I flirt on accident! help!?

I have a naturally flirty and energentic personality. When ever I talk to guys (weather I like them or not) I flirt. I don't mean to and I don't even realize it's happening until someone tells me I was flirting or until the the guy in question is long gone. Now there are guys I hardly know who think I like them!!


Is it normal to flirt on accident? How can I stop doing this to myself and set these guys straight? No insults please. And no I'm a **** or anything like that, just a flirty, energentic person.

I flirt on accident! help!?
I don't know how old you are or how old the guys are thyat you socialize with so I will assume 18-25.





Guys in that age group are looking for ANY opening to proceed with the "mating dance" if you know what I mean. If alcohol or drugs are involved it just magnifies the situation.





Be energetic, smile and enjoy; just be selective so that you aren't branded as a "tease". If you are asked to dance, be selective and learn how to say "No thanks" and then move to another group. Part of guys growing up is learning REJECTION; figure that you are training them for their future life.





Just learn to say "NO" with civil authority and you will be fine.





Good luck,


J
Reply:Are you flirting with me???
Reply:i kno exactly how you feel! i am the same way and it drives my boyfriend crazy! he says i flirt when i dont think i am! the best way i have figured out to deal with that "issue" is to really watch it and pay attention to my actions and when i see myself getting to that "flirty point" i just kinda back off haha ! idk its really hard!
Reply:open your eyes..you a ho...and change it