Friday, April 16, 2010

I'm a flirt! Please Help????????

I'm a flirt and lately it's become a problem. This guyfriend of mine was flirting with me and I just naturally decided to flirt back. He asked me out and I said no. A month passed and we're friends again, but he thinks I'm a total whore (which I'm not. I teach religious ed!) How can I prevent a problem like this in the future and how do I convince him that I'm not a ho????

I'm a flirt! Please Help????????
It's not you that has the problem, it was him. He thought way to harshly of you. Unless he truly had a reason behind him calling you that, like you screwing every guy you met (i'm not saying you would by the way) then yeah that would be justified. But no it was harmless flirting, everyone does it!!! Don't worry about it tho. You don't have to convince anyone of anything, i they know you and cared for you, they wouldn't think that of you.
Reply:Sounds like if flirting is becoming that big of a problem, you aren't getting the attention you want or need. You have to figure out what's going on for you to act like that and fix it. As for your friend, just talk to him and be honest, he might be just the person to help you figure out things.
Reply:how do u know he thinks about you that way, u r just feeling guilty that u flirted and then refused...i think guys understand polite rejection, if it is for all the right reasons. but is there any reason other than this that the guy would think about u in this way? are u sexually turned on all the time ? then u need to find a partner soon. its not a crime to be horny....
Reply:hmmmmmm.......come on....how on earth you are cared about these tiny pitty stuff, i had a perception that you are a real smart babe........there is no obligation for a person to give importance to filthy shity views of damin hypocratic views and opinions. We should just be concerned with our own souls desire and need to crack them.......if i feel like having fu with different girls, why should somebody else has a grin for that........go ahead dear enjoy your life to fullest and do whatever you feel to...atlast its only and only your life, nobody else gona live it and even experience it.
Reply:you need to go out with him and tell him your problem.. dont hide it tell him the truth .. but why didnt you go out in the first place.. ??
Reply:He flirted with you first. What has he done since then to convince you that he's not a whore?





If this guy has different standards for women than he does for men, I suggest you get him a guide to caves, because that's where it sounds like he belongs.
Reply:I am a flirt too...so don't worry!
Reply:SIMPLE ANSWER: tell him that u flirted with me so i needed to give u back an answer this does'nt make u a HOE
Reply:this to be honest is one of the issues which bugs guys about women at times .... they flirt you .... tease you ..... gives you hope and then ..... nothing ....





firstly if any friend of yours thats important to you to remain as friend ..... STOP flirting with them .... flirt with people who you dont meet alot or see alot .... because you dont want flirting to get into a good friendship ..... as it will never be the same after .....





also dont worry about convincing people about yourself ..... you know what you are .... be confident and enjoy yourself ..... any hey DONOT stop flirting ..... we need you lol


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