt as .......the way you would like to see your guy acting with other girls. Okay so you say you dont flirt and just laugh and joke around. So the same way you act with your guy friends would you like for your boyfriend to act with other chick friends. If so then your not flirting. But if you would not like it then maybe you need to change the way you act with other guys so it wont look like flirting.
Reply:Nope.... that's just as bad as cheating. The true way to know if its wrong or not.... as yourself if you would get mad if he did the same thing.
Reply:It's okay to flirt when you already have a bf. That just means you ultimately know the relationship will end anyway; you wanna make sure the options are still out there.


If you found a guy you truly truly cared about, flirting wouldn't even occur to you. It wouldn't be something you even thought about doing, since all you care about would be your bf's happiness.
Reply:No its not OK. Why do guys get so mad? not because we think bad of you





But you don't seem to understand what guys are thinking when you flirt with them whether they know you have a man or not.





They are thinking,..I'd do this chick right now..Somebody get her a shot
Reply:yes! I wish my gf would flirt. tim
Reply:nothing wrong until u have a fiance or u r married... u have to be careful then
Reply:Anytime I have a question like this I think of would I be bothered if my boyfriend did this....so would it bother you if your man did this with other woman? Be honest with yourself cause if your not you are only hurting yourself...and make sure it doesnt bother him...other then that guys are good buddies but beware of some....even though they know you have a man they can take it too far...hope this helps..
Reply:as long as ur boy friend accepts it.
Reply:As long as your boyfriend isn't bothered by your behavior - you are OK... if all you are doing is talking and joking around.
Reply:how would you feel if your boyfriend was flirting with other


women?

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Flirt or not?

Hey so theres this guy....hes kinda cute...and i've noticed i flirt with him. So does my friends....they say that i must like him.....I just say no its just to see if he'll ask me out.....lol as a joke.....but thats not really true...........i think i kinda like him but i have already told this SUPER CUTE guy that MIGHT like me that i liked him..and i do...But just in case should i keep flirting with guy numbero1 or keep liking guy number 2...I NEED YOUR OPINOIN what to do?!!

Flirt or not?
As long as you haven't caught either one, what's wrong with flirting with two at once???


Flirt without being bitchy n be more sexy..?

Hi all, I'm really not good at this, i'm the decent (innocent) type of gal, i don't sleep around and i admit i'm a total idiot when it comes to relationships. I've only have 1 bf in the past... because of my controlling parents... :(





I really like to learn how to flirt, get a bf and to experience love and being in a relationship. Can any experienced girls or guys please give me some tips?





I'm a friendly gal, polite and soft spoken. But i think most guys find that boring...





How do i flirt effectively without being bitchy? ... I don't want guys to get the wrong idea cuz i'm not. And how can i be more sexy? What do guys find sexy in girls? I thought of wearing more revealing clothes but i didn't want others to mistaken me as the easy type...





Any help will be greatly appreciated... :)

Flirt without being bitchy n be more sexy..?
for me.. ppl say im sexy but no bitchy is.. becos i know how to dress up myself.. know yr figure well and look for those dress that suit u well.. if u reali do wana to become sexy.. jus wear make up.. less clothing.. do nail polish... long n nice hair ( 99% guy like) high heels... no track shoe pls... lol..
Reply:My Dear, you have come to the right place...you must be my younger counterpart. I was exactly like you until I got older. My name says it all, shynomore....I am not a trashy woman, but I do enjoy playing on Yahoo Answers. If you look back at my past questions and answers, you'd think I'd had more men than Pam Anderson's had boob jobs, but it's not real. This is my creative playground and I love it. If you need some good, clean advice, I'd love to help you. You can flirt without changing who you truly are and get the attention you crave. Just ask me....I'm the prime example of it. It's all about attitude. If you feel pretty, then you get treated better. Not snobby, just pretty and capable of holding your own.
Reply:I think the key here is confidence, just going up to a guy in restaurant and saying "hey,you are really sexy, do you have a girlfriend?" and than keep the convo going will be helpful. You can also leave notes on their car.;) But whatever it is be confident and a little crazy.
Reply:The most important thing is to BE YOURSELF!





It is my belief that one of the reasons teh divorce rate is so high is because people pretend to be something they are not just to get a more attractive partner. They keep up the game for a little while until they know they have them hooked, and then their true self comes out. The unknowing partner then is left wondering what the heck happened, and where did the person they fell in love with go? If you aren't yourself then you aren't going to attract the type of person who would be better suited for you.


Flirt girls?

Some girl i Like Is Comming to braid my hair soon im 19 and shes 20 and i really like her But i Wanna flirt with her At the sametime But im reallllly shy and shes a lil bit shy but not to much tho so when we talk shes always smiling Need hints to know if shes likes me but i wanna show her justttt a lil bitttt that i got something for her but not to much how to know if she like mee without pullin a move on her cuz i really dont wanna do that yett too soon we talk a couple weeks now so if anybody could help me what to say to flirt with her or say somethig to find out if she like me THANKSS

Flirt girls?
say you like her dress, eyes hair colour could be anything. best way 2 start
Reply:Chicks dig punctuation.
Reply:just flirt with her alot tell her shes pretty stuff like that be charming and sweet
Reply:compliment her - you look nice cute dress ... wanna watch a movie is something she would probably say yes 2 put your arm around her and say i love u GOOD LUCK
Reply:girls are often not into younger guyz
Reply:Sometime during a break in braiding..when that butt gets sore..conversate..if she flirts..smile move toward her about 75-80% for a kiss and see if she comes in for the landing..that way no feelings get hurt if she doesn't but, you'll know whats up if she does.
Reply:dude man thats messed up. you like her but you don't want to flirt with her. your stuck. if you don't flirt she will never know that you like her? I would complement her on her hair. That can never ever fail. That is huge to a girl, the hair.
Reply:here fast can you get that hair off my back.


He is a HUGEEEEEEEE flirt? and i like it? but it kinda confuses me? HELP?

theres this really cute sophmore and his name is matt. (im a freshman) today in math we were flirting way more than usual. he walked behind my seat and i leaned my haed back to him and he put his hands on my shoulders and rubbed and massaged them. then he was like "when am i getting my massage?" and i laughed. then he was like "anna i love you" in a very comfortable way and i was like "i love you too." and he was like "so anna when are we gonna do it?" and i was like "whenever you want" and he was like "right here right now" and i laughed and was like "sure why not lol" . he walked me to class and he was like "u are definitely one of my favorite freshmen" and hes like "pretend like your my gf lol hold my hand" as a joke and i held his hand and it was the best feeling ever...when he was massaging me i felt shivers and tingles WOW...the problem is that he treats EVERY girl like this and i mean EVERY GIRL. he is the biggest flirt i have ever met. but hes really cute and i really like him. help! and im NOT a **** it was all in good fun.


and we were both joking about "doing it" and saying "i love you"


we are just friends but i want to be more. i dont think some of you really got my question. he is a HUGE flirt and he flirted with me and held my hand. i felt GREAT. so now i LIKE him. but he treats EVERY girl like this.


help!


need advice on his type and him and hes an all around nice guy but i really like him and it sux that he treats every grl that way. how to accept it?

He is a HUGEEEEEEEE flirt? and i like it? but it kinda confuses me? HELP?
i wouldn't take him seriously. it seems like he's a big player...but if u wanna know him better I would say just begin as friends and move on from there.

