Y do i flirt w.o noein i am?

k, i'm a really shy girl when it comes to guys, i've never flirted in ma entire life...but lately aparently ma friends tell me i been flirtin w. this kid n idk when i'm doin it, like i'm just bein me.... i dun mean to flirt, startin cuz i dun even like him as anythin mo than a friend;; but its so confusin cuz i wanna stop talkin to him cuz he already liked me befo n i dun want him to get the wrong idea, but its hard cuz we tight..... but then i like this otha kid n i cant flirt w. him,. i get like so clueless i always end up bein all clumsy n retarded in front of him;; he thinks its cute, but its like so weird..... icant flirt when i want to but i flirt when i dun really care....so any1 noe how to stop flirtin w.o flirtin?? o.O








like i'm like SUPER shy, i turn red fo everythin, n idk how to stop bein so shy .... so i dun get how can sum1 shy b called sexy or anythin like tat? o.O





i'm so lost....

Y do i flirt w.o noein i am?
you shouldn't change yourself for a guy


if your crush thinks your behavior is cute, then he's accepting you for who you are.


if the flirting you do with your guy friend bothers him, then he'd let you know and i guess you'll find some way to stop but other than that, he's a friend right? harmless flirting is fun.


when you don't care about the guy in "that" way, of course i guess you arent nervous and the flirting comes naturally. That's what happens to me. when i like a guy, he stumps me and he thinks its so cute how i get all clumsy.


be yourself, that's all that matters.





answer mine?


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/;_ylc=...
Reply:Psh, I've been told that I was "flirting" with so many guys,


it's like...never true.


Treat him the same way you do your other friends. Nothing more nothing less.





Answer my question?


It's in my profile....
Reply:If only you were able to use proper English during that question... I believe the answer to your question (or what i understood of it) is that you really cant do that consciously. I bet that subconsciously you like the guy that your friends say you flirt with... No i am kidding. I think that since you are single it is just natural for you to flirt with him.
Reply:I'm not even going to finish reading your question, solely because you used stupid slang that 9 yr olds use.





so annoying.
Reply:I'm shy too. I would date with you. Your wordsof love flatter me.
Reply:if your friends are really your friends they should belive you. if not then make them take you seriously