Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Am i a flirt?!?

i am a very friendly person, but guys always get the wrong idea. i am single and not looking, but they think i'm flirting with them all the time. my friends hurt my feelings and make me feel bad about myself, because they are always accusing me of flirting with their boyfriends. i talk a lot, i'm outgoing, and always smiling. is having all these conversations turning me into a flirt?

Am i a flirt?!?
No way! I am exactly like you, I think flirting is harmless if you do it right, and it makes people feel good! Maybe its WHO youre flirting with though, do you only do it with your gf's bfs?? Or only just guys?? I flirt with everyone and anyone, old people, babies, its a feel good thing for all involved. People always tell me that I am easy to talk to and I used to get crap about the flirting thing. I was insulted, but I realized one day that yes, I AM a huge flirt, and I enjoy it!! But I dont ever make people uncomfortable. I just like people and I like to make them feel good. One little compliment can make someones whole day. So you keep right on being your outgoing, flirty self. Everyone else is just jealous that you are so outgoing. Just be more conservative with your gf's bfs to keep the peace. (All of my friends know that I am 100% loyal to them and I would never think of stealing their man, so they could care less if I flirt, in fact, we all joke about it.) By the way, I am pretty certain that I am alot older than you, so I hope that your friends dont ruin your self-confidence with this petty thing. You are obviously more secure than they are.
Reply:Depends on what you say to these guys. You have to be doing something to make them all want you.
Reply:well maybe when you talk to there boyfriends and muck around and stuff u are flirting and dont realise it..maybe you should back up a bit
Reply:i guess not, your just friendly. if your friends know you really well then they would understand that your just being friendly, no flirting included. to the boys who are thinking you are flirting, tell them your not. you may get bad impressions to others because they think you are always flirting.





i hope this makes you feel better.
Reply:learn more about flirting here:


http://www.helium.com/tm/622483/flirting...
Reply:well i wasnt a flirt but i just like all eyes on me when i was in school. maybe your the same way sounds flirty but if you dont mean anything by then its fine just back up a bit.
Reply:ya
Reply:No, I don't think youre a flirt. I am like you, and girls don't generally like me because I get along better with guys than girls, so I talk to them more and I am a little more outgoing when I'm with the guys than my small group of girls. Well, I will admit that I am a flirt. But, not over the top. It's all in knowing body language. Don't be touch him (even if you want to) or super super smiley... those are big flirts (and very obvious ones too). And, no, having conversations with guys isnt going to turn you into a flirt! All it does is expand your cirlce of friends, and theres NOTHING wrong with that!
Reply:sounds like it.
Reply:unfortuanatly yes but if you don't want to change just dont talk to other girls boyfriends and anyway through time people will see your true intention (friends)

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