To flirt or not to flirt?

I have noticed lately that guys are really starting to flirt with me,and people (family and strangers) tell me how beautiful I am all the time. But my dad and my older brother are VERY protective over me,and they do not like all the guys winking and smileing at me. I'm a social butterfly, but when it comes to guys I'm kind of shy and freeze up. I'm a young teen,so should I flirt back?

To flirt or not to flirt?
yes, if not for the reason that at least you can improve your skills at flirting. You will go on to have many relationships before you settle down. Just don't lead a guy on too far if you are not going to do anything. I say this not because it is wrong but most guys can't tell the difference and you might get in a precarious situation. I will say though that you shouldn't flirt around your dad and brother it shows somewhat of a disrespect to them. The best way to get to talk to guys is just by talking to them. you will mess up a lot and maybe get rejected but you will come out a stonger person and when you meet the right man you will be able to have great conversation and you will define the moment, not the moment defining you.
Reply:YES you should but don't do any thing you would not tell you g-ma
Reply:Im the same as you in this way......but i tend not to flirt back.....just because I dont see the point in it....lol.....but if you feel that you should flirt then go for it i guess....lol.....just make sure that the guy is close to your age.
Reply:maybe but you should listing to your dad
Reply:If you feel comfortabel then go ahead as long as your not stepping on anyones truf. But also be very awear even tho you know them doesn't mean they won't hurt you. Your brother and father know what guys are like and are there to protect you which at times might be over protected. I know my husband is with ower First born which just entered her teen last year and the other one is getting there. They mean good.
Reply:No, you already have beauty so there is no need to flirt.
Reply:young teen, pretty, flirting back? that's like throwing meat into the lions den. sure have fun but be aware of what it is they really want to do with, to and on you. don't be a tease or a prude, just flirty.
Reply:Yes, flirting is a very valuable tool...use it. Best wishes
Reply:Flirt back! Your shyness is based on a fear. Do it anyway, it's the only way to over come your fear. Believe me, I know what I'm saying. I'm experienced at being shy.
Reply:only if you want it in return dont lead anyone on and also you need to live for you not for you family
Reply:No, especially with the older strangers. Theres way too many pervs out there your lucky you have a dad and brother who care about you.
Reply:there is no harm at all in flirting. of course your dad and brother are not going to like it because they are protective. just save the flirting for when theyre not around. have fun!
Reply:I dunno. Tell me when you find out.
Reply:no, it's like messing with their heads - especially if you are not interested in dating them. Just be friendly like you would to any one else. You don't want people to get the wrong idea about you and it will make life easier with Dad if he sees you just act normal and not try to tease guys.
Reply:no....only flirt w/ a guy you are interested in when you get older...
Reply:It really depends on who your flirting with-if they are guys your own age-go ahead!! But wait until your dad and brothers are not around!!!
Reply:Do as you wish, but remember you have to keep control of the situation, try not to let your enjoyment of the attention take control of you otherwise you might end up doing things you don't want to, whether it be a drastic mistake or a minor case of poor judgement. The world can be terrible with perverts and criminals, but also wonderful, with churches and butterflies like yourself, enjoy and stay safe.
Reply:Oh piss off. If you need to ask then don't.
Reply:u should just act naturally
Reply:Flirting is all interpretation. The way you walk, talk and smile can all be deemed as flirting. If you are a young teen the first thing you should understand is body language. Do not send signs that you think would cause a reaction that you do not want. I am a 23 year old virgin so I get alot of questions from men surrounding that and how they can be apart of my life. You truly just have to weed out the things you do not want. Flirting is natural but you just have to know your limitations. Listen to the men in your life you cannot get advice from no other source better regarding the behavior of men and why they do the things they do.
Reply:Try not to think of it as flirting but just being friendly. It comes very naturaly to me and I get along with everyone being me.