How do I flirt with a girl who does not start the flirting?

She doesn't initiate any of the flirting, but when we do flirt she gets into it. Normally I dont put any thought into it, it just happens, but this girl is more shy than I am used to. I dont know what to do because normally im flirting before i realize I am, but not with her. How can i get her to flirt?





And if it matters, I have an inside tip (from her best friend) that she likes me. And im 18 if that matters.

How do I flirt with a girl who does not start the flirting?
You can't "get her to flirt".





The more you don't think about it, the more you relax and let things happen, the happier you'll be and the more pleasant it will be when flirting happens naturally. Also, practice flirting with strangers to sharpen your game and keep other "irons in the fire."
Reply:Man just simply start flirting with her. Or you could simply ask her out.
Reply:the more that you flirt, the more comfortable she will get around you, so keep flirting and eventually she will start flirting back, or you could just ask her out
Reply:Tom!?!?! your my friend on myspace!!! haha, jk, sorry...








really, back to the subject, pick up lines are considered cheap ways to ask a girl and typically girls who go for them don't last long... so no pick up lines. looking at her and keep looking at her when she looks then turn back after a couple seconds or so. work like %50 of the time, then just one time go up and ask her for a dance or somting
Reply:Just keep flirting with her, i know it's a pain to start it, but once she gets comfertable around you, she'll come out of her shell and then she'll be flirting with you all the time :)





I think it's really cute :) good luck!
Reply:figure **** out by yourself, do you think the early people had yahoo answers to help them flirt with cavewomen
Reply:ask her on a date... she is afraid to flirt with you cause she doenst know you... if you ask her on a date.. and you know she likes you.. then she is most likely going to say yes... then you will get to know her better she will get to know you better and then the next time you flirt with her she prob wont be so shy.
Reply:Try to make it so that she gets comfortable around you. Like hang out with her more, tell her things, share stuff. Eventually she'll grow comfortable around you and that's that.
Reply:give her a hug from behind and say how cute she looks, that will get you and her going, and then you just go along for the ride.





Letting it go naturally after that is when the magic will hapen.
Reply:Talk dirty to her and have her call you daddy.