How to flirt with guys...difference between flirting and talking?

If I'm talking with a guy, how do I know if he's flirting, and how do I flirt back? How can I make sure he knows I'm not just talking but I'm flirting?

How to flirt with guys...difference between flirting and talking?
here are some ways to know if he is flirting...


1. he is playing with ur hair, like playing with it in his hands or even a stupid thing: blowing on it. i know, dumb.


2. he touches u.


3. he will do ANYTHING to hold ur hand or even SIT nnext to u.


4. he will make lame excuses like..."hey i dont know what to do with the math hw, the test is tomorrow nad i dont get it, can u stay in the library with me after school so that you can help me prepare?" when you KNOW he is a math wiz.


5. he laughs with u a lot


6. he looks DEEPLY into ur eyes





here are some ways to flirt back...


1. you can talk to him suddenly like randomly


2. u hold/touch his hand while talking to him


3. u giggle... A LOT.


4. you play around with ur hair when u see him looking at u or figgit with ur dress or skirt of shirt or whatever ur wearing


5. u look DEEPLY in his eyes when hes looking at u


*notice that if he is looking back, he likes u.


6. u give him sudden hugs


7. just tell him u like him!!!!
Reply:I think flirting is an automatic thing. If you feel it, you WILL send signals to the guy, even if you try not to. And the guy WILL get them, although what he does about it is something else.


I think trusting your feelings is best here. Don't second guess them. The minute the conversation is over take a moment to see how you feel. Do you feel warm, exited, electric? Or dissappointed? If you feel exited, he probably likes you. If you feel kind of empty and dissappointed, it's probably a zero and you should move on. Using your head too much will get you in trouble every time.


If you do get the exited feeling, you should probably use some of the techniques outlined in the other answers. Lots of guys have crazy stuff going on in there heads too that say, "I know I feel exited when I'm with her but...." So maybe they need some extra encouragement to cross the line and ask you for a date.
Reply:tease him playfully and touch him a lot!
Reply:flirting has definative sexual inuendo to it..





body language...people face each other dirrectly and tend to lean slightly toward the other when flirting,





eye contact .... dirrect but soft gaze ("bed room eyes" ), Eyes are not "flat" but engaged and watch the other person.


Pupils are reactive...dialate.





tone of voice...more modulation of pitch,





the occassional use of harmless double inuendos.





Joking.





Light smile. Quick to laugh or giggle.





Questions about the other person's likes/dislikes.





Displaying...a woman or man "stretches"...subtly...or not so subtly...showing off chest/arm muscles or breast outline.





Adjusting clothes to be slightly more revealing...loosening a button on a shirt because it's "hot" in the room.





Space between the persons decreases over time.





Flushing...color in face is high..flush or blush to cheeks.





Touching...a very occassional and light touch on the arm...maybe leg or back





The more bold in sexual tone of the body language, the closer the distance between the two people, the longer and more frequent the "touch time" and the more sexually flagrant the inuendos become...the "heavier" the flirting. Generally the overall activity has a higher energy level/feel to it compared with just talking. It's a dance done on many levels...conscious and sub Done well, both parties feel good about themselves and the other person. But an overt mistep will make either party look like a sl*t or a letcher.





"Talking"





talking is more about factual data and the delivery is such...flatter tone, somewhat flat gaze...may be indirrect..like talking while looking at a PC monitor.... zero compliments about personal appearance, little to no discussion about personal likes/dislikes, body posture is more upright and/or disaligned. little to no humor injected into the event. Zero touching....ESPECIALLY in the business world (Sexual harassment charges)








good luck, have fun, be careful
Reply:Act playfull, but not like a little kid. Do it in a sexy or cute way. #1 Tip: Be confident.
Reply:When you are talking about each other's bodies and what you would like to do if you got the chance to be with each other that is a pretty good indication that it is flirting. If the guy is talking about a baseball game he is probably not flirting.