How do i flirt with a gay guy?

i have no idea how to flirt with boy or girl. i am gay and i need to know how to flirt with a guy i like. believe me if i didn't know how to i wouldn't be asking this. so how do i flirt i am so stupid when it comes to this crap. HELP ME!!! and please give good answers. thank you.

How do i flirt with a gay guy?
I suggest that you don't do that.
Reply:well im gay and usually when i want to flirt with a guy i start out by going into telling him im gay and then when he knows he says hes gay back or bi i start to say like omg i kinda liked you before i knew you were gay and usually they say the same back and then the conversation takes on from there Report It

Reply:Flirting is really easy -- just be yourself and try to be comfortable and confident. All you need to do is engage the person in some sort of conversation (it can be about anything, but a good bet is complementing them on something they're wearing and asking them where they got it...) and then look them in the eye and smile a lot while you're conversing. If it becomes appropriate, touch them on the arm while you're talking (if you're laughing or something). That will make it obvious that you're comfortable with them and interested in getting to know them. Good luck and have confidence!
Reply:The best way to flirt with anyone is to find out what their interests are and explore any common ground you may have with them.





Nothing turns people on to you more than knowledge, confidence and common ground.





Does your gay guy like camping or clubbing? Hard or Soft Rock....yadda yadda...you get it.
Reply:Its not rocket science by any means. 90% of the time it's just initiating conversation. Make eye contact for awhile. Make sure he catches you checking him out.





But pre-flirting, or occations where you know you may. Seems simple but dress well, or look good not dressed well. Be well groomed, clean and have a nice scent to yourself. Be confident and exude it. Give him a sincere compliment. (You have got an amazing smile.) Introduce yourself and have a firm hand shake.





Good luck tiger, hope it helps.
Reply:i wouldnt know because im a girl, and im not gay. sorry
Reply:you will do it
Reply:Start by complementing his shoes. That way, he'll know you're gay. (Straight guys never notice that stuff; nor do they usually have good footwear.) From that point, find fun things to joke with him about.





Then again, I kind of suck at this stuff, too.
Reply:Looks are everything in the gay world. You are probably ugly, if you were good looking people would just go to you. So I suggest meeting people on-line.
Reply:ITS THE SUTTLE STUFF THAT WORKS BEST. IF YOUR WEARING A NECKLACE, PLAY WITH IT WHEN YOU TALK TO HIM.. IT DRAWS ATTENTION TO YOUR NECK... SMILE AND TALK.. DON'T ACT NERVOUS GUYS WILL SENSE YOUR NERVOUS RIGHT OFF THE BAT AND THEN THEY'LL THINK YOU HAVE NO SELF CONFIDENCE. SMELL GOOD AND THE BEST WAY IS WALK UP TO HIM AND KISS HIM AND SAY I JUST WANTED TO SEE WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE... BUT MAKE SURE HE'S GAY FIRST OR THAT COULD END UP HORRIBLY WRONG....


GOOD LUCK!!!
Reply:flirting is flirting !





and practice makes perfect.





so get out there and flirt you shy dog.
Reply:Maybe you can make a smart saying on what they're wearing. Ask them where they're from. Thats a way to attract people.
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Reply:First off, I recommend EYE CONTACT. Be serious and try to act confident. A few well played out quips or verbal jabs might work. Being confident and playful is the key. If the other person maintains eyer contact and spars back at you then you will know.
Reply:Hey kid,





Well, number one, looks are NOT all in the gay community, despite what the troll said -- however, you should take good care of yourself and keep your weight in the reasonable to thin category.





The actual flirting, it depends, are you shy? If you are shy then lowering your eyes, and lowering your eyelids while smiling shyly is, in and of itself flirting. Trust me, I pusued a boy for a year when I was a teenager because he did that. I caught him too -- and we were together for several years. He was wonderful.





If you are NOT shy, particularly if you are popular, then tell jokes (NEVER jokes that hurt ANYONE unless you pick at yourself, but jokes), draw him into your circle, and then after a few weeks invite him to do something with JUST you. Fend the other people off somehow and take him somewhere to eat or see a movie or bowl (ie; a date -- but don't use the word until you are sure its ok).





Most importantly, make friends with him.





Other things, once he is friends. Give a short backrub when he is seated, don't comment or mention anything, just do it. Walk up behind him and very gently tickle him in the ribs (if he tickles you back progress to armpits, and to inner thighs. It will probably arouse both of you -- don't touch his penis unless he says to, but tickling his inner thighs will send him into paroxyms and can lead to other things). Comb out tangles in his hair with your fingers and then gently trace the outside of the shell of one of his ears with your finger. Look him directly in the eyes when talking to him, with a smile. Hug him once in a while -- not where it might embarrass him, but in private.





I think you will get the results you want if he is at all interested. If not you will get practice flirting.





Good luck.





Reyn


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Reply:Smile at him! When you see him say hi! Call him on the phone! If he is gay he will do the same!
Reply:ahh, flirting! flirting is wonderful fun.





flirting is basically talking, confidently. it's you and he together, observing the rest of the world. you want to feel like you've separated yourselves from everyone else. you can go for gentle (very gentle!) teasing, a tone of wry amusement. little touches are good, usually. nothing overtly sexual. take his glasses off to try them on yourself. touch his sleeve. stand next to him and lean over just a bit. you want him to notice you in a positive and sexual way. get his heat to rise a little.





and have fun! if you aren't having fun, you aren't flirting properly. ;)
Reply:first, he has to be gay/bi. Next, mess around with him like spanking his butt or somthing like that. (not in public)
Reply:Just tell him he's hot with a smile, he's gay, he's already lookin for some fun. If you are ugly you better have a big ****, in that case tell him that he'll be all over you.

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