Friday, April 16, 2010

He loves to flirt and she's clueless bout it..help me!!!?

This is about my best friend, A. She's been dating this guy, T for about a week and i,as her best friend know bout their relationship. But, one day, my friends told me bout T's background and he's the one who loves to flirt with other girl. I ask A to tell me bout T but i didnt tell her bout what i've heard. It sounds that A knows little bout T's activities which is to flirt with other girl and on the other hands, T told me that althought he loves to flirt with other girl, he loves A dearly and inform her his every day routine though A didnt ask for. The question is how should i tell A about T activities without hurting her feelings and if she ask me what to do bout her relationship with T, what should i tell her??

He loves to flirt and she's clueless bout it..help me!!!?
No matter what she's going to be hurt, but if you are a true friend you would find a way to tell her. (Print this survey). Once it's said you played your part as a friend. It's up to her to decide what's best for her.
Reply:People who interfere in their friends relationships don't remain friends for long. Don't tell her anything and if everything falls apart just be emotionally supportive. Begin now minding your own business about friends relationships. There will come a time when you are all grown up and find out that the guy next door with three kids is having a thing with the woman around the corner that has two kids. It won't do to tell either spouse as they may come to their senses and save two families. This young man that you are talking about may fall completely in love with the young lady he is dating and totally give up flirting. You may find that by minding your own business you have time to enhance your own attributes and attract a relationship of your own.
Reply:So, he's a flirt. Leave it alone. I don't see where this envolves you. He hasn't cheated, correct?


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