Flirt without being bitchy n be more sexy..?

Hi all, I'm really not good at this, i'm the decent (innocent) type of gal, i don't sleep around and i admit i'm a total idiot when it comes to relationships. I've only have 1 bf in the past... because of my controlling parents... :(





I really like to learn how to flirt, get a bf and to experience love and being in a relationship. Can any experienced girls or guys please give me some tips?





I'm a friendly gal, polite and soft spoken. But i think most guys find that boring...





How do i flirt effectively without being bitchy? ... I don't want guys to get the wrong idea cuz i'm not. And how can i be more sexy? What do guys find sexy in girls? I thought of wearing more revealing clothes but i didn't want others to mistaken me as the easy type...





Any help will be greatly appreciated... :)

Flirt without being bitchy n be more sexy..?
for me.. ppl say im sexy but no bitchy is.. becos i know how to dress up myself.. know yr figure well and look for those dress that suit u well.. if u reali do wana to become sexy.. jus wear make up.. less clothing.. do nail polish... long n nice hair ( 99% guy like) high heels... no track shoe pls... lol..
Reply:My Dear, you have come to the right place...you must be my younger counterpart. I was exactly like you until I got older. My name says it all, shynomore....I am not a trashy woman, but I do enjoy playing on Yahoo Answers. If you look back at my past questions and answers, you'd think I'd had more men than Pam Anderson's had boob jobs, but it's not real. This is my creative playground and I love it. If you need some good, clean advice, I'd love to help you. You can flirt without changing who you truly are and get the attention you crave. Just ask me....I'm the prime example of it. It's all about attitude. If you feel pretty, then you get treated better. Not snobby, just pretty and capable of holding your own.
Reply:I think the key here is confidence, just going up to a guy in restaurant and saying "hey,you are really sexy, do you have a girlfriend?" and than keep the convo going will be helpful. You can also leave notes on their car.;) But whatever it is be confident and a little crazy.
Reply:The most important thing is to BE YOURSELF!





It is my belief that one of the reasons teh divorce rate is so high is because people pretend to be something they are not just to get a more attractive partner. They keep up the game for a little while until they know they have them hooked, and then their true self comes out. The unknowing partner then is left wondering what the heck happened, and where did the person they fell in love with go? If you aren't yourself then you aren't going to attract the type of person who would be better suited for you.