FLIRT HELP URGENTLY NEEDED PLEASE! thank you?

I've known a guy for nearly three years and we just connected as soon as we met, I was very nervous because I always seem to get shot down by men and I'm not very experienced in the flirt department! I feel like I've fallen really deep for this man and am really nervous that I would say or do something that would screw it up, Anyway, he asked me to meet him on Thursday and I really need advice because I don't know how to act or flirt! thank you very much for your time , x

FLIRT HELP URGENTLY NEEDED PLEASE! thank you?
Just be yourself, that's all you have to do. I mean you don't want a man to like you for what he thinks you're like, you want him to like you, just the way you are. And he must like you...he asked you to meet him. Don't worry about being nervous, he most likely will be too. Try to relax and enjoy yourself. Hope it goes well x
Reply:Try to relax, and just be yourself. The truth will out itself eventually you might as well find out right up front if he likes you, rather than putting on a persona and letting him fall for a fake you, or worse, maybe he won't like the flirty you and think that is the real you and then you lost a guy you coukld have had if you'd just been yourself. Following me so far?





Good date etiquette: Listen more than you talk, Ask him about himself, Let him pay, let him do the guy things, like opening doors and stuff.





Limit your flirting to things that feel genuine. Witty comments, great smiles, genuine interest in him and what he is saying. Little things like looking up at him, guys like it when a girl looks up to them. Even if you have to put your head down a little so that you have to look up with your eyes, in order to make eye contact with him. It is a subconcious signal of subordinance and interest, that most men respond to and can be calculated easily on the women's part.


Make sure you take small opportunities to touch him briefly. Don't get clingy, but light touches punctuated by periods of non-contact can increase desire. Let him make the first moves, and don't let him get away with anything but the first kiss, the first time. Make him wait a little for it, and it is okay if he has to work a little for it. Be interested, but independent.





Hope some of that helps.


Start watching Sex and the City.
Reply:Tips


What you say is not particularly important (as long as it's not completely idiotic), but whatever you say, try to keep your conversation positive. Don't be negative, arrogant, or pushy; just be friendly.


When you first start talking with someone, don't aim to flirt. Just aim to have a conversation. This takes a lot of pressure off both of you.


Do not pursue anyone if they do not reciprocate. Walk away if the person doesn't seem interested. Don't presume they're playing "hard to get" because they might interpret any pushiness in a negative light.


Compliments can go a long way. It's a great idea to compliment the person during your conversation, but don't try to pass off a compliment that you don't really mean, and be careful about compliments that might be embarrassing or offensive


If you don't feel comfortable asking for their number, try giving them your number. If they are truly interested in you they will give you a call. You could also pass them your email address that way the conversation could continue without any pressure.


If you want the person to know you like them by flirting, don't start flirting by saying "I like you." let the person know by flirting until they get the message.
Reply:Honestly just be yourself. Listen attentively and ask questions. If you say something silly just laugh and say oops that came out wrong I'm a bit nervous. Enjoy yourself.
Reply:be yourself don't be a easy catch let him do the running about . keep him guessing.
Reply:Talk in a playful way.


Be sarcastic, make big reactions in response etc.
Reply:ok dont get nervous! be confident =]


smile at him, and make eye contact, you dont have to talk to flirt


good luck!
Reply:you don't need to act people can see straight through it be yourself





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Reply:be yourself. always always always be yourself...no matter what !





if you want to flirt a lil bit...still be yourself still. what i do is just look at him with that "look" in ur eyes.





touch his arm a lil bit, like "oh stop it" but dont really say that lol.





jest be urself and a lil playful but not slutty. remember that.





works for me everytime :D
Reply:i am a flirt naturally its not something i even know im doing most of the time... but when i was working it seemed everytime i talked to a guy everyone started rumors i was flirting....


what I know is a few things that accentuate the places guys see first like your eyes, mouth, chest, legs etc. these i used sometimes if i was trying to flirt. they no doubt get a guys attention without acting or looking slutty.


when you see him altho on the outside you may seem so happy just keep your cool at all times.


when he makes a joke or says something funny laugh and keep your head tilted down and look up at him through your eyelashes.(you knwo what i mean. cause this bring yours eyes to his attention.)


when you are eating just eat small bites cause if he asks a question you dont wanna have to swallow before you answer or God forbid answer with your mouth full.


while he is talking just pull out some chapstick or gloss and with one finger rub the lipgloss on your lips make sure you are looking at him when you do. and finger foods are great cause you can look so sexy eating finger foods.


dont talk about your ex's EVER in the dating phase. it makes you look bad. and dont bring up family problems for the same reason.


if you want to bring your breasts to his attention its very simple and sublte. you dont have to wear low cut shirts or things that are tight . but just cross your arms under them, or wear a necklace and and play with it. it draws attention to your hands and your hands are in the area around them.


and make sure he knows you really like him and again simple and subtle. when he makes you laugh, touch his arm or hand. compliment his eyes for example and lean over and touch his face like fix his eyebrows or something ya know.


and your legs if you want to bring those to his attention. then keep your legs to the side of the table. and just corss your legs and rub them together. not alot tho you dont wanna look like you are ichy or something ya know.


all these have to be used in extreme moderation you will feel the oppoutunity if you pay attention.


all in all be yourself cause thats the reason he asked you out right. dont try to be someoen else but you can easily throw at least one or two of these things in. be calm, and laugh when he makes a joke and make him laugh too. dont talk about bad things now. basically the secret is if you want to bring attion to something you have to touch it. he will look where your fingers go. but moderation you can easliy use all of them but dont use em too much cause you may just look crazy. but try at least one or two. and practice in your room alone in front of a mirror. do something and look at yourself and decide what you think is sexy or flirtatious


and when you leave turn your back to him and look over your shoulder at him and say bye with a smile. (he will notice your eyes when you do this and that is the lst thing you want him thinking about.) (or he;ll just see your butt he may just be tryin to get in your pants if thats all he sees tho.)


just be sweet, subtle and sincere. thats the key.


oh and if you are going somewhere that has alcohol dont get drunk set yourself to like a 2 drink limit and dont let him talk you in to going to bed with him. make him chase it and if the date goes well i bet he will.





good luck honey hope i helped!
Reply:Just be yourself don't put on an act, let him accept you for who you are, good luck
Reply:well i will say start by smilling and being nice then the rest might fall in place remember be nice no attitude unlessyou are experienced

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