How do I flirt with bar women?

I'm not bad looking but have a problem talking to bar chicks. I just don't know how to flirt with them.


I see my friends approaching them and saying things, and i see the girls really interested in them.


When i approach a girl in a bar or night club, I start talking and she is interested, but then she looses interest in the next 5-10 min. What do guys tell girls in bars to flirt with them? can you give me examples or things to say or attitude to have? I'm not looking for a long term thing her but rather one night stands or casual fun. So answers about being myself and being polite won't work. I'm looking to flirt casually like many guys do successfully, not for love.


Thanks :)

How do I flirt with bar women?
No offense, but the average physicist is not going to be of much help.





I, on the other hand, am no physicist. But I'll be happy to tell you what flirting is all about.





The first thing a girl needs to know is that she's safe around you, that you won't harm her, that you're not the friendly neighborhood serial murderer.





The second thing she needs to know is that you are, at the moment, more interested in her than in yourself.





Smile, and look her in the eyes. If she's sitting, it's o.k. to stand up.





Approach her by giving her a genuine compliment. Generally, girls in bars want to be told they look good. But say something you really men, like, "I just needed to tell you you have the sexiest hair of any girl here."





Then, show extreme interest in everything she has to say. Smile, laugh, buy her a drink, and keep looking her in the eye.


After a few minutes, after you've laughed and feel relaxed, put the palm of your hand against the small of her back, that says, subtly, that you want her, and if you're getting anywhere, it's a turn on. If she responds by moving away, you are wasting your time.





Another tip: find the prettiest girl in the place and talk to her, not to the ugliest one. Why? Most guys will be terrified to talk to her. Often the pretty girls get the least attention.





Never, never give any girl the feeling that you're talking to her because she's ugly, because you feel sorry for her, etc.





About the sexiest thing you can wear to a bar, by the way, is a plain white, button-down loose shirt, tucked into a nicely fitted pair of jeans--not too tight or too loose. No tie.





That'll make you look larger across the shoulders. That's what girls really like.





If possible, choose footwear that makes you taller. Cowboy boots, in the right situation, or a heavy shoe with a sole that adds height.





Hope this helps.
Reply:Keep buying them drinks; you'll become better looking and less of a jerk the closer to closing it gets
Reply:aight first you gotta appraoch them that you acn build off of. you can ask how do they like bar or anything else just about that not sexually charged at first. Next, demonstarte higher value (DHV). This is usually achieved by saying "I gotta get back to my friends in a minute, but..." to show you're not alone and to seem like your not asking for sex. Next you want to weave in stories that interesting: demotrate health, humor, etc. Since girls usually aren't going to sleep with someone in the first 5-10 minutes you meet em you gotta have those stories but don't try to force them in carry it in the conversation. finally ask them.


the last thing is is to look for indicators of interest and know when to pull out

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