A shameless flirt?

So I have a good friend (girl) who really likes this guy and before she started crushing on him i didnt really know him. But they start hanging out, movies, dances and stuff and I go too. But she is shy around guys that she likes and is afraid to flirt and tell them how she feels. But I step up and am always flirting with him because I have gotten to know him better and now like him. But she is feeling resent towards me and him because he is flirting back. We have become good friends(me and him) and hang out a joke but we are not dating and dont expect that to happen. What do I do about a friend like that? He does not like her like that. She is getting angry so what do I do?

A shameless flirt?
put your self in her place,seehow you feel.
Reply:So she introduces you to this really great guy that she really likes and you take advantage of her shyness and swoop in and then wonder why she's angry?





You said she was a "good friend", why would you do that to her without letting her interest in the guy play out, let her discover on her on he wasn't interested, etc...
Reply:go with the friend you new first if she dose not go with you the she was just useing you to get to him
Reply:Personally, you are not a friend to this girl. Neither are you a good friend at all right now. (Sorry to be so harsh, but if you search your heart you know it is the truth). Friends do not do what you are doing to this girl who you claim to be your friend. I think deep down you are not happy with yourself, you are insecure and your self-esteem is at an all time low. Hence, all the flirtation and deliberately going after a guy that a girl who thinks you are her friend likes. Please stop this behavior. It is destructive and in the end harmful to not only you but to your friend.





Perhaps the only way you feel good about yourself is when you get attention of guys through flirting. But try and list all the great things about yourself down on a piece of paper. Look at them, meditate on those great qualities you have - learn to appreciate them and love yourself for you. That way, you will not need male attention to make you feel good. Also, be the kind of friend to others that you want a friend to be to you. Remember, what goes around comes around.





All The Best!
Reply:what does she do about a friend like you!!?? you knew she liked him first!
Reply:i think that if you don't plan on getting serious with him then u could strike up a conversation about her to him and tell him all the good things about her and stuff like that. he may not like her now because she is shy around him and shes afraid of the denial. and u may want to help her get to know him better so shes not so shy around him. but by the way u put the question i think u just wont him all to Ur self. so y not think about Ur friends felling and not Ur own
Reply:this sounds like a stretch for you, but have you tried to be HONEST with your friend. Why are you willing to let her be hurt?
Reply:dont hurt your friend!!!!!!!!
Reply:well, i've had the same problem and just tell her how HE feels about her and if she is TRUE friend she'll understand that you and him are just friends and thats how ya'll will stay, if she gets upset.... o well, she isn't a real friend if she doesnt understand
Reply:im sry to say...but u cant do anything you cant change a persons feelings....you could help her with her nervous problem so the next time she will get the guy....teach her to flirt really good then go out all three of you again....this time you shouldnt flirt!
Reply:If you and tha guy r JUST friends tell him he should understand...

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