Is it ok to flirt?

My friend always gets mad cuz i am a flirt and i dont mean to but i tend to also flirt with her ex.She always yells at me for flirting with him i mean aint it ok to flirt with him, cuz they arnt going out...But she always tells me she dont like him but even when i look at him i get snapped at..So cant i do as i please sence he is single?

Is it ok to flirt?
Sure it is unless you are risking your friendship if you value your friendship with her i would stop i'm quite sure if the shoe was on the other foot you would like her to stop
Reply:if you are single then i think it is ok to flirt with anyone you want. and since he happens to be single then he can do the same. however, i dont think it is ok to flirt with your friends ex unless you are willing to possibly lose that friendship you shared with your friend. that is a chance you will have to decide whether or not to take.
Reply:its always ok to flirt! ;)





your friend isn't going out with him, and if she doesnt like him, it shouldn't be a problem.


Just keep flirting! lol
Reply:Some people just have a tendency to flirt they say that about me and I'm married. It doesn't bother my husband he trusts me and knows it's not going to go any further then that and he's the one I go home with. But some girls are more jealous then guys. If it's her ex she just might not you getting together with him. Why do you go out where he isn't when your with her.
Reply:look, he may be single, but he also dated your friend - and it is just all sorts of bad manners and rude to be all over someone your friend went out with. It wouldn't be appropriate for you to date him, so it isn't appropriate to flirt with him either.
Reply:if you want to keep her, try not to. its actually very simple. think about how you would feel. and shes, your FRIEND, right?!
Reply:yeah its like the boss fires a worker.. then the boss's right hand man calls him up to get a beer
Reply:are you crazy. unless you don't value your friendship then go ahead. don't you know your friends bfs and exs are out of limit, which means you don't date them or flirt with them especially since it still obviously bothers your friend.
Reply:ha...funny. ehm, tell the guy ur friend still likes him,, dont flirt with him anymore cuz friends respect friends feeling so........yeah try not to and get other guys
Reply:its not about her still having feelings for him its about u flirting with him and u are suppose to be her friend....if she told u shedoesnt like it, then stop!!!!
Reply:It obviously bothers her, so unless you want to piss her off, stop flirting with him (at least when she's around).
Reply:yeah you can flirt, she isnt much of a friend and you will find out as you grow up who your true friends really are
Reply:no because he dated your friend, he is forever off limits, that's just how it is.
Reply:Flirting is natural; if she doesn't like it then she can at least be honest with you and tell you that she still like him.
Reply:well you shouldnt flirt right after she breaks up with him you should sit and talk with her and ask her if she still has feelings for this guy and maybe it wont be that bad
Reply:yea i am a flirt.well it is okay to flirt as long as u dont end up dating or sleeping with him cuz thats against a friends x rule though its okay to flirt.and ur friend need sto realize that if she doesnt have feelings for him to let it go, its just harmless flirting.aslo make sure ur friend is 100% over and done with this guy before u flirt.
Reply:What are you thinking? Flirting with her ex?





Sheesh.





If you want to have a friend, you need to just accept that you DO NOT go flirting with your best friend's ex.





Its like the law.
Reply:Flirting is something some people do by nature. I am married, been with my husband 10 years, and I am flirt, my husband knows it, but that's my nature. Tell her to grow up and start flirting her self, she might be a happier person.
Reply:Yes, Do your thang. . you have the right to flirt with whoever you want to. But I would try to not do it in front of her to avoid her getting upset. Shes going to get mad regardless, because obviously she still has feelings for him. . and she is jealous/intimidated by you.
Reply:Either stop flirtig with him or stop it when she's around
Reply:welll it is ok to flirt n if ur friend is yellin at u she still does like him n if she didn't like him she would be yellin at u b-cuz u r flirtin w/ her ex.
Reply:your friend NEEDS o GROW UP
Reply:go ahead its her ex! not her bf
Reply:Well, ur friend prolly still has a thing for her ex. So if her friendship is more valuable than flirting with some guy u might want to cool it. Theres plenty of other guys out ther
Reply:you can't let the fact that he is ur friends ex get in the way of ur happiness, if u like this guy, go for it and dont hold back cause he's your friends ex
Reply:Times are changing but I know that I still belive in the girl rule: you dont flirt/date a friends ex. So if she's really your friend and you know you're hurting her, you should try to make an effort to stop flirting. At the same time I realize that sometimes you dont realize you're flirting (i've been guilty of that) or it may be that when it comes to him, she's super sensative because they dated. So she might take you just being friends with him as flirting. Its doesn't matter that he's single now, its her ex. If you like him more then a friend, then you should talk to her about that and make sure its okay if you want to pursue anything. And if you're flirting with other guys, she has no reason to be mad. If you're single and they're single (and not her ex) then oh well. Its not harm done. You're just having fun! Maybe this is something you two should sit down and discuss? You're free to flirt with whoever you want as long as you're not hurting a friend. That's just my opinion though. Hope I helped.
Reply:Flirt all you want but be discreet she is your friend and watch out as sooner or later someone may take you up on your flirt.
Reply:well. try talking to your friend, but some people dont like there friends going out with there exs cause she might like him still..just talk about it with your friend.
Reply:Yes it is ok to flirt with other people but not your friends ex. Friends are hard to come by. You need to Receipt your Friends wishes.Would you like it if the table was turned, I wouldn't think so. So try to keep your friend a friend and make her happy not snappy. Ok Good Luck......