Im a huge flirt but this year i want a relationship, but im confused...help!?

so, im a really big flirt, and guys are usually always flirting with me, whether im with my friends, or standing right next to my boyfriend. if im with a boyfriend i dont really flirt back. but if im with someone else, ill flirt with everyyyyone. ive never really been in an actual realationship before, or been in love. and this year i want to be in an actual relationship, and this will be my first year in highschool, and i have a big thing for guys a few years older than me and i always end up liking the guys who date alot of girls....but im scared that my flirting will get in the way..or that i wont find a good guy and whenever i get a boyfriend their just going to keep trying to convince me to get in bed with them..or something else...i dont know what i should do. relationship? or stick with dating and flirting?

Im a huge flirt but this year i want a relationship, but im confused...help!?
well, my opinion is dont flirt a lot because it makes u look desperateand wants to sleep with anyone. flirt only if u like someone and u want to be his gf. dont flirt with every boy u see. and if u have a bf, dont flirt with anyone else or hell just dump u.
Reply:keep dating until you date the right one for you and that will lead you into a relationship that you are looking for and make you happy don't jump in bed with anybody until you find the right one it will take some time but if they make you happy and love you that's all you will need
Reply:First year in high school and u're stressing relationships? You need to mature some more...
Reply:Tone down the flirting on all guys. Focus it on the one you like the most.
Reply:I'd totally choose the relationship. Flirting is fun, but you have to realize that if you make it TOO easy around guys, they disrespect you and then lose interest. And it's not fair for your boyfriend to have to worry that you're out flirting up a storm with another guy while he's away. He could assume that you're cheating on him, break up with you, and then spread the word around that you're a you-know-what (even though you're not!).


Being in a relationship is amazing. You feel content around guys, and knowing that you're with a guy who loves you and thinks you're great is such a great feeling and one you shouldn't miss out on once you get older. High school is a time when you should be dating and trying to find closer relationships with guys because this helps you find the one whom your going to be with for the rest of your life once you reach adulthood.


And a thing about upperclassmen guys: they're only looking for fun when they go out with younger girls. They're pervish that way. Try to stick with the freshmen and sophomore guys, and if you do find an upperclassmen you wants to be with you, make sure it's for the right reasons. Good luck!
Reply:You are younge. And a relasionship isn't what you need going into highschool.





Wait for the guy you want to come along, and not cheating, not flirting, and doing the right thing will be that much easier, because... You'll have something gain/keep from it.
Reply:Go for what you want just do it smartly. And maybe you will get hurt alot before you find the one but all those poor guys you probably hurt in the past when you said "not looking for a relationship"