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Flirt with men?

i need help i really like this guy his like 14 i'm 13 n i' moving in a week so i need some good ways 2 flirt with him n stuff..i hang out with him alot n stuff n it seems like he might like me 2 soo plz help me. justr give me some ways 2 flirt with him.

Flirt with men?
SMILE!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Well im a teenager as well, like grab his hand and maybe put your head on his shoulder.. Stuff like that is a good start..!
Reply:Umm......... just a wild guess hug him a lot, tell him you like him and if he likes u. e-mail him date alot and make sure he e-mails u. Thats how i did it. trust me it works
Reply:just talk to him.ask him what he likes n stuff.
Reply:If you flirt with this guy, if he was like me at 14, he probably won't even notice. Just tell him you like him. He will probably kiss you as he's moving away and he's got nothing to lose. Of course, it won't last - he might write you emails for a while, but after a while he'll forget. But that's what being 13 is about, I'm afraid.





Sorry!





...Don't let his hands wander. You're still young.


How to flirt...?

How can i flirt with a guy that wil flirt back...How to flirt?

How to flirt...?
Some ways that my boyfriend and I flirt with eachother are


- tease eachother


- tickle


- hug


- cuddle


just basic stuff, and make cute little comments, and smiles, and play with your hair! lol♥♥


hope I helped!
Reply:the basics are smile, eyecontact, %26amp; be a little touchy


Should I flirt with him?Fear of being rejected!?

I really like this guy and I dont know if he flirts with me or not.So,he is in my class and I really whant to flirt but I am to scared to make the first move cas I am fearful of being rejected.And just to make it clear,Im not ugly.


There are 2 guys in my class (maby more) who like me,but i dont like them.I was thinking "it would be awsome if he like me".I just dont whant to make the first move.


This guy I like often is showing off in front of me.Some people say that he was flirting.I didnt know that and so that was the reason I didnt react to cool stuff he did.(he dose int really show off in front of me any more that much)


I am just so lost,I am wondering becas im new at my school if he likes me or if its just another stuped crush he has.


Any help?





Oh and I know my spelling s*u*c*k*s so you dont need to tell me that.


-Thanks!

Should I flirt with him?Fear of being rejected!?
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Reply:you need to copy and paste this question in the singles and dating area.
Reply:if you want to


Is it wrong to flirt with lots of boys, but never do anything with them?

im always flirting with boys, but im 14 and its normal right?


i flirt, but i go no further because i have lernt from my mistakes when i first discovered sex at 12, but when ever i flirt with the lads my friends always give me funny loocks as though im a slag, but i never go further than huggs, i don t kiss them, no oral sex or onything so why do they give me funny looks? plz help asap, i need to know what it is that im doin while im flirting that is upsettin ma m8s lv chavin_it_riz.

Is it wrong to flirt with lots of boys, but never do anything with them?
No, it's not a wrong thing to flirt... it's a normal step of your age to flirt ! It's a technique you use to experiment, and that's a good thing... Flirting with boys is obligation-free, so you don't have to get involved in a serious relationship to be able to flirt...





So, keep up the good work and feel good for what you're doing ! It's great that some people DO have fun !!!





;)
Reply:There is nothing wrong with flirting...it never hurts to flirt
Reply:maybe your friends are jealous that you have such confidence and no how to act around boys. And yes its normal to flirt.......a lot. Come on, flirting is meant to be fun! But you shouldn't go too overboard or you'll get a really bad reputation as a slut. Try talking to your friends to see what the problem is.

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How to flirt?

i need some flirting tips. i am already pretty good at it i think but any help is appreciated. also is there an way to flirt over email. like saying something that would make him think. and if so what are some of those things. but mainly in person flirting. thanx

How to flirt?
In person just be cutesie with him. talk and laugh and maybe touuch him as much as possible. you'll get his attention trust me.
Reply:the best way to flirt is to flash that smile and be yourself. nothing like it. don't make the first moves on guys ever.. flirt as much as you want (subtly) but keep it in mind that Boys are born to run after girls ! so flirt and then don't give the boy any attention . that gets them crazy.
Reply:eyes are key, if you can send the message using your eyes it really helps








e-mail flirting .... add alots of those little :) ;) :( ;( the winking ones reall get the point across
Reply:do not flirt.


flirting is teasing.


if you do not plan to take action on the flirting


why do it.
Reply:wink %26amp; smile ! they wont know what to think
Reply:SMILE!!!!!! =D


Flirt help?

i know how to flirt but ithink it would be a little wirrd to go up to a girl and compliment their hair or eyes HELP PLZ do u have any other ways to flirt

Flirt help?
just be direct and honest


Flirt tips PLZ?

this boy in my 4,5,and 6 period class iz known to be da biggest flirt around!!


and of cource he flirts wid me


but i really like him and im not sure if he likes me??


how can i get his attencion without givving it away that i like him??





He always make jokes around me and stuff and when i tell some of my friends they say that he does that ...al they can say is "well he does that to me too ...gosh"


idk if there jeaulous or telling da truth HELP


HELP HELP@@@!!!

Flirt tips PLZ?
flirt back and take it further


give him your number
Reply:while he's sitting, come up behind him and accidentally bump your breasts on the back of his head. put your fingertips over your lips and say "Oops". Give a sly grin and ignore him the rest of the day.





He'll be putty in your hands.


Flirt help puhlease !!?

okay...so im pretty shur this guy lykes me! he always tries to jump into my conversations %26amp; i find myself talking to him alot ! I also notice that hes doing the same flirt stuff that i did with my crush last year...so does anyone kno how i can flirt back! usually im pretty good but i just keep drawing blanks ! help!! thanks =]

Flirt help puhlease !!?
SMILE!!! Look straight into his eyes....Pause and then look away.. Do this a few times, then wait for a reaction!!!


Have fun!! I wish I were there again! (Early dating young was the BEST!)

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Why is it easy for me to flirt with guys I DON'T like, and harder with guys I do like?

It seems like a simple, basic question but it's not.


I'm afraid to flirt with any guy whom I think is cute....whether he knows me or not. But any guy I don't like, or even my guy friends, I sometimes flirt with sub-consciously, when I don't even feel that way for them. I know this sounds crazy...but is it normal? I also find as a result of this is that I am drawn to guys who do not like me, whom I do not flirt with. I tell myself that if I flirt and talk to the guys I like, they will like me the same way as other guys do, but part of me says not to follow that. So why do I only flirt with guys who don't like me? Why can't I flirt with guys I like? Is this normal?

Why is it easy for me to flirt with guys I DON'T like, and harder with guys I do like?
its easier to flirst with yguys you dont like because your not trying to attract them


you can be yourself





i have the same problem


its completely normal


you get nervous around the guy you like so its harder to focus haha
Reply:It's a little like the "fear of success" syndrome. It's because if you flirt with someone you DO like, then a really serious relationship could result. Yes, this is the way to real happiness and your heart's desire, but it's WAY harder than keeping it superficial. It's REAL, it's not play. A real relationship takes work. You have to share yourself with another person, risk that kind of vulnerability in order to be close to someone...with no absolute guarantee that it will work out in the long run. In short, your may be afraid of the "real thing," so you avoid all that by flirting only with guys you don't like.





