PLEASE!! Flirt help??!!?

I have never had a boyfriend. I feel like when I was in middle school I lived in a bubble with my loser friends and never really flirted or did any thing with guys.





Now I am in my third year of high school and I have friends that are much more fun and social. When I go to parties with my friends I have a really hard time talking and meeting guys.





My friend told me I should go flirt with this guy, and I was like I dont know how to do that. I get really stiff and have no clue what to say. This is weird cuz generally I am not a shy person.





I really need to learn how to flirt. And I would like to meet more boys an eventually get a boyfriend.





Any advice?

PLEASE!! Flirt help??!!?
Yep. Watch how other girls flirt and do the same.
Reply:first of all how do you not know how to flirt thats sorta weird every girl is born knowin how to do that


and 2nd you dont have to flirt to get a guy to like you your suppose to flirt when you want to give him a signal to make a mmove on you
Reply:You just need to learn to be comfortable with yourself and with other people. Flirting is simple, once you realize what it is. When you're at a party and you're friends are encouraging you to talk to someone, then just do it. Think of things that you could talk about beforehand: sports, weather, hobbies. Look up some conversation starters on the internet- "hey my name's sally, what's yours?" or "how do you know the birthday girl?" or "hey do you watch the office? i love that show" or "did you try this drink? it's amazing!" And then once you start a conversation, thats when flirting comes in handy. Whenever there's an opportunity to say something cute, bat your eyelashes, or offer to grab him a drink, DO IT!! Then at the end of the night, take your cell phone out and ask him if you could get his number so you could give him a call "to go see that movie you were talking about that you both wanted to see." Or something like that. You get the idea.


One more piece of advice i have for you is to stay with your friends. You'll be SO much more confortable if you go up to a group of guys WITH your group of girlfriends instead of alone, that way you'll all be in casual conversation and your friends can support you and help you out a little when you meet that cute guy at the party.


I hope everything works out for you!
Reply:you don't need to learn how to flirt you just need to be yourself most guys prefer a girl to be herself, cos if your not then you end up being together a while then you become yourself they are in for a shock don't you think?! And having a boyfriend isn't the end all and be all you know. Just go out have fun and when you least expect it someone will come to you!!





I decided I was off boys for good, and then I started having fun, became happier in myself and then I met this guy, he came up to me asked me out and we just 'clicked' and now I've been with him for nearly 8 years and married for 1year and have a 1year old boy (well he's nearly one) I mean I'm a bit older than you and I met him when I was 17 but you see I started having fund being myself and look what happened. So Good luck on finding your knight in shining armour!!
Reply:just relax be yourself and start a conversation with him. does he like sports, is he on any teams, maybe talk about those things. Good luck
Reply:well you laugh at what he says unless it is sooo stuiped.....and when you laugh touch his arm slightly and smile, also wisper in his ear like somthing silly but act like it a secret!!
Reply:Flirting is not as hard as you might think. Think about what it is you like, hobbys, sports, subjects in school, etc... Try involving yourself more in group conversations with your friends and other boys, that way you'll become more comfortable, and you won't be on the spot and freeze up. After you know a person just a tiny bit it's much easier to talk to them so, relate back to previous conversations and subjects. Memorize one topic of interest that you have knowledge in to use as your fallback... Meaning if conversation totally dies you'll have something to say. Laughing and smiling helps. You'll catch on fast, have fun!
Reply:simply smile at the guy, make small talk, also mention things about his looks if u like them, for ex: i love ur hair. or w/e. u get my point
Reply:i have some advice...get a life!....maybe u have never had a bf because u are ugly!
Reply:smile and be yourself!! flirting really isnt something you can learn. there are many different ways to flirt with someone and you need to find your style of flirting!! good luck and happy flirting!!!
Reply:OK girl you do need help i started having boyfriends in 5Th grade. This is Wat u need 2 do! when a guy comes up to you talk regularly them bite the side of your lip a LITTLE bit! Then that is called a little hint do that only if you like him and you know he dosent have a girl friend! just talk regularly like as if you were talking to a bff!!





good luck girly!
Reply:okkk,my name is prashant and i am 18 yrs of age and if u find me interesting just sned me a mail.
Reply:smile and be sweet and batt your eyes
Reply:ok i'm a guy i like when a girl comes up to me puts her hands around me and say u are the one i'm looking for but if your ugly that wont work out so well or if he has a girlfriend
Reply:first of all be yourself..


here is a link that might help you..


http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt
Reply:SMILE!!!!!!!!!!! Just talk to the guy. Play hitting is a real good sign of flirting. Joke around and stuff. Just remember to keep smiling.
Reply:Be yourself just cuz he's a guy it doesn't mean you should become a totally different person. have Fun!
Reply:dont worry i have the same problem......


my friend has all the guys running after her.........


i am also a junior in highschool


it SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


but hey if you get any advice that can actually help would you mind letting me know..........


we girls have to stick together
Reply:DONT NEED TO FLIRT IF THE Y LIKE YOU THEY LIKE YOU
Reply:just start up a conversation with him, about anything