Friday, April 16, 2010

Girls that flirt? (I prefer girls to answer this one, please)?

My ex is a big flirt, but she says shes just "over friendly" with people. Is that really possible or am I right that shes a big flirt? She meets people easily and she talks to guys all the time and in high school there were rumors about her being a slut (mostly from girls). I think she is always flirting with me (bumping me when she walks buy, asking for hugs, tickleing me) and I get mad because I like her still and she said she just wants to be friends so I tell her to stop flirting with me and she says shes not flirting with me thats just the way she is. Is she teasing me? or is there really girls out there like this????

Girls that flirt? (I prefer girls to answer this one, please)?
I am friendly too, my ex's all told me i was flirty.


I am just a people person, i make friends easily and like to laugh and goof off, i am really sarcastic too... which can come off the wrong way. My ex fiance is the one who brought it to my attention, and then the guy after him told me the same thing. I know with me it does not go past talking..... you might just want to ask her out and if she says no then there you go.
Reply:It sounds like she is just like that. If she knows it bothers you when she tickles you and stuff, hopefully she will respect your feelings enough to stop. But she just sounds like a nice, friendly girl.. To a girl, having a friendly convo. is just that, but to the guy, it could be flirting. And chances are, if mostly girls were calling her a slut, they are just jealous.
Reply:now she could still just be teasing you cuz she gets a kick out of it . or deep down she wants to be more than friends but doesnt want to admit it to you so she just keeps messing with you . gurls do just flirt for fun , i know cuz i do it at times .
Reply:Well I'm actually like that to both genders... when in a good mood. But yes, people are always taking it the wrong way.


Alot of girls are like this. She is probably telling the truth
Reply:girls are like this.


its weird and rude, but we cant help it.. its almost natural. my boyfriend and i fight alot about this problem.. however in my eyes i love only one man. and because of my tomboy characteristics i feel more comfortable with guys. we like to joke and play around. unless she really is a slut.. there are girls who like to play around for pleasure, girls to whom just come naturally, and the clingy ones who basically stalk you..


girls are hard to understand.. i am one myself and i still havent even figured my own species out?!
Reply:sounds like she is flirting to me,but when you say stop flirting with me and she says im not.... tell her to stop being so (over friendly) to me then!
Reply:each individual has a certain level of "flirt" and might be readily accpeted by indivduals. as long as they dont carry ob to....you know where I mean...it should be ok. but be aware of conservative views.





as for your case think you are " sour"...sorry over a failed relationship and feel such. think you may not like "over friendly" girls too....





just let it be ...its just anothe rindidivual personality.





good luck.
Reply:umm, I dunno cuz I do it to and I just do it to tease guys.





No other reason than that.





If she was over friendly, wouldn't she do it to her girl friends as well???


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