Think about this. And someday, when you're ready to take the risks involved in a real love relationship, get ready to be courageous.
Reply:Of course this is normal!! I do the same exact thing! Personally I think it is because I am afraid of getting into a realtionship with the cute boy. Also for me, if I am not interested in a boy but still flirting, it doesn't make me worry later about it because I know that even if I say something stupid... it doesn't matter because I have no reason to be impressing him. I don't really know if this is your problem but in my own experience I have seen that the cutest boys out there always make me nervous and that is why I have such a difficult time.
Reply:Come on, Dare! You already know why, don't you? Guys who you don't like are of no threat or consequence to you. You don't really care what they think or feel. Guys that you DO like have the power to reject and challenge you, because you DO want their approval. It's quite simple, also quite unfair. You shouldn't really play around with the emotions of the guys you don't like. They may be receiving the wrong signal, try to act on it, and then the situation could get ugly or hurtful. So do yourself a favor, muster up the courage to go for what you really want. Best wishes to you, Dare.
Reply:If you like a guy, you get nervous. You worry about whether or not he'll like you and how he'll respond. If you don't like a guy you don't care what he thinks of you, so you aren't scared of flirting with him.
Reply:It's simple...because of the fear of being "turned down".


Rejection is scary, but next time you cross that hott guy you haven't spoken to, get over the fear and approach him... even if the results aren't the best, you'll have the satisfaction of knowing you approached him... it's a good way to get your flirt down too!





Good luck!
Reply:Dear Friend,





Yes, it is very easy. It is due to your inside. Not due to the GUY.


The GUY, you don't like, so you don't care. You don't become conscious about yourself.





The GUY you like, you become conscious. You care about yourself. Example, how will he feels if you will do this or that? etc. In front of the GUY, you like, sub-consciously you are trying to look better in front of yourself, you are becoming very polite etc.





SO, it is you and not those guys.





Now, just be with yourself and you won't feel that way.


How to flirt with gemini man and keep them guessing?

How to flirt with gemini man and keep them guessing? i don't know to flirt ..i wanna flirt with him on msn and text message

How to flirt with gemini man and keep them guessing?
I'm a Gemini and the best way to deal with him is to never reveal it all. Maintain being mysterious as long as you can. But don't play games either. We hate that. We are energetic, easy to get along with well for the most part. We need constant stimulation. But we also like that thing of the unknown. So don't reveal everything at once. We loads of fun.





But no matter what sign he is, he's still just a guy. So follow the basic dating rules also. Oh yeah, we are funny and love to laugh, which is awesome.





Good Luck





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Reply:flirtings an art to complicated to go into details at the moment. and why does itmke a difference that hes a gemini
Reply:I don' know, I'm a libra...
Reply:Oh good luck. I don't get along well with Geminis. They are too unstable and lie too much.
Reply:Read this - really good article on psychology of flirting





www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html
Reply:i dont get along with geminis


I'm a major flirt, and who-ever I flirt with ends up liking me, why is this? And when we end up going out..

I'm a major flirt, and who-ever I flirt with ends up liking me, why is this? And when we end up going out I stop flirting because it weird. When I try being myself no-one likes me. What should I do?

I'm a major flirt, and who-ever I flirt with ends up liking me, why is this? And when we end up going out..
Whoever you flirt with ends up liking you because we all like it when someone pays attention to us, especially if it's flirting. It's normal to feel a little weird with flirting when you start dating someone. But you should give yourself some credit, you don't really know for sure that no one likes you. Be yourself more often, you'll be surprised how many people like it when you are "you" all the time.
Reply:try being yourself from the get go and quit flirting. it may cut down on your dates but at least it will lead to a more credible dating situation
Reply:it's obvious that you like to flirt so you can see if you cant conquer anyone. Once you get them, you dont want them. You portray yourself as being a c*ck tease because u flirt and seem available and once they realize it was all a front, they are no longer interested.


Flirt with guys...?

How can I flirt with some guys? I mean, please give me some tips :) or ways of flirting

Flirt with guys...?
THE EYES HAVE IT. Great eye contact is ultra-effective when it comes to flirting. Still, many girls lock up at the thought of actually looking straight into a boy’s baby-browns for any length of time. It is nerve-wracking at first! If you feel the same, try this step-by-step game plan:





1. Shake off any self-doubt. Some of the uneasiness people feel about direct eye contact has to do with the fact that the other person is going to look back just as closely. Zap jitters by reminding yourself you’re gorgeous inside and out. Nobody except you is focused on that microscopic zit on your chin, and your crush is a lucky guy because you’re looking his way. Don’t ever forget that!





2. Practice your gaze in the mirror. This way, you can perfect a confident, positive look of interest. Be sure to smile, too! Rehearsing also helps you avoid lovey-dovey doe eyes. Hold eye contact with your reflection for a full minute if you can. This will get you comfy keeping your eyes on your crush when the two of you finally chat. Don’t stare, glaze over or forget to blink!





3. Be way casual. Don’t fix your eyes on the guy from a distance like a tiger hunting down dinner. Pretend you just noticed him right before you reach him, then catch his gaze and flash a smile as you pass. Check out his reaction: Does he hold your gaze and smile back? If so, good. Repeat this process a couple times, until one of you is bold enough to strike up a conversation.





MAD SKILLS. Impress your boy from afar with your incredible talents. You can do this so undercover, it’ll look effortless! Say he’s the one coordinating your school’s charity concert. You know he’s into punk…but bet he doesn’t know you’re a totally skilled drummer.





Volunteer your band for the show, and be sure to tear up the skins with a drum solo. He should be totally impressed with your music finesse, and now that he knows you’re tuned in to the music scene, it’ll give you guys something to talk about.





SENDIN’ OUT AN SOS. Does the dude you dig rock American history class, while you can’t even remember if Benjamin Franklin invented the lightbulb or the automobile or what? If so, ask him for homework help. You’ll score a few private moments in the public library—just you and him. What an excellent opp!





Some rules to remember: Don’t make your study sessions all about doing that eye-contact thing—actually pay attention to your books as your crush explains stuff to you. If you don’t, he could think you’re totally wasting his time. Also, don’t fake that you’re lost in a subject if you’re really pulling down A’s. Only hit him up for the tutoring if you really need it. Otherwise, you’d be over-playing him.





THE MESSAGE MILL. We don’t need to tell you that having your BFF chain e-mail the entire freshman class about your crush would be a huge honking disaster—so don’t even think about it! Instead, spread a compliment about your dream dude.





Let’s say Jason’s in all-state chorus and performed an amazing solo at the assembly. Afterward, in a voice loud enough for him to hear (but not loud enough to be obvious), say, “You know who’s the best singer in the whole school? Jason! His solo was so awesome!” Your girls can help you out by saying, “Oh, he’s standing right behind you!” You can then turn around, seeming oh-so surprised, and say, “Wow, I didn’t even see you standing there!”





GO, TEAM! Cheering on his excellent free-throw percentage is always a winning plan. Be careful, though: Don’t act even remotely stalker-ish. Never attend his games by yourself—it’ll look weird. Just go with your crew, have a great time and, afterward, very casually pass him by—once—smile, and say, “Hey, that no-look pass you made was impressive!” A genuine pat on the back for a job well done scores major points.





SAFETY IN NUMBERS. Does your crush travel on the outskirts of your friendship circle? Use group activities to your advantage. In addition to bowling nights and mall trips, suggest your group throw a bash for your bud who has a birthday coming up.





You be in charge of the invite list, and make sure his invitation is the first one to fly into the mailbox. Better yet, ask him and a bunch of other guys to help you and the girls pull this party off. A day of painting “Happy Birthday” murals and stringing up streamers can be bonding in a big way. Be sure to give him props for his excellent ideas.





