How to flirt?

how do you flirt? like..i can recognize someone flirting but like i cant put it into words..idk if i flirt with guys cuz im not sure what exactly you do...could someone please explain?

How to flirt?
STEP 1: Start by working on your self-esteem. The underlying key to all flirtation is confidence, the magical charm that makes others want to get to know you.





STEP 2: Smile, smile, smile.





STEP 3: Think playful thoughts when gearing up to flirt. Flirts are fun and engaging, and they love to play with others.





STEP 4: Compliment a stranger or acquaintance on his or her clothes, eyes, smile or sense of humor for starters.





STEP 5: Keep your body language open and inviting: make eye contact, lightly touch the person's hand or arm when telling a story, toss your head back when you laugh.





STEP 6: Initiate stimulating conversation. At a loss for words? Ask open-ended questions about the flirtee's job, hometown, family, recent movies seen, or thoughts about a painting on the wall.





STEP 7: Open up about yourself, giving someone even more reason to like you. But don't go on and on - the goal is to engage and intrigue, not bore.





STEP 8: Gauge the person's interest carefully. If you sense a flashing red light - or worse, smug ridicule - make your exit graciously, and immediately. You've got nicer people to meet.





STEP 9: Progress in your flirtation, paying attention to cues from the object of your interest. If you perceive a sensual or sexual connection, make a bold move - ask for a date.





*******Tips %26amp; Warnings*******





--Avoid negative body language such as crossing your arms, scowling, appearing overly stressed, looking downward or walking in a hurry when you don't really need to.





--Give yourself time to learn what types of conversation starters work for you.





--Practice flirting whenever you can - at the grocery store or Laundromat, or with your friends.





--Sexually suggestive remarks or touching are inappropriate among co-workers. Keep any office flirting G-rated at all times.





I hope you get what you want. Ciao
Reply:Flirting is giving extra usually physical attention to another person. You smile, touch their arms or shoulders... ask someone who's with you often.
Reply:it's looking into someones eyes and laughing at what they say, playfully pushing them a bit and standing closer than you usually would with someone else.
Reply:its just sumthin that comes naturaly i think.. u either got or u dont