Monday, November 16, 2009

My husband is a Big Flirt and sometimes girls misinterpret it,I want him to stop. Am I wrong?

I know he loves me. And I love him. But I think it is disrespectful when he flirts with other woman. He should only flirt with me. He did cheat on me before we got married and I forgave him for it,because I love him. But the flirting hurts sometimes. Girls hang around him all the time and it bugs me.What do I do? am I wrong?He is true to me now, but sometimes the flirting games offend me.Maybe I am a little scared of losing him. I hate feeling thi sway,I really try not to let it bother me, but it does. I can handle mild flirtation,but soemtimes the flirting gets outta hand. Then some girls won't back off.He comes home to me every night so I know he isn't cheating. Do you think I am getting too upset over it?

My husband is a Big Flirt and sometimes girls misinterpret it,I want him to stop. Am I wrong?
You don't think he can cheat during the day! You are very naive. You are not wrong to be concerned. Chances are if he is flirting with other women, he is probably cheating too.
Reply:By the way ,I work with my husband,so I am not naive, so for those narrow minded ppl that believe the worst, you are so Very wrong. And for the person that mentioned the makeover, thanks, but I look good and my husband thinks I am beautiful. Report It

Reply:Flirt man never changes. but if u think (Knows) he loves u than only it possible. man always want different tastes but that means don't change the way U cook, CHANGE THE WAY U LOOK. Makeover yourself. He'll definitely come to U.GOD BLESS U.
Reply:No I don't think you are...I'd tell him how you feel...lay it all out for him...that's the right way to go about it...or...do what he's doing..flirt with other men...see what he says....most men seem to think what they do in regards to that is alright for them..not for "their" woman...
Reply:Blatantly flirt with someone else and immediately monitor his reaction and if he does react negatively then open the floor for discussion if not then address it later by recalling the episode and asking him how he felt then express your concerns. Hint men respond a lot better to a level conversation versus an emotional outburst and yelling, well most men do. For some reason I personally take a woman more seriously when she is calm because i know SHE is speaking to me and NOT her emotions.
Reply:Try talking to your husband, not shouting. Tell him how it makes you feel %26amp; tell him that if this is his way of trying to get attention his got yours already and that should be enough. Ask him how it would make him feel if you were the one doing this flirting. He should understand that as a married couple whatever he does reflects on you,(there should be some kind of respect; dignity etc.) Talk to your husband before his flirting leads to another affair.


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