BE A GROOVY LISTENER. When the ice is finally broken because your sneaky-smart strategy has paid off, be sure to tune in carefully to what your crush has to say. Guys love girls who listen well—it makes them feel interesting, which in turn makes them feel good about themselves, which in turn makes them feel good about you for making them feel good about themselves! Got it? Cool.





Complement the listening with a compliment. While he’s telling you about that giant trout he caught at the lake last summer, take in all the details, and then say, “Whoa! You must be a really amazing fisherman! I’ve never had a chance to go fishing myself, but I’ve always wanted to try it.” Bingo! He’ll start talking a mile a minute—he’s gonna want to teach you everything! Next thing you know, you’ll be out on a lake in a canoe with your cutie.





This is not to say that you have to clam up totally about your accomplishments—no way! Your crush is, of course, going to want to know all about you. Which brings us to…





OUR FINAL HINT. Whenever you’re around a boy you’re crushing on, the most important thing you must do is be yourself. Yes, your get-to-know-him tactic can be a tad sneaky, but do it in a way that leaves your integrity intact. Be genuine, be relaxed, and don’t be afraid to show him that you’ve got a sense of humor. Let him see the true-blue essence of you! Being comfortable and confident with who you are sends out the best message of all.
Reply:witty banter and repartee and throw in a pinch of giggle and a flutter of eyelash and maybe a wiggle,and ur done.!


ps look up some of mae west's qoutes on google
Reply:u got me talk to them get lots of eye contact
Reply:if like a boy


drop your pencil and ask him to pick it up and have a conversation.
Reply:Look at them in there eyes and then look away from a sec and then look back at him but not in his eyes but look at him and then play with your hair and then laugh at any chance that you can get with out looking dumb
Reply:talk about there body things like there chest or other stuff


you know what i mean
Reply:Smile at him, dress in something a little (but not too) revealing, get his interest and then play hard to get.
Reply:Smile, Giggle, Hug more often, etc... Just go to a bar or a high school, I'd bet you'd see someone flirting...
Reply:truthfully flirting isnt something u learn its something u just do. some girls do it on purpose and some flirt without realizing it. flirting cannot be taught. if u like him compliment sometihng but dont sound desperate or obvious. twist your hair, bat your lashes, giggle( dont giggle). whatevr u do dont PLAN on how your going to flirt with a certain guy.

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Is being a nonstop flirt a bad thing?

Ok my friend, he always flirts if he sees a pretty girl he flirts wether he has a gf or not he will flirt even when hes not noticing it hes flirting. Last week he broke up with his gf caz shes too much like him and he can't take it. Mainly they both think they are the hottest thing around and crap. But anyways whats his deal? And my god girls fall for him all caz hes a part time model. Why do girls flock to him so crazy?

Is being a nonstop flirt a bad thing?
The worst thing you can do to yourself is envy your friend. It sounds like you resent him because he has more confidence in himself than you. Please stop that, it will end up killing your self esteem. Appreciate him for the friend that he is to you, and then appreciate yourself for what you can bring to the table. You can't and shouldn't try to change him, people are who they are. If you don't like it, don't hang out with him, but really whatever he does, is his business, just the same for you. Take Care.
Reply:its a phase
Reply:ok one, most girls like a guy who's a flirt and who is fun, plus hes a part time model HOT!!
Reply:sometimes it is a persons nature to be flirt its up to the person he is wit to put up with never try to change some1
Reply:my bf's like that before, i dunno he must be doin that still untill now, he's flirting specially when im not around. i dunno, i think with guys that's inevtable, specially if the guy gives high regard to himself like he wants to prove sumthin, he can get girls in a single glance. these are what u call ALPHA males. my bf's like that... i got used to it, but i think thats gonna be our down fall as well..
Reply:time passing
Reply:Hey, ugly boy, just be happy for your friend and be lucky enough to ride his pretty waves.
Reply:Flirting with others when your in a relationship is cheating your basically trying to get better, or seeing if have a chance, if you really wanted to...
Reply:Girls like being flirted. We feel we are special... We don't "love" the person, but, we just enjoy keeping in company.
Reply:HERE IS ONE JEALOUS MAN ......





HE MIGHT BE YOUR FRIEND, YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT HIS





LEAVE HIM ALONE .... LET HIM ENJOY HIS LIFE .....





TALK ABOUT YOURSELF
Reply:looks is the initial attraction and that follows by his character and personality or he's a well known model.





it takes 2 hands to clap and willing party too. life can be sometimes so unfair?





but being contented and and happy is the most important thing. romance and relationships seems a wonderful thing but it has it good and bad too....thats life.
Reply:i flirt all the time too, but i dont purposely do it. i'm just like that around women, im funny, talkative and friendly. i cant help it. Howvever im not saying im a player either because im just having innocent fun, i dont even know im doing it half the time and i also do it 2 chiks im not attracted too. Girls like guys who flirt because they like attention, they like being listened to, they love having a laugh and just enjoying themselves. Some guys are shy around girls im not i feel the most comftorble around females. i guess caus i had a lotta females around me growin up. whilst other guys are shy around girls and dnt know what to talk about.


How to flirt with a lifeguard. And was he flirting with me?

This is at a swimming pool, and I asked to find out if he was flirting back with me and he was. He can get in trouble for that, so how do I sercertly flirt back? I'm going back to the swimming pool next week, and he will probably be there. I was also wereing a bikini, while I was there. So, could that be the reason, or somethingelse? I really need your help!


He kept walking really close to me, and while he was changing the trashcan bags, he looked at me and smiled. He also, kept looking at me while he was in his lifeguard chair? So...What do I do?

How to flirt with a lifeguard. And was he flirting with me?
Here a tip. Get to know him better before yougo on a date! He could be using you. But if you wanna know him better, just hand him a note going like, wanna chill at 5 or something? And you can get to know him a bit. NOTE: it's NOT a date!!





If you wanna flirt, just look at him and say, I see you've been working out, or Boy am I jealous of your Girlfriend! - With the second one, you can find out if he has a girlfriend. If he does, then ouch... If he doesn't, go like, Wow... this is my lucky day!
Reply:you already asked this - and i said just talk to him - first find out his name





thx
Reply:make believe u r drowning...lol
Reply:tell him to look at the pool and the drowning kids... or wear a thong or something.
Reply:Act like you're drowning.
Reply:omg, blast from the past! the story of my life is happening again.... to others. let me guess, he has an awesome body and maybe face too, and everygirl has a thing for him, and him for them! I choose to avoid him. the long exchange of looks, the silent longing, the crush. word of caution: find out if he has a girlfriend. now.
Reply:That is usely what life guards do they look around to keep people from drowning.Don't read more than it is .
Reply:umm.... ask him a question then quickly see if he has a sn or soemthing or e-mail then leave.... i guess thats a good way?
Reply:Wink at him or just act like you're drowning so he can come supposibly save you!!!
Reply:show your bikini..nothing says flirt like "this is me virtually naked" does it every time. should be illegal
Reply:He's a lifeguard. After he's off work get his number and the two of you can flirt as much as you want afterwards. He's working to save lives, he can't be doing that if he's staring at you and only you. You're distracting him. Just smile and nod and let him go about his work. He obviously has some interest in you, walk up to him when he's not sitting in the chair and ask for his number, or ask what he's doing after work, and if he wants to go grab a bite to eat?
Reply:No offense but I am sure you are not the only girl this guy flirts with so don't fall too hard!
Reply:He was just making sure you don't drown little lady, get over yourself.
Reply:Act like you are drowning, that will surely work,lol. How pathetic is that, you want to flirt with life guard,haha?
Reply:yes he can get in trouble for that and if u know he was flirting with u then u dont have to try as hard now........just smile at him and play around in the pool,even when hes in his lifeguard chair,swim over,smile and say"u should really join me in this pool".........when he says he cant,u say"oh well thats just too bad,your missing out" then just swim away..........dont forget yee are able to meet up once he isnt working so if he asks u on a date,accept it........
Reply:hmmmmmmmm
Reply:Do it when he's off duty.





