Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Can I still flirt with him?

So I've told one of my friends I like him and would like to be more than friends. He told me that he wants to stay just friends. Can I still flirt with him or will it now make him feel awkward / uncomfortable. We would smile, wink and blow kisses to eachother in the past (he actually flirted with me more than I did with him). Should I explain to him that in a way I feel even more content with flirting? Because now I don't have the urge to stop and analyse his every action and determine what it means. I know where we stand.

Can I still flirt with him?
Since you both know where you stand, what's the use of flirting? Flirting is basically dancing around the idea of "maybe." Now there is no maybe. At best, you will make yourself look foolish. At worst, you will come across as a c--- tease. Neither of those is anything you would want.





Play it straight with this guy. Be friendly, but leave it at that. You will show a lot more class that way. Good luck!!
Reply:No, because he wants to be your friend, so i suggest that you act friendly, because it would make him feel uncomfortable to treat him that way, but you can still show him some love, because you might make him feel that you are mad about what he told you.


Be his friend.


Sincerely,


Wise Man
Reply:If I was in his position, I would want you to keep flirting with me. I would actually feel awkward if you didnt. That was a big part of our friendship and now that you've stopped it, what do i do??? Get it?
Reply:get busy
Reply:Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm NO!


Not nice....
Reply:No leave him alone.If he wants you let him get comfortable.he may like u but let him persue u.
Reply:what does it matter your a s l u t anyways and you would do anyone i know you did the whole football team this is why he dont want u u stink to wash up dumbass
Reply:flirt away
Reply:If he told you he wants to be friends only, then that is all it can be.


You will have to talk to him about your friendship boundaries.
Reply:hmm..stop flirting! he sure will feel awkward..if he just wants to be friends, then u have to respect that. 'coz if u kept on flirting..he will ignore u. So stop flirting!!!!!
Reply:Of course. He might eventually change his mind.
Reply:yeah and no because u cant change his decision, but if u like him do what u have to do to get ur prey
Reply:CRAZY respect lady!!!





How about this since u had the stones to tell him that you liked him you can casually mention" We can still flirt right?" (More of a statement but still in the form of a question, this can be done in the process of flirting) but letting him know that it is okay will probably put him at ease( U only mention it ONCE!!!!, DON'T BEAT THE DEAD HORSE). There is no reason for it to become a conversation but rather letting him know in a nonchalant way that you ARE content with the way things are. He will probably like that too!!! there will be no awkwardness about another convo about the "icky feelings" thing!
Reply:Hi,


I'm just giving my opinion right now, I think you should wait to see if he will act awkward around you. If he still flirts with you, go ahead, and try to steal his heart if you really think it could work, but if he doesn't flirt, or really avoids you, don't try to steal his attention, it will make him want you more! :)
Reply:flirting never hurt noobody and as long as you both know where you stand, why not. I would.. :)


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