How to flirt with a lifeguard. And was he flirting with me?

This is at a swimming pool, and I asked to find out if he was flirting back with me and he was. He can get in trouble for that, so how do I sercertly flirt back? I'm going back to the swimming pool next week, and he will probably be there. I was also wereing a bikini, while I was there. So, could that be the reason, or somethingelse? I really need your help!


He kept walking really close to me, and while he was changing the trashcan bags, he looked at me and smiled. He also, kept looking at me while he was in his lifeguard chair? So...What do I do?

How to flirt with a lifeguard. And was he flirting with me?
Here a tip. Get to know him better before yougo on a date! He could be using you. But if you wanna know him better, just hand him a note going like, wanna chill at 5 or something? And you can get to know him a bit. NOTE: it's NOT a date!!





If you wanna flirt, just look at him and say, I see you've been working out, or Boy am I jealous of your Girlfriend! - With the second one, you can find out if he has a girlfriend. If he does, then ouch... If he doesn't, go like, Wow... this is my lucky day!
Reply:you already asked this - and i said just talk to him - first find out his name





thx
Reply:make believe u r drowning...lol
Reply:tell him to look at the pool and the drowning kids... or wear a thong or something.
Reply:Act like you're drowning.
Reply:omg, blast from the past! the story of my life is happening again.... to others. let me guess, he has an awesome body and maybe face too, and everygirl has a thing for him, and him for them! I choose to avoid him. the long exchange of looks, the silent longing, the crush. word of caution: find out if he has a girlfriend. now.
Reply:That is usely what life guards do they look around to keep people from drowning.Don't read more than it is .
Reply:umm.... ask him a question then quickly see if he has a sn or soemthing or e-mail then leave.... i guess thats a good way?
Reply:Wink at him or just act like you're drowning so he can come supposibly save you!!!
Reply:show your bikini..nothing says flirt like "this is me virtually naked" does it every time. should be illegal
Reply:He's a lifeguard. After he's off work get his number and the two of you can flirt as much as you want afterwards. He's working to save lives, he can't be doing that if he's staring at you and only you. You're distracting him. Just smile and nod and let him go about his work. He obviously has some interest in you, walk up to him when he's not sitting in the chair and ask for his number, or ask what he's doing after work, and if he wants to go grab a bite to eat?
Reply:No offense but I am sure you are not the only girl this guy flirts with so don't fall too hard!
Reply:He was just making sure you don't drown little lady, get over yourself.
Reply:Act like you are drowning, that will surely work,lol. How pathetic is that, you want to flirt with life guard,haha?
Reply:yes he can get in trouble for that and if u know he was flirting with u then u dont have to try as hard now........just smile at him and play around in the pool,even when hes in his lifeguard chair,swim over,smile and say"u should really join me in this pool".........when he says he cant,u say"oh well thats just too bad,your missing out" then just swim away..........dont forget yee are able to meet up once he isnt working so if he asks u on a date,accept it........
Reply:hmmmmmmmm
Reply:Do it when he's off duty.





He's a lifeguard, and he's there to keep people safe. If you distract him while he's working (unless he's on cleanup duty or something), you could be putting people's lives in jeopardy. That's why he could get in trouble for it. But his getting in trouble is another good reason for saving it.





Also, I don't want to be a spoilsport, but I just want to make sure you are absolutely clear that everybody suggesting that you fake drowning are joking. But even if you tried it, it probably wouldn't work. Unless he's stoned or an idiot, he should be able to tell you don't need mouth-to-mouth after dragging you out of the water but before actually performing it.





Flirt all you want as openly as you want when he's off work or charging admittance, and treat him like any other guy at this time.