He's a lifeguard, and he's there to keep people safe. If you distract him while he's working (unless he's on cleanup duty or something), you could be putting people's lives in jeopardy. That's why he could get in trouble for it. But his getting in trouble is another good reason for saving it.





Also, I don't want to be a spoilsport, but I just want to make sure you are absolutely clear that everybody suggesting that you fake drowning are joking. But even if you tried it, it probably wouldn't work. Unless he's stoned or an idiot, he should be able to tell you don't need mouth-to-mouth after dragging you out of the water but before actually performing it.





Flirt all you want as openly as you want when he's off work or charging admittance, and treat him like any other guy at this time.


What Does Flirt Mean?

Hes such a flirt?


Oh he was so flirting with you?


Your such a flirt?


What do those mean???

What Does Flirt Mean?
he's such a flirt pretty much means he's cute or charming


"oh he was so flirting with you"that's a good thing(it means he likes you


"you're such a flirt"Positive or negative(you flirt a lot)
Reply:there's a little extra something toward a person that indicates an interest. it may be a stance, a look, a smile, an inflection in the voice or the words spoken. it may be a touch, a manner of dress, an invitation to lunch, dinner or a drink bought a a bar. any number of things can connotate flirting.
Reply:When he starts joking with you, always complimenting you, doing things to try and get your attention, etc... as hints to let you know he's interested in you.
Reply:I think flirting is showing someone that you are interested in them by actions and body language but without actually telling you that they are interested in you. It's kind of like beating around the bush.
Reply:as the dictionary puts it, "to show casual interest"





its hard to explain, its just... flirting
Reply:The definition of flirt means:


teasing, playful, enticing, engaging %26amp; coy. Generally, flirt means someone is trying to engage, play with someone of the opposite gender.
Reply:It means to make playfully romantic or sexual overtures towards someone,to deal playfully,triflingly,or superficially with someone.
Reply:Flirting is...it's like hinting sexual and/or romantic interest in someone.
Reply:A flirt is a person who is overly friendly, especially the type of friendliness that is interpeted as seduction. They might do things like giggle at the other person's jokes, take their baseball cap jokingly, blow kisses, etc. Usually used with a member of the opposite sex. If someone is a flirt, it means they flirt with lots of people on a regular basis. Flirting is not the way you would act with your friends.
Reply:1) A person who is innocently overly friendly, especially the type of friendliness that is interpeted as seduction. Actions may include: giving away number, blowing kisses, caressing, and free lapdances





2) messing with a boy/girl because, a. you like them, b. you're trying to make someone else jealous, c.you're bored of your boyfriend/girlfriend, d. you're a stupid slut, e. you cant help yourself





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Reply:One who plays love games, but in actuality, he/she may have no feelings for the one they are interacting .
Reply:Flirting would be giving verbal and nonverbal clues that you find someone attractive. Even when you are already in a relationship you can flirt with someone without intending to follow through on the hinted attraction. A lot of relationships, affairs, etc. start with flirting. It's one way to see if someone is interested.
Reply:Its what you do just to have fun or if you liek someone. The more technical definition is To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures
Reply:giving people sign's that you like them
Reply:flirt means that someone is trying to give hints that they like you in a boyfriend / girlfriend way.





ex : bobby likes mandy and he was flirting with her all through lunch.
Reply:flirt [ flurt ]








verb (past and past participle flirt·ed, present participle flirt·ing, 3rd person present singular flirts)





Definition:





1. intransitive verb behave alluringly: to behave in a playfully alluring way








2. transitive verb flick something: to flick or jerk something














noun (plural flirts)





Definition:





somebody behaving in playfully alluring way: somebody who behaves in a playfully alluring way








[Mid-16th century. Origin ?]








flirt·er noun


flirt·ing·ly adverb
Reply:Friendliness with a sexual undertone.
Reply:It means talking to someone alot and watching there body language towards you.
Reply:Flirting is a safe (distance) way of saying " I find you interesting to know more of...are you interested ? " By flirting a person is saying this message without obvious words of " do you want to go out together ".
Reply:flirt means to talk with a person openly with either male or female on any subject to a point to where it seems like it was in a sexual way that makes you feel unconfortable most the time
Reply:WOW, are you kidding me? Everyone knows what that means. But then again, you are a Hannah Montana fan, so...





:) PEACE.
Reply:It means that it's breaking the ice to find out what boundaries need to be set. he thinks your cute thats all.
Reply:flirting is when someone uses really sweet words to get you to like them. this is usually used between boys and girls when they like the other person and want to eventually date them. they use flirting to spice-up so that the other person will really like them. when someone says your such a flirt i dont totaly understand that but i believe that it is saying that he uses words to sweet talk his way into and out of situations! hope that helped! %26lt;3 Niki
Reply:Flirting means to try to get people interested in you (usually romantically/sexually).





So, if somebody tells you that your boyfriend's a flirt, you better watch out.





If somebody tells you that you're such a flirt, that means that you go around teasing the boys (or girls if you're lesbian) too much.





Have you ever tried here: www.dictionary.com ?


Do you flirt with guys you dont like?

do you ever flirt with a guy you dont like but then you star to like him?


this is how I feel.





but I dont like him. I like another guy that I might not see this summer.


I had a HUGE crush on him last summer


and ppl keep on saying he is going to come back to the camp that I go to but im am not sure.





that guy that I flirt with, his friends say that he is going to ask me out.


I have had this prob before.


and I want to actuly like someone before I say yes.





my question is do you flirt with guys you think you like but dont

Do you flirt with guys you dont like?
You can flirt w/ him, but not to much or he will really like you, and in the end you will not like him beacuse you have moved on!!
Reply:yeah i usually do
Reply:don't do it or they'll start stalking you.
Reply:Depends on my mood I guess.
Reply:no, but i flirt with other women.

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Do guys flirt?

i was shocked when this guy said he was flirting with me.... how do guys flirt? or do guys even flirt?

Do guys flirt?
it just depends on the guy...


*some use pick up lines


*some compliment you


*some just talk to you a lot,and seem to want to know EVERYTHING about you


*some do flirt


*and the shallow ones usually talk dirty
Reply:Honestly, we say what you want to hear, idc who it is, unless you already know them, then they maybe honest.. But if your some girl a guy just met, then he is going to say what you want to hear, he may say things about his life, make you laugh, but generally just the things that he wants you too know so he can make the last move easier.
Reply:yeah. and most of the time its pretty da.mn obvious lol. especially when i do it. seriously, u can tell the guys flirting especially when he's a whore.
Reply:when guys are flirting they grab at you and grope you and say dirty things. then pretend like its all a joke, buts its not.
Reply:do girls flirt? of course we do
Reply:Nope, we never flirt we just sit inside and play video games, watch TV or play football while all the girls are at the mall. LOL





Seriously though we flirt a little different than women we like to kinda tease them.
Reply:We flirt, We definately flirt. They say things about your looks, and hint at how they would like to get together.
Reply:Are you stupid???It's a girl and boys nature to flirt.
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Just a flirt? Or something more?

i already asked this, but i only got 3 answers, so please answer!!


so there's this guy, and i really like him, but idk who he likes. he's like a major flirt, and he flirts with me a lot and we always joke about how we're in love with each other and stuff, but he also flirts with my friend a lot too. i think he likes her, but she thinks he likes me. i haven't hung out with him for a while 'cause he's been at camp, so all i've been able to do is call and text him. any helpp?

