What is a flirt?

My gf's sister says ima flirt//





so, what is a flirt anyway, no dictionary answers either..


like i always tell her shes pretty, and today i said i want to say something, "i love you", and i was like "something, im not telling, but its 3 words", and she said " i know" and i said "not on IM, i want it to mean something, so ill say it in person",








so then shes like " my sis was right" i said " what?" she said "it's a girl thing" and i just kep at it, and so she told me her sister said i was a flirt, i dont think mean but ya...








SO..


Whats a flirt? is it bad? or mean? or weird? lol


what is it?

What is a flirt?
It means to pay attention to, and talk or behave in such a way to arouse sexual interest without serious intentions. The only thing is though, it is sometimes done with intent, and it`s hurtful if your b/f or g/f does it with other people.
Reply:if she's your gf and you all were talking like that then its a good thing. it means you know how to play the game... you know how it is.. you hint, you tease, she knows what you saying, pretends like she doesn't, she hints, she teases, you know but you pretend like you don't, she knows you pretending... you know how it is. dictionary doens't help cos it can't understand it.. a flirt (in your context) is someone who knows how to play that little game of hearts/words.





if it was in a mean way then it would mean you just like to do that with everyone and youre basically a playa or man ho..





but im sure your gf didn't say it the mean way she meant it the sweet, teasing way. its a compliment. at least.. i'd take it that way.
Reply:I think a flirt is a kind of danger - it might lead to more then you want or expect.