Monday, November 16, 2009

How to flirt? please help me!!!?

I don't know how to flirt with the quiet shy guy I really like! I can easily flirt with open guys, but I figured a shy guy would just run off or get scared. I want to know how to flirt with a shy guy and how what does a shy guy do to flirt? He's shy so it will be hard to tell i know, because they don't wanna get shot down. how do I do this!

How to flirt? please help me!!!?
Coming from a guy who was shy It's easy to say that any attention you give him will begin to open him up. If you see this guy frequently at parties, school work, wherever, just Begin talking to him. No flirting will be needed. His biggest fear is that if he was to open up to you he would get shut down, that is why he's shy. Begin by just expressing your interest in him. Say something straight forward like, I see you here at school every day and I thought you should know that I think you're cute, And if you want we should go out some time. If he accepts, Agree to a date where you can be alone and not with a group of friends. He will feel less shy and awkward about opening up to you if its just the two of you. Have a nice casual dinner and take in a movie. That is a great comfortable first date for the shy guy. Dinner is for talking, this is where you try your hardest to get him to open up and talk to you, the movie is for quiet contact time. If he likes you don't expect him to be gutsy and hold your hand or put his arm around you. Drop any pre-conceived notions that the guy should be the aggressor and make the move yourself. It's what he's wanting but remember he's shy and he's afraid that you are going to freak out and leave him standing at the ticket line if he even touches you. Long story short You will have to initiate most everything.
Reply:Start by talking with him and you can work into the flirting! Take it slow, and flirt with him at first by simply using what he tells you about himself and showing interest! After he warms up to you a little go for it!





I was really shy growing up, but now I'm the farthest thing from it!
Reply:shy guys are EASY to flirt w/ because you dont have to do that much.


you could come up to "john" and smile at him......ask him how he is. if he's reading...


be interested in the book......just smile A LOT! my ex bf was shy and the way I let him know was....i remembered when his birthday was


and i wrote that i liked him in his card.


touch his arm when speaking to him...but not a lot


u dont wanna scare him.


tell him u like his shirt....or that his hair looks great today. ALWAYS SMILE....
Reply:dunno sweetheart
Reply:Don't flirt. Just be polite and friendly. Flirting sends the wrong message to a guy. You don't want to start out on the wrong foot, do you?
Reply:flirt with a sdkirt.
Reply:WE girls dont flirt,thats the guys job!!!!!


how many times do I have to repeat this?
Reply:He sounds like a decent guy.
Reply:try to have an eye to eye contact with that person. and talk to him more often about his likes and opinions.

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