Just a flirt? Or something more?
Well just ask him or be a little more flirty like when you guys joke around and say you like or love each other say something like i'm serious I really like you ans see what he says....
Reply:I think that you probably only got 3 answers cause answering your question seems like a complete waste of time, and you seem like you may be a teenager, which makes it a bigger waste of time...and the answer to your question is super simple,...which makes it a big super duper waste of time..cause if you want to know if he likes you...you know what you gotta do? Ask him...not that complicated.
Reply:It sounds like he likes you, but it doesn't mean he is not a player. He could be just really immature or he could just not be sure how to go out with you. Don't try to change him, because that won't work. You sound really young so you shouldn't take this seriously ad just date different kinds of people till you find the type you like the best.
Reply:Tell him "is so often our game that someday could be true" and wait for his answer... if he says would be great! you like him.... but if he doesn´t say anything or say a dubitative answer he´s not looking you.... Perhaps he´s waiting for a reaction (you or your friend) to start serious movements to get a relationship
Reply:well you like him of course he probably doesnt like you though your just tripin get over him

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Do girls flirt more with guys they're ineterested in or not interested in?

I'm just curious, since some girls say they never flirt with guys they like but flirt all the time with guys they don't like. At the same time though, when a girl flirts with somebody, I'm guessing there has to be some type of interest there right? Thanks for the taking the time to read this and for the help.

Do girls flirt more with guys they're ineterested in or not interested in?
well it really depends.


sometimes, you're just in a mood to flirt and you don't necessary like the guy. it's just fun.


sometimes its because of attraction.


and a lot of times we don't know that we're flirting. it just comes off that way.
Reply:sometime the girl really like the guy but don't want her friend to know because they would laught at her for like a guy that look funny etc. so she could be just lieing that she just flirting
Reply:girls are crazy.. we should have a revolution against them
Reply:some girls flirt just because thats their personality.





However, some girls flirt because they can "get something" from it. Too many males are easily manipulated by an attractive female.
Reply:Well, I flirt with guys because I like them. I usually don't like to flirt wtih people I don't like because that could lead to me leading him on. So if your wondering because some girl was flirting with you.. most likely she likes you.
Reply:they flirt more with guys they're interested in. duh!!
Reply:I would say people who look atractive.
Reply:Well, most girls would say people they are interested in. Because they want them to like them and have attention. If a girl flirts with a guy they arn't interested in, they probably are doing it to make fun of him.
Reply:Girls generally flirt with guys they are not interested in. That's called teasing.





Girls tend to flirt less or not at all, with guys they really want because they don't want to come across as being "easy".





On the other hand, some girls are trashy and come out and offer their bodies to the guys they want. Go figure.
Reply:I think that women flirts with a guy whether or not she means to. There has to be some kind of an attraction. She may not think so but her subconscious mind knows. It may not be enough that she wants to date them but its enough for her to flirt.
Reply:Guys they're interested in if they're serious. Sometimes girls will flirt with guys they don't as a kind of patronizing act, or if they want something from him
Reply:You may never be able to tell if someone likes you or not when they're flirting with you. But this much I know. . . for *most* people, if you feel an attraction towards someone, you will NOT be able to hide it. You will be akward around them, a little shy and probably not flirt with them unless they initiate it. Why? Because you have a vested interest in them and you don't want to be rejected.





But if you are relaxed, and maybe brazenly react to someone flirting with you, its probably because they like you, but you don't like them. You are able to joke around and flirt because you have nothing to risk. If I know a guy likes me, and he's akwardly flirting with me, I go out of my way to make him feel comfortable. I'm not interested or leading him on, I just want him to feel good about himself. I know some girls can be mean and that breaks my heart. It's awful to see someone hurting and putting themselves 'out there'.





Luckily, I have a boyfriend so no one will get the wrong idea!





Thing is, you can never really be sure about anyones motives. Yeah instinct is your best compass, but if a friend is around as a witness, they have the BEST insight. They see things as they are and have your best interests at heart.





Good Luck!!
Reply:Well, I'm a woman (25) and you better believe I will flirt with a guy I'm interested in. I would never flirt with one otherwise, because I don't want to lead anyone on.
Reply:Ya, there is. Go for it, dude!!!
Reply:I find it much easier to talk to guys that I'm not interested in, and some of them perceive it as flirting. I'm a shy gal, especially around guys I like, and my flirting game isn't natural. I've seen lots of girls who flirt with everyone just for the attention, but may not discriminate between those they like and those they don't. Some girls get a charge flirting with guys who obviously aren't used to the attention, which is a shame because they have no intention of following through.
Reply:both.... people unintentionally flirt


sometimes they like the person sometimes people just flirt
Reply:Well, in my experience(repeat my experience) girls like to flirt with a guy they know would want them just to get his hopes up. Once they do that they know they have poor soul in their power. To answer ur question yea there is some interest there but its to hurt and feel domaniant over that person. I'm not being fair at all about this, probably because I've been hurt so many times by the same person over and over.
Reply:As a women I would say i flirt with guys I have a interest in weather it be their personality or their looks etc.


So yeah there has to be some kind of interest.
Reply:OK for me I do not flirt with guys that I'm not interested in but some times it looks that way just because I can talk easier to some one that I don't like so I can joke around .But when it comes to a guy I like I tend to clam up at first I think Its been awile for me to be face to face with any one I like I am a monk ..ha ha ..sometimes I feel like one thinking about shaving my head/NOT
Reply:Girls flirt with men they want something from--usually it's just attention they want. I REALLY doubt that any girl would flirt with someone they weren't at all interested in--it just doesn't make sense.
Reply:guys i like
Reply:Girls always flirt with guys they don't like. And, if you REALLY p!ss'em off, they will do exciting things to you too!
Reply:we like to mess with the guys that we dont like to make the guys we do like jealous...we want attention and passion...so u try harder to get us
Reply:my best answer for your question is:


-if it's a shy girl and they flirt with you ALOT or don't flirt with you at all, there's a good chance they like you.





- if it's an outgoing girl, they tend to flirt with you more.
Reply:It depends on the girls personality. If she flirts with everyone than it doesn't mean anything, she's just a flirt. I work with one of those and she will throw herself at anyone. If this girl flirts with only certain people. it is because she is attracted to them on some level. I am very flirtatious, but can not flirt with someone who doesn't stimulate me physically or mentally.
Reply:me personal i flirt with the guys i like until im not interested
Reply:interested in
Reply:lots of girls flirt for the fun of it.
Reply:Intrested... trust me i know from experience... other wise they wouldnt pay attention to you if they wernt intrested
Reply:well persnly wen i flirt w/ a guy i have to have intrest cuz y flirt w/ sm 1 u dont like??????
Reply:i'm so bad at flirting...i guess it's just not my thing. i'm also not really aware that i'm flirting sometimes. it's like involuntary or something. but yeah i do kinda catch myself doing it around guys that i'm really good friends with or who are unavailable. i think around guys i'm interested in, i'm just a little too self conscious where as with guy friends i don't even notice what i do naturally. does that make sense? hope this helps.


