We flirt a lot...but he has a girlfriend who he lives with?

there's this guy who works at this music store that i go to. and i basically go to see him. and we always flirt like crazy and look into each others eyes and smile at each other. and he gave me his number one day (without me even asking) and i lost it and he's a dj and told me he wanted me to go to the club he djs at. and today i went to see him and he told me again to come to his club and i told him i was busy and he gave me this kinda look like *suuuuuuure*. but he told me he has a girlfriend (they even live together). but we still flirted and he always looks me deep into my eyes. and i have this major attraction to him. but i don't know what i should do. what do you guys think? is he just messing with me? (and sorry this was sooo long)

We flirt a lot...but he has a girlfriend who he lives with?
Now, did you really had to ask that question. You already know what to do BACK OFF. You are leading on and so far he is doing all the asking and you the doing. A guy is going to play if some one gives him a game and your flirting and looking into his eyes, smiling and so on it gives the impression that you want to play too; that makes you game or a target of something you probably don't want to be part of. I am not sure how old you are but this sound very immature. So, what if he looks in to your eyes. Next time he does that, you tell him he needs to look in to his GF or if he wants start something with you then he has to end the other relationship FIRST! Don't get hurt. What can you possible want with a guy who so far is proving he is willing to betray the love and trust of his GF. I can assure you if he flirts with you he is flirting with others too and if he is doing that to his GF he will turn around and do it to you or another woman that he runs into. No one needs that. Stay away from him and find an available man who is going to give you all of his attention, love and respect.


Be safe, Chula
Reply:A. Not that long, B. He may be just flirting to amuse himself at work with you. If you come in that often then its more like a bit of a game to him. And C. Never ever be the girl that goes after someone else's guy like that. I mean if it gets around that you pretty much were the other woman and his girlfriend finds out there will be major drama. So find someone single and not be the girl that goes for guys already seeing someone. Trust me you don't want that rep. That is a step up above being a ho.
Reply:Leave it alone, he has a girlfriend. Point blank!
Reply:If he's living with the girl, my advice: back off. He could just be using you. And it's not just you and him involved. There would be another casualty. Do you really want to be "that girl"?