To flirt or not to flirt? that is my (?)!?

ok i am in a relationship and i love my boyfriend and woulf never cheat on him.bu there is also this other guy that likes me nd has ll the same classes as i do and he has asked me out before but i turned him down...anyways i tend to flirt without meaning it and i was wondering if i should try to control myself with the flirting or if i am safe?

To flirt or not to flirt? that is my (?)!?
if you are in a relationship then (im going to be brutally honest) stop thinking about other guys. unless your bf is being a jerk don't do that infidelity garbage. why would you? i understand that girls naturally desire attention but there is a limit to that. everyone flirts now and then. but if you are in a relationship and you are flirting so much that a guy is asking you out then yeah you need to back off or get out of the relationship. why would you hurt your bf just because some other guy is showing interest? my advice is to cut back on the flirting as much as possible or else you are just going to upset and maybe eventually lose your bf. unless he is doing similiar things to you its not fair for you to do that to him.
Reply:Do what you need to do
Reply:If flirting is so innocuous, is it OK to do it with someone other than your significant other while in a committed relationship? According to Baltimore psychologist Shirley Glass, PhD, you're treading in dangerous waters here. "Flirting is the first step in crossing the line of infidelity," she says. "People who cheat cast out their nets to see who is receptive. If your partner isn't threatened or offended by it, then it's probably good-natured and charming. But if your partner feels challenged or disrespected, your signals are probably too suggestive."
Reply:I think that u should control urself becuase u wouldnt want ur man messing with some other girl even though his just messing around with her
Reply:personally i think it depends on you and your motives. Sometimes if a girl flirts with me, its flattering, but then if I ask her out and she says she has a bf (or husband) then it becomes annoying. However, thats only because of my expectations. Leading a guy on is a whole nother story though. There is a difference.
Reply:If you really love your boyfriend like you say you do, then stop flirting. I don;t think there is such thing as harmless flirting, it will get your mind thinking and straying. Yuo will never be happy if you are always comparing.
Reply:unless you want to cheat on your boyfriend you should try to control yourself
Reply:I would try not to flirt with him because that is sending him wrong signals and he may think that you are interested in him so i would play it save and just try to be casual friends.

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