Is it wrong to flirt back with your 50 year old doctor after months and months of him initiating it?

i want your opinion on my doctor.he has been flirting with me for the past 3 in a half months and he is old enough 2 be my daddy. it started 3 mo. ago and i used to not care, and i would never say anything back,but recently i flirted back and he was shocked yet excited and i have another appointment in a week. i like the attention and he is forever on my mind. i think it's also that it's a new challenge and i love a challenge!! i think in a way it's his fault because he started this s***! I didn't ask 4 this, he started it all, i just kinda MILDLY flirted at my last visit, i want to let him know that i like him at my next appointment in a very tasteful way because i cant stop thinking about this 50 year old dude! by the way im 22.he is like 50. also i wanna know am i wrong? or is he wrong? or even maybe both?also has this ever happened to you at an appointment? also i noticed he will flirt A LOT but then shy away at times and it confuses me..what do u think i would LOVE 2 know.. THANKS

Is it wrong to flirt back with your 50 year old doctor after months and months of him initiating it?
its okay if hes single


22 is an adult and free to date a 50 year old SINGLE doctor





if yes dont feel bad about it. hes your man


age is nothing but number right?





if he isnt single sadly..just do yourself a favor


stay away from him and find a new doctor
Reply:first find out if he is married or not. if he is married stay away from any relationship with him. you don't want to become the second women. but if he is single or divorced. it might be worth a try.
Reply:he's your doctor!!!!!!!???????? that's wrong
Reply:well, maybe yes and maybe no,, but I think most of your close people would agree with you..
Reply:I don't think age is that important. Sometimes, older guys are more attractive. I also perfer older/mature guys than the young teen boys. If he is attractive to you, I think you should go ahead to flirting back or dress something flashes in your next visit.





Joyce


It seems that I, indirectly flirt with guys...?

I tend to flirt with guys I dont mean to


I dont even know what flirting is.


Like I have an idea


but if i talk to this guy, people are like you're flirting


i didnt mean to


So, my question: what is flirting exactly? Signs? ways to not unintenionally flirt?

It seems that I, indirectly flirt with guys...?
Someone actually told me once that if a woman starts a conversation with me about any subject more complicated than, "What time is it?" then she's telling me she's interested in a relationship with me. I was amazed when I heard that, didn't really believe it, and I think it's very sad if it's true. So to answer your question more directly, my definition of flirting (I haven't looked it up) is somehow conveying the message to someone that you're interested in maybe being their girlfriend. Body language can certainly be interpreted that way (smiling, looking at someone, then turning away, then looking back at them, touching them), laughing at their jokes, and generally doing or saying things that might give the idea you think the other person is attractive.





But the bigger question is, Is it all your responsibility to control other people's impressions of you? I don't think so. As long as you're not manipulating someone who is vulnerable because he likes you, but you don't care about him, I don't think it's fair of people to blame you for *his* feelings. I think the best thing you can do is clearly tell someone you think may be misinterpreting your behavior what your boundaries are in a relationship with them.
Reply:yes may be
Reply:My best girl friend is the same way. There is really no way to stop doing it. A million people have told her and shes tried to stop but she just does it again and again without even knowing it. So good luck and be ready to deal with women getting mad at you sometimes.
Reply:Too much friend ship with several person keeping them waiting them in hope of Friends and dating may be part of flirt. Don't have any physical relations with any body and don't have any gft from any one otherwise you will be cheated physically also.
Reply:omg i have the same problem.
Reply:HEY! are you flirting with me? when i read your question i sensed that you were
Reply:Flirting is displaying motives to your target guy that you like him. Leading him on to small sexy talks or even glancing would do with your irresistible smile.





If you dont want to flirt , just act normal and be yourself.
Reply:you stop that right now...


My best friend is THE biggest flirt EVER! Any help?

Well, I have a really good friend; I'll call her Beth. Whenever I or any of my other friends tell her our newest crush, she proceeds to talk to that crush. She then begins flirting. She's not aware she's flirting--she's been doing it since the third grade, maybe even younger. While she's flirting with our crushes, the rest of us stand in a corner, to shy to approach our crushes. Sometimes our crushes begin to ask her out, and, as she doesn't like them, she says no.


Well, about eight months ago, my crush (of whom she flirted with, though he thankfully didn't flirt back)--shall I call him Bob?--asked me out. We are still going out, and, even though we're a couple, my friend continues to flirt. She had a boyfriend once before, though she does not make a good girlfriend--she calls too much, demands too much, IS too much. Anyway, Bob sees her as a friend now, and he talks about her sometimes when he calls me. It upsets me when he does, though, since I fear he might like her. Help?

My best friend is THE biggest flirt EVER! Any help?
Ask your friend to stop nicely, or have a talk with her.
Reply:i dont thnk you have a problem. becuse that is her prolem not you'r s .she will find her own way .you'r frind see's the kind of men you look for so she wate's for the beake up then wont's to date them. tha is her ,not you.
Reply:Tell him that you don't feel comfortable discussing your best friend. If he cares about you he will stop talking about her in your presence. Good Luck!
Reply:Approach said person, slap her with a glove, and challenge her to a duel on the grounds of her insulting your dignity. Offer to let her choose her weapon of choice. She'll probably look at you like you were crazy and won't respond. Then you can chose a weapon for her because she'll be flabberghasted. Chose waffels, at dawn. When she inevitably doesn't show, you can boast about your supperiority and her cowardice and eventually she'll think you're crazy and leave you and your men alone.
Reply:DO THE SAME THATS WHAT I WOULD DO!!
Reply:I have a friend just like that, exept shes so despret, she would go out with my crush if he asked her.





(just don't tell her your crushes anymore.)
Reply:If he liked her more than you, he'd be with her, period. Sounds like your friend is really insecure about herself, which would explain her need for constant attention. First of all, don't tell her anymore about your crushes. Secondly, it sounds like you're just going to have to wait it out...hopefully she will grow out of this phase. If she doesn't, then she can look forward to a life of loneliness, because no man wants to be with a woman who wants to be with everyone else!
Reply:i know it's a hard situation for u.... u need to stay away from friends like that.... i know u know her for a really long time but how can u trust her??? by the sound of it she really doesn't respect u.... there are boundaries in a friendship that u should not cross and flirting with ur friends boyfriend is one of them.... I'm not saying stop being friends with her but whenever u and ur boyfriend are going to be together make sure she is not around.... and if she starts asking for him SPEAK UP and tell her to back off... tell her not to worry about him.... she will get the picture... and if she gets upset OH WELL it was for the best anyway.... u have to make her respect u!! NOW HAS FOR HIM start dressing really sexy when u see him.... make him alittle jealous.... when he speaks to u about her brush off the question and he will get the point..... and if he keeps asking about her well all i can say is MOVE ON!! to someone who will respect you, and care about ur feelings.... i hope for the best for you!!!
Reply:ok, so i will show sympathy. i really DO feel bad for you. your boyfriend "bob" doesn't like her as a girl friend like you. if he did he would be flirting back. you could tell ur friend "beth" that the flirting problem is really bugging you. or she might not.but that's kind of who she is. maybe you shouldn't tell her who ur crush is. or tell her that is she keeps on flirting with ur crush/boyfriend that you'll never tell her who you like. hope that helps. ♥
Reply:Flirt, give him some already.
Reply:flirt w/ him too and he may want to be w/ u 2
Reply:It sounds like that is just her personality. If it bothers you so much mention it to her or if it continues after you have asked her not to break off your friendship with her.
Reply:look the truth is - if bob cant see he is lucky to have you then he is not worth having





