To flirt or not to flirt ?..that is the question .?

I have this habit of shying away when someone flirts with me or smiles at me. that's why when i go to a club,pub or a bar, i tend to go with a group of friends , so i can have someone to keep my eyes at. i get nervous when i'm alone. When a guy approaches me i get so nervous and i end up looking snobbish . i can never make the first move. And this sucks , coz everytime i go out i find some guys interested in me but it's just so hard for me to flirt back :( how can i change that? damn it, been single for a whole year now and now its valentines and i think its time for me to get out there and do some man hunting .





Any suggestions ?


Thanks in advance ya'll


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To flirt or not to flirt ?..that is the question .?
Try LOOKING at the guys who flirt with you, for one. It doesn't seem logical to want someone to hug, but when someone expresses interest, you turn the other way! LOL.





And do try to go out alone (but in safe places, not seedy ones). I think having friends can be a convenient excuse (that I know from experience) and might be one of the few times friendship can be a drawback: they can inhibit you from forming other possibly romantic friendships.





Just go for it! Once you get the ball rolling, opening up to another person's interest, you may find yourself pleasantly surprised to get more extroverted. It's always the first step that's hardest, so go ahead and jump!





Happy hunting!
Reply:Try to get in places with less no of freinds and if some body finds u intresting and gives u the clue for the same, u told that u r uncomforatble facing him, why dont you ask fo his tel number and later on u can always call him. over the phone conversations becomes so easy and once u r comfotable wit the guy u can always mmet him and suddenlyu will find that all yr snubbishness has gone.
Reply:flirt back! there is no harm. some times you just have to call the bluff. you never know, you might just find mr right. if nothing else, simply have fun.
Reply:You will never find someone hiding under a rock or in the mist of friends. whats the worst people can say is no. Once thats said than move on. It's hard just keep doing it. someone will evetually connect with you.
Reply:Don't go with a group. Just go with one other girl who can kind of help break the ice for you, then she can say she has to go make a phone call or something.


Remember, the guys (some of them) are just as shy as you are.


Nobody likes rejection, but keep on trying.


And relax.


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Reply:dw i got the same prob ,first of all if a guy smiles at u YOU hes giving u a sign obviously sonu gotta either smile back.then it all starts from there......

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