i am one of the BIGGEST flirts and i am always flirting. its the best part of school to me! i always hug a guy, touch his hands or shoulders, smile, hold their hands, mess with their hair, andwear their jackters. some girls dont like me b/c i flirt with their bfs or the guys they like. but i dont even try to do it! its not like im a bitchy oerson. i think its actually automatic. whenever i see a member of the opposite sex, my charm and flirtaciousness just turns on and i dont even notice. i am NOT a sllut and i dont dress like one either. in fact, this guy turned me down because i was too much of a goody goody! so im not a slut, but i am a HUGEEE flirt. i am constantly flirting. is that bad, wrong, or unfair to the guys, if i always touch them, giggle, and flirt?
I love to flirt even if i dont like the guy is that bad?
You seem to have a wonderful personality and flirting is your way of making others feel good. It's not that there is anything wrong with flirting, but you should have some where-with-all to know WHEN AND WHO to flirt with. If you know the guy has a girl - why cause dissention between them with your 'honest' flirting. You know how girls are - it's a sure way to create some tension and drama. You need to pick and choose - a woman who is confident within herself and enjoys a certain amount of flirting knows how far to go with it - if you are flirting with other girls boyfriends in the way you have described - you're going to have a lot of enemies. Also, when you think about it - boys - don't understand flirting...they think it's a sign that YOU REALLY LIKE THEM and you WANT THEM and they mis read the message, and honestly, you could get hurt, if you ran into someone who mistook your honest and sincere 'flirting' for something more. Please be careful.
Reply:I think it is not fair to give them the impression that you like them. Also it is no wonder the girls do not like it either. You need to cool it and flirt only with those who you have a true interest. You must be insecure to want all the attention.
Reply:no is not bad...
i enjoy too...its great...
u just have to be careful tho cause some guys interpret it differently and might really get pissed and try to take revenge if they found out u were just flirtin and u actually didnt like them...
u dont wanna get into fights with girls because u were flirtin with their boyfriends...
u should b careful...its ok if u flirt with guys who dont have girlfriends and r not themselves looking for a serious relationship...
Reply:I do the same thing, just make sure you don't lead anyone on and you'll be fine. Ignore the girls, if they flirted more with their boyfriends they wouldn't be worried.
Reply:Oh my gosh, are you a Gemini? They're the flirts that don't know they're flirting.
It's fine. Just don't lead them on, or look too desperate, and try not to do it to girls boyfriends!!
Reply:now days its wrong to do. you just don't know who you do that to. and how thay will take it
Reply:One day you are going to get the wrong man mad
and you will pay for it. Do you not realize that today
you need to be careful as people are not what
they once were. Society has made them more
aggresive, and with you flirting as much as you say
you do , one day you will come across that man
that will take what you perseive to dish out. If you
are a good sexy looking lady you do not need to
flirt as you will be noticed, but to me flirting as
much as you say you do turns a man off as he
knows you do it to all men and that makes you
look like a slut even though you may not be.
So be careful who you flirt for.
Reply:if u dont have a baf, dont flirt...if you do, if your a flirt, act like one.
Reply:no there is nothing wrong with flirting though you may want to stay clear of the taken guys, dont want to get into a fight with another girl for nothing, and sometimes you mite be leading a guy the wrong way but as long as you keep you'r boundaries flirting is perfectly fine, its sometimes even a good icebreaker with the shyer people so no need to worry about it
Reply:I acted just like you in school%26gt; But no its not OK. You will find out sooner or later it gets you in situations that are very bad. Some people would also refer to you as a tease. Its fun but it will cost ya.
Reply:it isnt really a bad thing until u lead him on....just if we ever meet try not to flirt..unless u mean it
Reply:be you boo!!!!!
Reply:it is wrong and unfair, which you more than likely know or you wouldn't have said that. do what you will, but one day, that will end up getting you in HUGE trouble. you'll flirt with the wrong girl's boyfriend, or lead on the wrong guy.... and it'll be no good
besides, who wants a girlfriend who hangs around all those guys anyway? who would trust someone like that?