tell him whats hurting you - if he cant change his behaviour he is not the man for you





its not your friend its him you need to focus on
Reply:I would just ask him to not talk about her so much. %26amp; If he has a problem then maybe you shouldn't be with him
Reply:she's proberly a bit like me then! because, i'm completly obvious to it, and a friend of mine said 2 me "the hell do u flirt lyk that" i was like what? its a concous effort of a lot of people, but not for all, she may just see it as being friendly not nessersarlly flirting.
Reply:well, sounds like to me your friend needs to know the trouble she is causing all her friends,... maybe you other girls should practice some of the same things, once you start talking to the guys, it's so much easier. And believe it or not, guys make really good friends too, my best friend is a guy and I am 35. He's been my friend since 8th grade...
Reply:it doesnt matter
Reply:You need to stop bringing her into your love life. Why are you telling her who your crushes are??? She obviously has low self esteem and likes to lead men on. She comes out with such confidence which makes you pull back in front of your crushes. Its easy for her to do that since she doesn't like them. why are you insecure about yourself? Your mad that Bob talks about her but don't you talk about her to him? It looks like your just jealous. If she's interfering with your love life then stop being friends with her or don't tell her about your relationships.

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Do married women flirt with much younger guys and mean it?

To start off with, I am NOT even thinking of getting a married woman to run off and have an affair with me, I just was wondering if this lady digged me or not. I think that it would be pretty cool to have a 43 yo lady hitting on me, since I am only 24. To start off, I have flirted with her a bit, just for the heck of it. Do married women flirt with college guys, and mean it. Or is she just playing with my head on this. One other thing, her husband is like 65 yo, and he has money, a lot of it, and she is like his 3rd wife. I was just wonder the above question. Like I said, I will NOT be an adulturer here. I was just wondering for my own ego. I do not think that flirting is wrong in this matter, but I figure that she would ignore me if I was flirting, and not play along with me on it.

Do married women flirt with much younger guys and mean it?
lol....yeah she probably thinks ur cute and wants to see if she still has it, so to speak. Its good ur not thinking of her seriously, 'cause I doubt she is of u. She probably thinks ur cute, but that's it.


How do I flirt with a guy and how do I get him to flirt back?

I need to know how to flirt with guys really good and how to get them to flirt back!!! I'm a teenager, about 16. I've had bf's sure. But now im single again and i need some REALLY good flirting advice. Help would be nice! I want a boyfriend. ♥

How do I flirt with a guy and how do I get him to flirt back?
smile and laugh at their jokes...touch their arm every once in a while...keep eye contact and sometimes look away whenever you look at them and they look at you...those usually get a guy's attention
Reply:Smile and laugh at the jokes they tell. When laughing slightly reach over and touch them on the arm with your hand. Just be a little playful....by doing that they should get the hint and join in.





But don't be in a rush to get another boyfriend. Sometimes waiting for the right guy to come along is the best thing you can do.


Whats The Best Way To Flirt Without Being Dirty Or Dirty Minded?

i dont flirt much, but ive seen people flirt, and it eventually gets to the point where one of the person starts talking dirty and all. i just want to know is it possible to have a clean flirt! i wonder how that would be like, if you know how it would go, think you can add like quotes or a dialogue of two people flirting without being dirty minded? also how do YOU feel about dirty flirts?

Whats The Best Way To Flirt Without Being Dirty Or Dirty Minded?
flirting is not always dirty.. flirting can be playing and laughing. it becomes dirty when other people say it is.
Reply:flirting HAS NOTHING to do with being dirty,





you could flirt by just showing an interest or making a nice comment about the other person starting an interesting conversation, offer to get them a drink, saying a joke, and generally doing thinks to get them to understand that you are interested ...
Reply:Flirting itself is unclean. You are treating people lowly when you flirt, plust you arent loyal to yourself when you flirt.





When people flirt they become so much excited in involving with lots of people and they arent satisfied with one person in life and it may also result in greater chances of divorcing.





I hope i made sense :)
Reply:everyone flirts


even when we dont realise it
Reply:Keep it light hearted and mostly well above the waist. Good luck!!
Reply:I believe there's clean flirt when we pay our respect to the others. :)





And the dirty flirts make me sick, especially I don't know who the hell the person is.





G'Luck to you!
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How do i flirt with my best guy friend who seems to like me back?

i know him for a year now and people at our school think were cousins. they always ask us if we are. we just kept saying "no" but theres this one point we said "yea were cousins" well after we first said were cousins, he started flirting with me like side hugging me, holding my hands, hugging me, linking arms with me and stuff and we also sit on eachothers lap lol. i think its kind of weird to see "cousins" doing those stuffs. i mean hes never done that to me before. i like him and i wanna flirt back but i dont really know how to?like i want him to know i like him but not in a way that i have to tell him like verbally. ohh and when he flirts with me like that, our friends always ask us if we go out and he doesnt say "yes" or "no" he just keep saying "were cousins/"


to me it seems like he has the courage to flirt with me cozz people think were cousins but im really confused.also does he seem like he likes me that way?

How do i flirt with my best guy friend who seems to like me back?
Sure thing dear, he likes you reciprocate these simple hugs and hold his hands and before u realise he;ll be asking you how u feel or better still ask you out.
Reply:whats his name ? cleatis you play the game to have some fun but dont forget that the gene pool is close
Reply:This guy is just a friend. If you try to take it any further you'll both feel weird.
Reply:He likes you for sure.





Look him deep in his eyes and wait for a kiss.
Reply:the ever-lasting question, will we ever find the answer? LOL. Im in the same situation as ya hun, except for that whole cousins part, and no hugging yet either :(. Good luck.
Reply:show him your boobs.

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How do yu flirt with girls?

i am a guy and i am in 9th grade. I have never had a gf before but know that i think i do i asked a question earlier as to how to get a gf and i got alot of answers saying to start flirting with the girl that i like. i do have a friend that i like so i thought i should start flirting with her. i have never flirted before so i want guys advice as to how do you flirt with a girl? what do you do to her. please help.

How do yu flirt with girls?
Alex, please believe me, dude, girls look for masculinity, for aggressiveness in boyfriends. FLIRT WITH THEM WITH CONFIDENCE, WITH ASSURANCE OF YOUR MALE-NESS.


START BY COMPLIMENTING HER ON HER APPEARANCE, HER HAIR, HER SMELL, HER EYES, HER SMILE.....


You flirt with a particular girl by talking about what attracts you to her, what you like about her.... keep it spontaneous, and litehearted, at first, but sincere!!





If you can, become bolder, more aggressive in pursuing the girl that you like.... man, that's the way it has been for millions of generations, before you, and were all the men before you successful before you?





Alex, for some reason, I've taken your (natural) personal questions as a challenge to me, to assist you in becoming a good boyfriend, a good lover, a good man. A Good Man....





Make the manly effort in asking the girl of your dreams, out for lunch together, out to the game this weekend, or just out.


Dude, there is nothing at all wrong with you,


but your hormones are making you question everything.


Do What Seems Natural, as a growing Man, a MALE, and the Girl, the FEMALE you have in your sites will respond.





Please feel free to email me, anytime, about anything, Alex.


Click my icon, and then click the 'email Ron' link.





Man, you have normal questions, you have normal instincts, but the need for being BOLD toward the gals, is still forthcoming.


Just being bold once, gets you over this hurdle, pleese belive me.


The second time, and all times afterward, come as a breeze, dude~~!!





your buddy,


Ron