Monday, April 12, 2010

Do girls with BFs flirt with single guys?

I had a crush on this girl who was in grad school with me. Initially, our interaction was basically me giving her career advice, but I sensed that she might be interested in me as well. My crush was strong and she actually asked me to dinner/drinks to say thanks. At dinner, she flirted with me heavily, but gave mixed signals for the remainder of the night. Since then, on several occasions, she has given strong signals that she might be interested - we've rubbed up on each other at the dance floor, she's said things like "I'd like to get to know you" and even said the long-distance thing with her BF isn't working out. She isn't making him up, he does exist. But soon as I try to flirt more, she backs off and says she's in love. I've ignored her for months together, and she's come back and gotten in touch. But the minute I try flirting again, same thing, mixed signals. She flirts with other guys too. Honestly, a part of me wants to at least nail her :) Anyone relate?

Do girls with BFs flirt with single guys?
Um, you just answered your own question.. and a stupid question I might add.
Reply:Yeah, actually I can relate; there's this girl who shows mixed signals to me all the time...sometimes she acts super friendly around me, sometimes nervous...sometimes quiet...I can't tell. There are other girls, those kind are not worth messing with.
Reply:Of course they do. Ditto boys with gals. It is not harmful in most cases and is fun. Chill out.
Reply:Are you kidding? It happens all the time.
Reply:well your friend might have mix feeling between you and her bf just try to not talk to her intell she knows what she wants
Reply:She wants to have her cake and eat it too.... what ever the f*ck that means. She's "in love" with her physically non-existent BF so she seeks the attention of men who are around her. However she won't take it too far because that's cheating. This is why long distance relationships are so stupid. Make her chase you, she's not the catch, you are. Flirt a little and just leave it at that. Don't let he think she can have it if she wants. She'll want it more if it's a challenge. But honestly, you need to leave that alone, it's just going to turn out to be drama for you.
Reply:That chick don't know what she wants , my advice stop playing her game.
Reply:the girl next to me said it depends on what u consider flirting and who it is!
Reply:Bro, understand that I'm coming from a moral perspective, but there's plenty of single girls out there, for you to mess with one that has a B/F. Plus yes, girl with B/F flirt with other guys all the time cuz they want the best of both worlds. It sucks but it happens. Conversely, there's loyal girls too. Let's hope the one you find is one.
Reply:Just ask her straight and if she cannot give you any decent kind of answer, then she is not interested and you won't "nail her" ever.
Reply:I would quit waisting your time, move on...she has a man %26amp; she is just looking for attention to feed her ego while he isn't around...
Reply:sounds like a lonely body to me. if you get a chance to "nail her", my guess is she would appreciate it, but dont get your hopes up on making something lasting with her. she isnt sure what she wants or where she is going.


however, if you really do like her, you could make her see how nice a relationship with you can be and then she would be sure of her feelings!


whichever way it goes, make sure you both get the most out of it without hurting the other. i dunno, it just sounds like a tricky situation to me.
Reply:That's just probably her nature although somw girls that flirt don't always realize they're doing it, if you really like her ask her out but if ur not sure, save urself the trouble and go to another girl
Reply:girls flirt with guys if they have boyfriends all the time. It is the feeling of knowing that someone likes you besides your boyfriend and things like that. I am sure it is a little different because she has a long distance relationship and those are always hard.
Reply:Wow, sounds this girl wants to play games. Now everyone flirts, regardless of their relationship status, but it is a matter of knowing your boundaries. This girl obviously does not, as much as you like her, she is actually giving you a great reason not to hook up with her, she's not committment oriented and would do to you what she is doing to her boyfriend. Your best bet is to keep your relationship with her strickly friends, that means no flirting with her, because she obviously wants the attention that she is given when she is having issues with her man. Let her work out her own issues with her man and find someone else who you can hook up with that is not going to play the mind games. Trust me, you would rather "nail" a person without all the games than a person who is obviously all about that.
Reply:Make a move on her! It's what she wants and she would feel to guilty to make a move on u!
Reply:what
Reply:dude it's called life and if you can figure women out you would be king, except you sound a little creepy "wants to nail her to" no wonder she is giving you mixed signals she can pick that up and thinks that is all you want


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