Reply:no , I'm the same way i flirt with guys that i don't even like its fun
Reply:Greetings! I am Princess Queller of the fifth royal house of Atlantis. In Atlantis such behavior is regarded as distastful and is treated as such. farwell!
Reply:no lie, it makes you look slutty. youll continue to have trouble w/ girls liking you as thier friend. it only hurts guys when you lead them on and your only hurting yourself. your better than that. if you dont take this flirting thing seriously they wont take you seriously and you will only end up with crappy guys. fun flirting is okay ocasionaly but what you are discribing only hurts, it helps no one and its selfish
Reply:Well people will either become really attracted to your personality, or they'll think you're a slut. I'm not saying that it's bad, but it probably hurts the dudes feelings and if you're pretty they probably get into fights over you. Flirt all you want, just be careful. if people don't like it they are jealous, but as long as you don't give anyone reason, no one important will honestly believe you are a slut or bad person or what have you.
Reply:i know how you feel cuz im just like you and i dont think its bad i consider it a way of making very close friends
Reply:you're a very good example of a very insecure woman.
Reply:lol im the same way and no its not bad some chiks h8e me for it to until they see i do that to almost every guy just try not to if you know the guy is taken and you should b ok!! but isnt it fun heck yes lol ppl have called me a tease cause of it but they were playin
Reply:take control of yourself. your advances to every guy you meet may be unwelcome or could be misunderstood. flirting with other girls guys is also a no no. its rude and insulting to their relationship. You may be doing this all the time to get male attention that you were lacking in your life. If you really cant stop then you may need help from a counselor.
Reply:I don' think it is bad to flirt at all. I think it is natural for allot of women. Just be careful who you flirt with cause you might really piss off the wrong girlfriend. Also, when you are older you may have to be careful who you flirt with because when you are out drinking and give a guy an inch he sees it as a mile.
Reply:yes your hurting all the other girls feeling and you might not know it but some of the boys might think your a hoe
Reply:its not bad my frnd but coming to such a large number of boys all of them wudnot take it in a easy way
so try to jst hangout with only a sinbgle boy....
it s my advice
wat u do is u better quit from the place when a boy appears in front of u
is it ok
in this way u can atleast reduce ur flirting.......
and try to keep control on ur feelings somethng like hugging, holding their hands, smiling, playing with their hair.....
ok my frnd
pls feel free to contact me in case of any other extra information....
i will definitely clear ur doubts
is it ok my frnd????
i wish u all the very best
bye
Reply:its not bad but its not good either. it might give the guy a wrong impression and he may think that u have a thing for him. also you don't want to have a bad reputation as the girl who flirts with other girls boyfriends. even though ur not a slut people may think u r...just cuz of wat they see.
Reply:NOOOO NOT AT ALL.. IF YOU WANT TO BE A CONVERSATION AT EVERY TRUCK STOP AND SCHOOL BOYS LOCKER THAT'S UP TO YOU.. EVEN IF SOME LAUGH AND THINK YOUR "EASY.. FLIRT GIRL" REMEMBER ..STORIES GET BIGGER WHEN THERE TOLD ..
Reply:It is bad because you are leading these poor guys on. When a girl flirts with you as much as you describe, a guy gets the idea that she has the hots for him. When he finds out she didn't he usually feels hurt by it and thinks she's a b-word even if she doesn't think she is one. You can think you are a goody goody all you want but the guys you push off still won't think so.
Reply:You are who you are and no one here is going to change that
You will continue to flirt because its like a drug to you
Can you change .. probably not (you dont want to)
Are you hurting people.. only the ones who have boyfriends
Will some guy take you seriously.. probably not because they can see what you are doing (do you think they want that type of girl in there life.... nope)
And yeah boys will come and go in your relationships, then come and go come and go
You keep having fun .. sham you wont be taken seriously
Reply:You are sending the wrong signals and they will certainly get the wrong idea and think you want something else.
Reply:you should flirt. its actually a sexy thing. I am too, im me to chat now
Reply:It can be bad when you don't respect other girls' relationships or you lead guys on for the purpose of selfish gratification. You have to put yourself in others' shoes and ask yourself how this is benefitting the other person other than for your own attention. Just because you can- doesn't make it okay.
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